face slapping

[IrisAlthea]

I was smacked in the face a lot by my father, so it doesn't rub me the right way. I don't mind getting my jaw squeezed tightly....but no slapping. I'll get very angry if so.

I am incredibly sensitive, it has taken me a long time to develop the tough skin that I now have.

I can relate to that.
It would still make me furious if someone slapped me in the face and it is not something I would want to do to anyone I cared about.

 

[WillowedCabin]

feminist fucking and slapping shrinks

face slapping is like face spitting. always a suprise to my feminist sensibility and always always the thing that brings me to my knees in a wonderful, erotic, weird way. it melts that feminist veneer away and in a second, reminds me of where i want to be.

I'm not sure feminism has anything to do with what you like in the bedroom. There is no need to 'melt that feminist veneer away', for really, if you have chosen to be doing this activity, then you are a feminist. If you are controlling what you would like in your sex life, regardless of what society says is normal for a woman's sex life, then you have a pro-feminist sex life. Bottom line, if you choose it honey, you're having feminist sex.

And feminists always fuck the best

**on the matter of face slapping and domestic abuse;
This is a rather personal matter for me as I cannot stand the idea of someone slapping my face because of childhood trauma; pull my hair, pour hot wax on me, spank me, slap my breasts... but, face slapping? Immediately sounds the alarm bells and the water works.

But, perhaps that's okay. Maybe why the face slapping puts us in a bad place, is merely because we haven't dealt with this childhood trauma yet.

Has anyone thought of B/s as a form of therapy before?
Or am I just a too new-age, hippie for y'all?

 

[JustaSCOUNDREL]

(snip)
Has anyone thought of B/s as a form of therapy before?
Or am I just a too new-age, hippie for y'all?

New age hippie? O.K. if you say so but I will admit I don't have a clue what B/s is. A little help please.

As to the face slapping part set it as a "Hard Limit" with who ever you may be playing with. Both myself and my slave like it but it is not a must to for ether one of us.

Mike

 

[SlaveAtHeart]

Once upon a time, I was very much against it due to the social stigmas placed on it even though I had fantasized about such things and worse. Then I had a teacher.

I've come to find that I deeply enjoy pain. The more intense the pain, the more intense the pleasure.

I know that there are some out there that are going to have a stroke over this, but I am going to say it anyhow. I know. I use to be one of those people who would have had a stroke. lol

For some, a face slap is like being whipped with a length of silk. You grasp the concept of what is being done, but it is just not enough. Well. Not that it is not enough, but you want, yearn for, can handle more and will even beg for it.

There is risk of injury in just about everything we do in life, even breathe. In every other aspect of my life, I am a overly safe person, always in fear of injury. With the right person, that fear is removed as it is replaced with trust.

 

[Sirownsme]

my Master has just recently slapped me in the face while i was sucking his cock but he had the respect to ask me first if i want to try it and if i didnt like it then he wouldnt do it again. i did enjoy it very much and he has done it a few other times since not hard enough to leave any lasting marks but hard enough for me to get pleasure from it.... it was a big turn on for me and grant you it wont happen everyday i suck his cock but occasionally i wouldnt mind at all

 

[laceNlthrgrrl]

If done with reasonable care and caution, it can be hot.

but...what is B/s? (on a bad day I'd say Bastard/submissive, but that's just me)