Exhibitionism and the extreme pleasure of humiliation

[Thegilfswinger]

For all you women subs, how much pleasure do you get from your master subjecting you to the humiliation of showing your pussy and/or tits to strangers. I find it excruciatingly wonderful and get the greatest ever buzz from it.

 

[SirSparky]

I also find it wonderful and exciting to get a sub to show herself off in public. Sometimes just a flash of bra or panties, no bra and shirt buttons half way undone, no panties amd her jeans fly zip undone. She woukd sit in her car for lunch in the car park so I woukd tell her to pull her jeans down to her knees and to rub her pussy right there, although she wasn't allowed to cum

 

[Thegilfswinger]

I also find it wonderful and exciting to get a sub to show herself off in public. Sometimes just a flash of bra or panties, no bra and shirt buttons half way undone, no panties amd her jeans fly zip undone. She woukd sit in her car for lunch in the car park so I woukd tell her to pull her jeans down to her knees and to rub her pussy right there, although she wasn't allowed to cum

Oh wonderful-especially not being allowed to cum

 

[cascadiabound]

It's not exactly pleasure. For me it's the erotic humiliation element of it and the loss of control. It's arousing because he wants it. Wants me to be exposed for his arousal needs and/or because he gets off on what it elicits in me. Because I have submitted to a power exchange relationship that means he sometimes wants me to do things that I would never ever do/wear/say of my own volition (though not beyond my limits/boundaries). It's a mind fuck. Things that are not outside of prior consent can still be omg beyond uncomfortable, terrifying and humiliating. And that's where these kinds of risky/exposure kinds of things fall for me. I get as much or more thrill/arousal from the idea of exposure as I do from actually having others see me. I am very fussy about consent and involving others who have not consented to be part of our exposure play is a hard limit for me and a big turn off.

But when the audience is consenting, and I am complying to what my D wants/demands especially when I'm not privy to his thinking/plan and I just have to lean in to our relationship, my trust that he will keep me safe and not cross hard limits, my subby brain melts and I stop analyzing/thinking and just obey. That's heady. It feels like I leave my body and I can watch myself do/experience the taboo, the unthinkable, the depravity. The arousal comes from pleasing him. From being his "good girl" obedient to his twisted scenarios. From the cognitive dissonance created in such settings.

 

[CaptCharles]

It's not exactly pleasure. For me it's the erotic humiliation element of it and the loss of control. It's arousing because he wants it. Wants me to be exposed for his arousal needs and/or because he gets off on what it elicits in me. Because I have submitted to a power exchange relationship that means he sometimes wants me to do things that I would never ever do/wear/say of my own volition (though not beyond my limits/boundaries). It's a mind fuck. Things that are not outside of prior consent can still be omg beyond uncomfortable, terrifying and humiliating. And that's where these kinds of risky/exposure kinds of things fall for me. I get as much or more thrill/arousal from the idea of exposure as I do from actually having others see me. I am very fussy about consent and involving others who have not consented to be part of our exposure play is a hard limit for me and a big turn off.

But when the audience is consenting, and I am complying to what my D wants/demands especially when I'm not privy to his thinking/plan and I just have to lean in to our relationship, my trust that he will keep me safe and not cross hard limits, my subby brain melts and I stop analyzing/thinking and just obey. That's heady. It feels like I leave my body and I can watch myself do/experience the taboo, the unthinkable, the depravity. The arousal comes from pleasing him. From being his "good girl" obedient to his twisted scenarios. From the cognitive dissonance created in such settings.

So fucking hot .. . You must comply to his erotic torment

 

[Thegilfswinger]

So fucking hot .. . You must comply to his erotic torment

exactly. it is that moment of acceptance that control is total

 

[bisissyhusband1]

somewhat off piste, but being pegged by my wife in front of several of her girl friends was so erotic.

 

[Thegilfswinger]

I also find it wonderful and exciting to get a sub to show herself off in public. Sometimes just a flash of bra or panties, no bra and shirt buttons half way undone, no panties amd her jeans fly zip undone. She woukd sit in her car for lunch in the car park so I woukd tell her to pull her jeans down to her knees and to rub her pussy right there, although she wasn't allowed to cum

The denial thing again-delicious