F**k off I'm tired!

[Just-Legal]

One day, he'll understand while I may be a nymphomaniac in spirit, I cannot physically manage sex ON TAP all the time. I have work that takes me up to an hour and a half to get to / home from, so I am up at a riddiculous hour in the morning.

JUST BECAUSE I DON'T WANT TO HAVE SEX, IT DOES NOT MEAN I DON'T LOVE YOU!

One day, he will get this.

Jeezus.

 

[Guest]

sucks to have to pratically scream it for them to hear.
"babe, im bone weary and i just dont want to tonight."
=
"ill be right there, break out the ky"

"FUCK OFF YOU BASTARD...GO WANK!"
=
"i might be interested soon"

 

[Just-Legal]

Or even better, he wakes me up in the middle of the night when he's horny, and then gets all huffy when I'm half asleep and telling him to sod off.

And you know, it doesn't help my sex drive that we live with my fucking SISTER...

*fumes*

 

[scheherazade_79]

I feel for you, JL. Been there lots of times with my ex. It was a long distance relationship. She lived in the US, and the word "jetlag" didn't exist in her vocabulary. It's a horrible situation, because you're only left with two options - pretend that you're up for it and enjoying it and fake orgasm, or be brutally honest and leave yourself open to all the accusations of not loving them anymore etc.

When I'm really tired, a cuddle is always a million times better than sex. When I find a woman who understands that, I'll probably marry her.

 

[NoJo]

One day, he'll understand while I may be a nymphomaniac in spirit, I cannot physically manage sex ON TAP all the time. I have work that takes me up to an hour and a half to get to / home from, so I am up at a riddiculous hour in the morning.

JUST BECAUSE I DON'T WANT TO HAVE SEX, IT DOES NOT MEAN I DON'T LOVE YOU!

One day, he will get this.

Jeezus.

Not trying to defend the male of the species, but he's probably really frustrated, and I sympathise with him, as well as you. I know it sounds unromantic, but you may need to literally make a date in your diaries to have sex.

 

[matriarch]

I feel for you, JL. Been there lots of times with my ex. It was a long distance relationship. She lived in the US, and the word "jetlag" didn't exist in her vocabulary. It's a horrible situation, because you're only left with two options - pretend that you're up for it and enjoying it and fake orgasm, or be brutally honest and leave yourself open to all the accusations of not loving them anymore etc.

When I'm really tired, a cuddle is always a million times better than sex. When I find a woman who understands that, I'll probably marry her.

My hugs are noted in the local attraction leaflet, as a 'not to be missed experience'.

 

[Boota]

Years ago my girlfriend and I had scheduled sex every Friday night. When people found out, it became kind of a joke to them, like we had no spontaneity. Her mother found it hilarious. We were both really busy, but we still found time during the week to be together. It was just that no matter what, Friday was ours. If for some reason time didn't allow, we both knew that on Friday night the rest of the world could get lost, so there was no pressure from either of us.