Exhibitionism and the extreme pleasure of humiliation

[Thegilfswinger]

For all you women subs, how much pleasure do you get from your master subjecting you to the humiliation of showing your pussy and/or tits to strangers. I find it excruciatingly wonderful and get the greatest ever buzz from it.

 

[SirSparky]

I also find it wonderful and exciting to get a sub to show herself off in public. Sometimes just a flash of bra or panties, no bra and shirt buttons half way undone, no panties amd her jeans fly zip undone. She woukd sit in her car for lunch in the car park so I woukd tell her to pull her jeans down to her knees and to rub her pussy right there, although she wasn't allowed to cum

 

[Thegilfswinger]

I also find it wonderful and exciting to get a sub to show herself off in public. Sometimes just a flash of bra or panties, no bra and shirt buttons half way undone, no panties amd her jeans fly zip undone. She woukd sit in her car for lunch in the car park so I woukd tell her to pull her jeans down to her knees and to rub her pussy right there, although she wasn't allowed to cum

Oh wonderful-especially not being allowed to cum

 

[cascadiabound]

It's not exactly pleasure. For me it's the erotic humiliation element of it and the loss of control. It's arousing because he wants it. Wants me to be exposed for his arousal needs and/or because he gets off on what it elicits in me. Because I have submitted to a power exchange relationship that means he sometimes wants me to do things that I would never ever do/wear/say of my own volition (though not beyond my limits/boundaries). It's a mind fuck. Things that are not outside of prior consent can still be omg beyond uncomfortable, terrifying and humiliating. And that's where these kinds of risky/exposure kinds of things fall for me. I get as much or more thrill/arousal from the idea of exposure as I do from actually having others see me. I am very fussy about consent and involving others who have not consented to be part of our exposure play is a hard limit for me and a big turn off.

But when the audience is consenting, and I am complying to what my D wants/demands especially when I'm not privy to his thinking/plan and I just have to lean in to our relationship, my trust that he will keep me safe and not cross hard limits, my subby brain melts and I stop analyzing/thinking and just obey. That's heady. It feels like I leave my body and I can watch myself do/experience the taboo, the unthinkable, the depravity. The arousal comes from pleasing him. From being his "good girl" obedient to his twisted scenarios. From the cognitive dissonance created in such settings.

 

[CaptCharles]

It's not exactly pleasure. For me it's the erotic humiliation element of it and the loss of control. It's arousing because he wants it. Wants me to be exposed for his arousal needs and/or because he gets off on what it elicits in me. Because I have submitted to a power exchange relationship that means he sometimes wants me to do things that I would never ever do/wear/say of my own volition (though not beyond my limits/boundaries). It's a mind fuck. Things that are not outside of prior consent can still be omg beyond uncomfortable, terrifying and humiliating. And that's where these kinds of risky/exposure kinds of things fall for me. I get as much or more thrill/arousal from the idea of exposure as I do from actually having others see me. I am very fussy about consent and involving others who have not consented to be part of our exposure play is a hard limit for me and a big turn off.

But when the audience is consenting, and I am complying to what my D wants/demands especially when I'm not privy to his thinking/plan and I just have to lean in to our relationship, my trust that he will keep me safe and not cross hard limits, my subby brain melts and I stop analyzing/thinking and just obey. That's heady. It feels like I leave my body and I can watch myself do/experience the taboo, the unthinkable, the depravity. The arousal comes from pleasing him. From being his "good girl" obedient to his twisted scenarios. From the cognitive dissonance created in such settings.

So fucking hot .. . You must comply to his erotic torment

 

[Thegilfswinger]

So fucking hot .. . You must comply to his erotic torment

exactly. it is that moment of acceptance that control is total

 

[bisissyhusband1]

somewhat off piste, but being pegged by my wife in front of several of her girl friends was so erotic.

 

[Thegilfswinger]

I also find it wonderful and exciting to get a sub to show herself off in public. Sometimes just a flash of bra or panties, no bra and shirt buttons half way undone, no panties amd her jeans fly zip undone. She woukd sit in her car for lunch in the car park so I woukd tell her to pull her jeans down to her knees and to rub her pussy right there, although she wasn't allowed to cum

The denial thing again-delicious

 

[dingdongditchding]

I want a future gf to bring an old visiting bf over and her to whisper in my ear, suck his cock.

 

[Erosfan]

somewhat off piste, but being pegged by my wife in front of several of her girl friends was so erotic.

Just the thought of this is so arousing! I want to do this.

 

[Erosfan]

My go to exhibitionist fantasy!

A recurring theme; I have been working in the yard. I'm hot and sweaty and need a shower. When I walk into the kitchen, I find my wife and her best friend sitting at the dinette. We have a little small talk and I tell them I'm going to shower and then join them and have a cold beer. As I start to head toward the bedroom, my wife says "don't get dressed when you are done". I stop, turn around and ask "what"? She tells me they want me to stay naked when I am done with my shower. I nod and head to my shower. While I am in the shower my mind is running wild. Does she really want me to come out naked or is she teasing me. She knows one of my biggest fantasies is to be naked and jerk off for her and a friend or two. As I'm drying off, I am becoming aroused. I look at myself in the mirror and admire my semi erection. I'm trying my best not to get a full hard on. Now I'm wondering, should I just go for it or was she teasing me? I decide to just do it! I walk into our kitchen and go to the fridge and get a cold beer. I stand there briefly, looking for any sign from my wife, anything. She finally says "I wasn't sure you would do it, but I'm glad you did, come sit with us". I take a seat at the table. It has a glass top so I am not hidden from their view. I'm really excited and and almost completely hard now. Without thinking I touch myself and slowly stroke up to the now wet tip. This didn't go unnoticed by either of them. My wife says "you seem to be enjoying this". I nod in agreement. She tells me to come stand between them and jerk off for them, they want to watch. I move between them. I'm so excited that I might explode any second. I slide my hand up to the tip, very slowly and touch the precum. I raise my fingers to my mouth and lick the precum off. It tastes kind of sweet. Margie, my wife's friend, got a huge grin on her face and said "WOW". I begin to stroke with more determination, knowing that I can't last much longer, being so turned on. I managed a couple of minutes and say I'm gonna cum. They are both focused on my hard on that is about to erupt. When it hit me, I shot my load in my hand so as not to make a big mess. I'm standing there with my dick in one hand and the other hand is full of my cum. After what seems a very long time, my wife says "why don't you lick that hand clean for us"?
I hesitate and she says "do it". Reluctantly, I raise my dripping hand to my mouth and lick it clean.
They were quiet for a couple of minutes and then asked me how I felt. I told them that was the most exciting thing I could imagine ever doing. My wife said "let's just relax a bit, this was pretty exciting". After a few minutes of small talk, she says "I think we are going to need a repeat performance real soon".
I can't wait.

 

[Jerrieager]

For all you women subs, how much pleasure do you get from your master subjecting you to the humiliation of showing your pussy and/or tits to strangers. I find it excruciatingly wonderful and get the greatest ever buzz from it.

The thrill of it wasn’t really my choice, so no guilt of being exposed .

 

[CaptCharles]

My go to exhibitionist fantasy!

A recurring theme; I have been working in the yard. I'm hot and sweaty and need a shower. When I walk into the kitchen, I find my wife and her best friend sitting at the dinette. We have a little small talk and I tell them I'm going to shower and then join them and have a cold beer. As I start to head toward the bedroom, my wife says "don't get dressed when you are done". I stop, turn around and ask "what"? She tells me they want me to stay naked when I am done with my shower. I nod and head to my shower. While I am in the shower my mind is running wild. Does she really want me to come out naked or is she teasing me. She knows one of my biggest fantasies is to be naked and jerk off for her and a friend or two. As I'm drying off, I am becoming aroused. I look at myself in the mirror and admire my semi erection. I'm trying my best not to get a full hard on. Now I'm wondering, should I just go for it or was she teasing me? I decide to just do it! I walk into our kitchen and go to the fridge and get a cold beer. I stand there briefly, looking for any sign from my wife, anything. She finally says "I wasn't sure you would do it, but I'm glad you did, come sit with us". I take a seat at the table. It has a glass top so I am not hidden from their view. I'm really excited and and almost completely hard now. Without thinking I touch myself and slowly stroke up to the now wet tip. This didn't go unnoticed by either of them. My wife says "you seem to be enjoying this". I nod in agreement. She tells me to come stand between them and jerk off for them, they want to watch. I move between them. I'm so excited that I might explode any second. I slide my hand up to the tip, very slowly and touch the precum. I raise my fingers to my mouth and lick the precum off. It tastes kind of sweet. Margie, my wife's friend, got a huge grin on her face and said "WOW". I begin to stroke with more determination, knowing that I can't last much longer, being so turned on. I managed a couple of minutes and say I'm gonna cum. They are both focused on my hard on that is about to erupt. When it hit me, I shot my load in my hand so as not to make a big mess. I'm standing there with my dick in one hand and the other hand is full of my cum. After what seems a very long time, my wife says "why don't you lick that hand clean for us"?
I hesitate and she says "do it". Reluctantly, I raise my dripping hand to my mouth and lick it clean.
They were quiet for a couple of minutes and then asked me how I felt. I told them that was the most exciting thing I could imagine ever doing. My wife said "let's just relax a bit, this was pretty exciting". After a few minutes of small talk, she says "I think we are going to need a repeat performance real soon".
I can't wait.

Very lucky man

 

[Submissivepat]

For all you women subs, how much pleasure do you get from your master subjecting you to the humiliation of showing your pussy and/or tits to strangers. I find it excruciatingly wonderful and get the greatest ever buzz from it.

Yes, it was and quite the turn on to be naked in front of dressed people.