Finally admitted I am bisexual

[Gods_Favorite]

I finally told my girlfriend last night I am bisexual, for me this was no easy task. I have had 2 experiences with other men, I recieved a sensual massage from another man and I got a blowjob from another guy I met on Craigslist. I have also had sex with a transgender twice, I have never told another soul about that experience, including my girlfriend who I have told about my other 2 male/male experiences. I have been fantasizing about male/male sex for the past 7 years when I masturbate, usually about a guy giving me head. Lately my cravings have grown stronger, I pretty much fantasize about doing it all with a guy, sucking cock, 69ing, nipple play, ass eating, kissing etc. My girlfriend talks dirty to me about being me playing with other guys when we have sex, shes been doing that for the last year and a half and its added fuel to the fire. Last night when we were in bed I told her I am bisexual, I have a need and craving to be sexual with other men, and I can't help it. I have tried to push my fantasies in the back of my mind, I have tried watching more str8 porn and looking at women to bury these fantasies but they will not go away. My girlfriend told me she had suspected I was bi when I told her about my 2 male/male experiences and how hard my cock gets when she talks dirty to me about other men. She told me she still loves me and is ok with it if I need to play with other guys, my birthday is coming up in November and I am planing to get a hotel room for a few hours and satisfy my urgers with another man. Basically I have finally admitted to myself, I am a bisexual man. I know its strange but I always get a little turned on when I admit it to myself and it feels liberating as well.

 

[dave's thing]

Congrats.
Hope it feels good to be out.

 

[Gods_Favorite]

Congrats.
Hope it feels good to be out.

It feels good to admit it but it doesn't change who I am, I don't feel like I need to be in any special groups or anything for my sexuality. I don't think my sexuality defines me as a person, I have told my girlfriend about being bi but I will not tell any of my friends or relatives because they will think differently of me and thats not what I want, being bisexual doesn't change a damn thing about me.

 

[sensual37]

It feels good to admit it but it doesn't change who I am, I don't feel like I need to be in any special groups or anything for my sexuality. I don't think my sexuality defines me as a person, I have told my girlfriend about being bi but I will not tell any of my friends or relatives because they will think differently of me and thats not what I want, being bisexual doesn't change a damn thing about me.

This post is exactly how I feel about the subject. You and I are in the same boat.

 

[Bystander]

glad to know she took it so well

 

[Girl2P4U]

good for you, be yourself and enjoy every aspect of your sexuality.

 

[grdas]

It's a nice feeling, isn't it? Having articulated at some point makes it all the more real, and while I agree it's a reasonably personal matter when the focus is so sexual (as seems to be the case with you), knowing that you've made your interests clear in a meaningful way is freeing. It's great that your girlfriend is so accepting.

 

[Gods_Favorite]

It's a nice feeling, isn't it? Having articulated at some point makes it all the more real, and while I agree it's a reasonably personal matter when the focus is so sexual (as seems to be the case with you), knowing that you've made your interests clear in a meaningful way is freeing. It's great that your girlfriend is so accepting.

It is a nice feeling, I feel like I have weight lifted off my back by admitting I am bisexual instead of just telling myself I'm straight because if I was just straight I wouldn't be having sexual desires for men like this. Its wierd because I don't look at a man and think hes hot or anything like I do with girls, but I fantasize about men sexually. And your right my interests in men is just sexual so I don't think anyone else needs to know besides my gf, I'm not looking for a relationship or anything emotional with a man, I'm just looking to explore more sexually with no strings attached.

 

[underguy1]

On the general topic of coming out ......

About 10 years ago I was staying with my older sister and somehow the subject of sexuality came up in conversation.

I'd had a few beers and for some reason I thought to hell with it I'll admit to her that i'm bi. So I told her straight out that I was.

Funny thing is, she had known for years it turned out. Apparently she'd walked into my parents house once to find me being fucked doggy style by a guy and had discretely let herself out again.

Turns out that she's bi as well and has had a long running affair with a friend of a friend of mine, who I knew to be a lesbian.

We both had a few laughs out of that.

 

[klippert]

speical girlfriend

sound to me you have a special girlfriend there. are you still interested in women...I have had a cpl of M/M and a year plus fling with a married cpl....My main interest is women my urge was cock......and MMF......you sound more interested in men, or did I miss something

have fun....safe fun

 

[Gods_Favorite]

sound to me you have a special girlfriend there. are you still interested in women...I have had a cpl of M/M and a year plus fling with a married cpl....My main interest is women my urge was cock......and MMF......you sound more interested in men, or did I miss something

have fun....safe fun

Yes I am still interested in women otherwise I would not be with my girlfriend. My desires for other men is striclty sexual, I am not looking to have an emotional relationship with a man and be lovey dovey or anything just sex. When I'm out in public I check out other women and think nasty thoughts just like any other str8 guy, I don't do that when I see other men. This is something that I am still coming to terms with but as of now if I had to choose with being stuck on a desert island with a man or a woman it would be a woman.

 

[sensual37]

I find myself just like you Gods Favorite, with a small exception. The sexual fantasies that I have for men always include being soft, gentle, and emotional. None of the wham bam thank you man stuff. It's means oriented, and must be sensual, as my username implies.

 

[Gods_Favorite]

I find myself just like you Gods Favorite, with a small exception. The sexual fantasies that I have for men always include being soft, gentle, and emotional. None of the wham bam thank you man stuff. It's means oriented, and must be sensual, as my username implies.

My sexual fantasies around men are usually sweaty, raunchy, lustful and wanting, not romantic in the least.