Explore MM sex activities in order of preference

[lurknlit]

If i were to explore sex with another man for the first time there are things I would like to do most and others least. I will include a select few so as to keep it concise.

Before I get there I want to make a distinction between two basically similar activities, taking cock anally. On the one hand I will call one “riding cock” and the other “being bottom”. They’re different I believe (i have no experience other than riding my dildo alone). I think I would prefer “riding his cock” rather than “being bottom” for him. I can choose the rate of penetration and depth and rhythm etc so I’m comfortable and enjoying the experience as opposed to potentially having a painful, negative experience. I suppose with more experiences that could change, but for now I’m just talking first time for those of us who haven’t. These 4 activities in order of preference for me would go like this:

1. Sucking cock
2. Riding cock
3. Being bottom
4. Being top

There are other things like getting my ass frotted by his cock, frotting cocks, mutual masturbation etc but those can be explored on the way to, or after the list, or anywhere in between…Actually I would be happy after the first two “until we meet again”

In what order would you put these four activities?

 

[AlexBailey]

“If your were to explore…”?

Wow! Starting strong, ready to get right down to it!

Is the pace of this first encounter influenced by porn or something

Honestly, start with some mutual groping and see where it leads, but remember that not everyone likes everything - many people have their preferences and hold them with a hard line.

Talk about it.

For me - enjoy each other and see where things naturally go.

 

[lurknlit]

It’s fantasy. I’m allowed that , no?

 

[AlexBailey]

It’s fantasy. I’m allowed that , no?

Oh absolutely!

Just remember that finesse can be sexy too.

 

[lurknlit]

Perhaps I worded it wrong. I don't necessarily mean these activities need all happen in one meeting. My point is these would be my prefered activites in this order. That's all.

 

[ChrissyCD64]

I've done them all. My preference is a combination of 1, 3, & 4 In other words to be fucking one ass while getting my own ass fucked and sucking a cock all at the same time. I also like a combination of 1, 2, & 3, riding one and another guy riding mine, while I'm sucking another one.

 

[comegently]

Like lurknlit I have done none of the four, but I have taken strapon and used dildos and fucking machines. Also I am (non-op) Trans.

1. Being bottom
2. Riding cock
3. Sucking cock
4. Being top

Of these, only the first two have much appeal, really, and only if I present as female. None of it has any appeal if I don't.
1 and 2 are more or less on equal par, but taking cock from the back while kneeling on the bed just about wins.

 

[Luganis]

If i were to explore sex with another man for the first time there are things I would like to do most and others least. I will include a select few so as to keep it concise.

Before I get there I want to make a distinction between two basically similar activities, taking cock anally. On the one hand I will call one “riding cock” and the other “being bottom”. They’re different I believe (i have no experience other than riding my dildo alone). I think I would prefer “riding his cock” rather than “being bottom” for him. I can choose the rate of penetration and depth and rhythm etc so I’m comfortable and enjoying the experience as opposed to potentially having a painful, negative experience. I suppose with more experiences that could change, but for now I’m just talking first time for those of us who haven’t. These 4 activities in order of preference for me would go like this:

1. Sucking cock
2. Riding cock
3. Being bottom
4. Being top

There are other things like getting my ass frotted by his cock, frotting cocks, mutual masturbation etc but those can be explored on the way to, or after the list, or anywhere in between…Actually I would be happy after the first two “until we meet again”

In what order would you put these four activities?

I guess the order would be
Riding cock,
Being bottom
Being top
Sucking cock (I find this the most intimate. From here the next step would be making out…)

 

[tristantrotsky]

If i were to explore sex with another man for the first time there are things I would like to do most and others least. I will include a select few so as to keep it concise.

Before I get there I want to make a distinction between two basically similar activities, taking cock anally. On the one hand I will call one “riding cock” and the other “being bottom”. They’re different I believe (i have no experience other than riding my dildo alone). I think I would prefer “riding his cock” rather than “being bottom” for him. I can choose the rate of penetration and depth and rhythm etc so I’m comfortable and enjoying the experience as opposed to potentially having a painful, negative experience. I suppose with more experiences that could change, but for now I’m just talking first time for those of us who haven’t. These 4 activities in order of preference for me would go like this:

1. Sucking cock
2. Riding cock
3. Being bottom
4. Being top

There are other things like getting my ass frotted by his cock, frotting cocks, mutual masturbation etc but those can be explored on the way to, or after the list, or anywhere in between…Actually I would be happy after the first two “until we meet again”

In what order would you put these four activities?

Sucking cock, fellatio, giving blowjobs, getting facefucked, deep throat, oral sex, cocksucking...

 

[Escierto]

My preference with my girlfriend is definitely for her to fuck my ass with her cock any way she likes. My second preference is to suck her off and my third preference is for her to give me a facial. Really, it’s all good!

 

[BlueEyes1969]

Groping each other, touching each other, kissing passionately, cock-play, cocksucking, bottoming and hugging and caressing after.

 

[Bisexguy70]

Groping each other, touching each other, kissing passionately, cock-play, cocksucking, bottoming and hugging and caressing after.

Love all those in that order except the bottoming. In my case its topping. But all the rest Makes the sex so much more enjoyable.

 

[BlueEyes1969]

Love all those in that order except the bottoming. In my case its topping. But all the rest Makes the sex so much more enjoyable.

I used to be able to top as well as bottom, but as I have gotten older the bottoming has become so exciting and fulfilling that I rarely top. I have had numerous analgasms due to some amazing men who know just how to treat the prostate while thrusting and seeding!

 

[BlueEyes1969]

Go for it! Fun to try other positions, too! Love side fucking and face to face to watch each other's facial expressions!

 

[TrailerHitch]

Actually this is my order:

1) Meet in a public place, bar, restaurant, or similar, to see if there is any attraction or connection. If there is proceed to number 2.
2) Go to a motel, no car or park sex for me.
3) Make out a bit, kissing, touching stroking, suck his cock, slowly, tantalizingly, teasingly, until he can't take it anymore and let him fill my mouth with cum.
4) Suck him hard again.
5) Get on my back and have him take my anal virginity slowly, gently, while kissing me.
6) Once I am accustomed to him being inside me the positions after that are his choice, me on top, him doing me doggy. He can fuck me till he cums or I can finish him with my mouth. Since a condom is a must for anal penetration all I need to do is remove the condom and take him back in my mouth.
7) Just like shampoo, rinse and repeat as necessary!!

All I need is to find a man who will actually follow through and do it!! Hit me up if you are interested!

 

[Hitchiker69]

I'm versatile, and I don't care about the order of activities. I'm more spontaneous, and go with the mood. If he wants to be dominant, he'll get most anything he wants. If he's OK with kissing, there will be plenty of that. Always there will be sucking, and usually 69'ing. Maybe fucking, depending on moood and attitude. I'm easy and horny and I love cock, that's what matters.

 

[TrailerHitch]

Actually this is my order:

1) Meet in a public place, bar, restaurant, or similar, to see if there is any attraction or connection. If there is proceed to number 2.
2) Go to a motel, no car or park sex for me.
3) Make out a bit, kissing, touching stroking, suck his cock, slowly, tantalizingly, teasingly, until he can't take it anymore and let him fill my mouth with cum.
4) Suck him hard again.
5) Get on my back and have him take my anal virginity slowly, gently, while kissing me.
6) Once I am accustomed to him being inside me the positions after that are his choice, me on top, him doing me doggy. He can fuck me till he cums or I can finish him with my mouth. Since a condom is a must for anal penetration all I need to do is remove the condom and take him back in my mouth.
7) Just like shampoo, rinse and repeat as necessary!!

All I need is to find a man who will actually follow through and do it!! Hit me up if you are interested!

I guess I should add nothing is set in stone of course. The right guy could change all of this and make it spectacular!

 

[BizTrav]

If i were to explore sex with another man for the first time there are things I would like to do most and others least. I will include a select few so as to keep it concise.

Before I get there I want to make a distinction between two basically similar activities, taking cock anally. On the one hand I will call one “riding cock” and the other “being bottom”. They’re different I believe (i have no experience other than riding my dildo alone). I think I would prefer “riding his cock” rather than “being bottom” for him. I can choose the rate of penetration and depth and rhythm etc so I’m comfortable and enjoying the experience as opposed to potentially having a painful, negative experience. I suppose with more experiences that could change, but for now I’m just talking first time for those of us who haven’t. These 4 activities in order of preference for me would go like this:

1. Sucking cock
2. Riding cock
3. Being bottom
4. Being top

There are other things like getting my ass frotted by his cock, frotting cocks, mutual masturbation etc but those can be explored on the way to, or after the list, or anywhere in between…Actually I would be happy after the first two “until we meet again”

In what order would you put these four activities?

My #1 would start with being seduced...

 

[Hitchiker69]

My #1 would start with being seduced...

Take my word for it, being seduced by a more experienced man can lead to outstanding, life changing sex. It certainly did for me.

 

[sexfan23]

My #1 would start with being seduced...

Yes, the building tension..

 

[BizTrav]

Yes, the building tension..

Second would be drinks...strong drinks!

 

[BizTrav]

Take my word for it, being seduced by a more experienced man can lead to outstanding, life changing sex. It certainly did for me.

When that day comes, I hope to be savvy enough to recognize it.

 

[sexfan23]

Second would be drinks...strong drinks!

HAHAHA!! Absolutely!!

 

[Tayloroc]

For sure

 

[ChrissyCD64]

Second would be drinks...strong drinks!

Why do you need drinks to have sex?