Feeling stupid

[sensiblegirl]

I know I can't be the only one out there who feels stupid after communicating with someone you meet here and having it take a wrong turn and get a little ugly.

I've chatted with some really nice people, too. But right now it's hard to remember that because I just feel so stupid. Please let me know I'm not alone in this experience...

 

[Saint Peter]

If you do not want to get ugly, don't get ugly. You can only control your actions, not theirs.

 

[lovetoread]

I know I can't be the only one out there who feels stupid after communicating with someone you meet here and having it take a wrong turn and get a little ugly.

I've chatted with some really nice people, too. But right now it's hard to remember that because I just feel so stupid. Please let me know I'm not alone in this experience...

Was he married or was she a "he"?

 

[sensiblegirl]

I don't think I was ugly - just the situation. Just looking for some reassurance.

 

[Saint Peter]

Was he married or was she a "he"?

He was a Republican.



I feel so cheap and used.

 

[Tryharder62]

Don't feel stupid. It's easy to get taken in when you don't really know someone and they can hide behind their computer. Just learn from it and move on even though it hurts.

 

[lovetoread]

He was a Republican.



I feel so cheap and used.

Aww, there there...

It's better to find out now rather than later.

 

[Wings]

He was a Republican.



I feel so cheap and used.

I really hate when things get hot and heavy, we're both moaning and groaning and suddenly he whispers in my ear "I voted for Romney".

Fuck. Boner killer for sure.

 

[Saint Peter]

"Do you want to be the congressman or do you want to be the intern?"

 

[Wings]

I don't mind playing Clinton/Lewinsky. My dress is green but it's almost the same thing.

 

[neci]

I really hate when things get hot and heavy, we're both moaning and groaning and suddenly he whispers in my ear "I voted for Romney".

Fuck. Boner killer for sure.

that's when you stick your fist up his ass and bite.

 

[Wings]

that's when you stick your fist up his ass and bite.

...bite his ass? That's too close to my fist.

 

[neci]

...bite his ass? That's too close to my fist.

or balls.

 

[Wings]

or balls.

Brilliant!

 

[neci]

Brilliant!

sometimes it gets a little ugly.

 

[Wings]

sometimes it gets a little ugly.

Sometimes you have to pretend he's a bucking bronco while he tries like hell to dismount you whilst the biting is happening.

Sex can be so exciting!

 

[neci]

Sometimes you have to pretend he's a bucking bronco while he tries like hell to dismount you whilst the biting is happening.

Sex can be so exciting!

good god, i need my bronco. do you think you could break a bronco?

 

[Wings]

good god, i need my bronco. do you think you could break a bronco?

I'm not really sure but it would be a blast to try.

 

[neci]

I'm not really sure but it would be a blast to try.

that's the truth.

 

[WeedSmoke420]

If you do not want to get ugly, don't get ugly. You can only control your actions, not theirs.

..............

 

[Aquagal]

I know I can't be the only one out there who feels stupid after communicating with someone you meet here and having it take a wrong turn and get a little ugly.

I've chatted with some really nice people, too. But right now it's hard to remember that because I just feel so stupid. Please let me know I'm not alone in this experience...

This is the place for you!

 

[pointless]

just drink more. that seems to work for most people here. i mean, they're all really fucking stupid still, but they don't really notice it too much. maybe they're just really good at repressing, but i'm getting bored with typing this shit out so that's about as much as you're going to get out of me.

 

[Noor]

Please don't feel stupid, communication problems and misunderstandings happen even with nice people.

Yes, some people here are creeps or get the wrong end of the stick, but most times people just have bad days, weeks or months can that can make things go weird quickly.

For myself, sometimes I am not together enough to end a conversation when it seems to be going wrong because I don't really notice the shift when it happens. Sometimes it's them, sometimes it's me but much of the time it is some combination both of us.

It never hurts to step back if things feel off and talk again later.

 

[islandman]

I know I can't be the only one out there who feels stupid after communicating with someone you meet here and having it take a wrong turn and get a little ugly.

I've chatted with some really nice people, too. But right now it's hard to remember that because I just feel so stupid. Please let me know I'm not alone in this experience...

I'm sorry.

 

[warrior queen]

Stop.
Learn.
Move on.