Everyday not BDSM bondage or discipline...

[BossySon21a]

Anybody ever encounter moments or situations in real life that stoke or appeal to the dominant/submissive fantasy or thought, but aren't actually that?

I started thinking about this because of something that recently brought back an old, old memory from my early teens: when I was in eighth grade, two girls were bored and playing with a role of tape, and they taped their hands together (one girl's left to the other girl's right), so it was sort of like they were cuffed together.

They were just bored and goofing around, but that memory imprinted itself on me (we were all about 13) at the time and I didn't even know why it did. I just knew I thought about that moment for ages afterward.

Birthday spankings are another one, every so often all through my teen and adult years.

 

[MrMentor7]

I used to play "escape" with some childhood friends. We would bind one person's hands with rope and see how long it took for them to get themselves free.

 

[the captians wench]

every time I pick up one of the grill spatulas I think about how much it costs and what a wonderful paddle it would make. Not to mention the potential for temperture play in addition.

 

[ecstaticsub]

Hubby and I stayed in a Suites hotel over Thanksgiving, one of the kind with the little kitchen included. I couldn't get out of my head that if I had been there with Daddy instead of Hubby I would have been feeling some of those utensils on my ass

 

[cromsgirl]

I will occasionally put a slip leash so one side tightens around one wrist and the loop to hold on to on the other, then pull on it so the other wrist feels restrained too while I'm at work at a vet's office.

 

[FurryFury]

Getting waxed is one thing that makes me think . . .

 

[MrMentor7]

Getting waxed is one thing that makes me think . . .

That is hot.

 

[FurryFury]

I'm wired that way. Pain makes me think of sex. The worst pain I ever had was a kidney stone. Four hours of non stop pain. Honestly it was hard to think at all but I was thinking if someone found me naked, panting in pain on the floor, my husband or my online Dom at that time, would they want to fuck me? If they did, how would that feel? How would I feel about it? Fantasies are gooood. I guess that's how I got through it.

 

[MrMentor7]

I'm wired that way. Pain makes me think of sex. The worst pain I ever had was a kidney stone. Four hours of non stop pain. Honestly it was hard to think at all but I was thinking if someone found me naked, panting in pain on the floor, my husband or my online Dom at that time, would they want to fuck me? If they did, how would that feel? How would I feel about it? Fantasies are gooood. I guess that's how I got through it.

Well, yes, but I was referring to the wax being hot.

 

[the captians wench]

Getting waxed is one thing that makes me think . . .

And this is one of the reasons I'm afraid to have mine done by a pro.

 

[FurryFury]

And this is one of the reasons I'm afraid to have mine done by a pro.

Really? Cause I tried it at home twice and that was not only much worse pain it was totally ineffective. I did have some awesome fucking bruises though.



If the girl who does my waxing only knew what I was thinking. She'd probably run from the room. LOL.

 

[unregistered]

 

[FurryFury]

I always try to figure out what I could make with the contents of the cart in front of me at Home Depot.

Good one!

 

[the captians wench]

Really? Cause I tried it at home twice and that was not only much worse pain it was totally ineffective. I did have some awesome fucking bruises though.



If the girl who does my waxing only knew what I was thinking. She'd probably run from the room. LOL.

*giggles* It's not the pain I'm worried about, or at least, not a fear of pain anyway. I'm worried that my enjoyment of it would be a little too obvious.

I'm terribly shy, and if the poor girl had to clean up my puddle after she was finished removing all the hair in my personal region, I'm not sure I could look up as I left the room.

 

[FurryFury]

*giggles* It's not the pain I'm worried about, or at least, not a fear of pain anyway. I'm worried that my enjoyment of it would be a little too obvious.

I'm terribly shy, and if the poor girl had to clean up my puddle after she was finished removing all the hair in my personal region, I'm not sure I could look up as I left the room.

Aww, that's so cute. I could just . . .

 

[unregistered]

 

[FurryFury]

I once saw a cart full of 1" and 2" dowel rods, chains, anchors and about a dozen good size dog collars. All I could think of were spreader bars or maybe an ill-advised suspension rig. The couple were in their late 60s. I needed a fifth of Jack when I got home to purge that image from my mind.

LOL!

I for one, am all for couples in their late 60's being kinky. Hopefully I'll be there one day myself!

 

[Corsetlover]

*giggles* It's not the pain I'm worried about, or at least, not a fear of pain anyway. I'm worried that my enjoyment of it would be a little too obvious.

I'm terribly shy, and if the poor girl had to clean up my puddle after she was finished removing all the hair in my personal region, I'm not sure I could look up as I left the room.

Well there are places that pride themselves on being close to painless (blue wax for the win!) So that might be an option for you... not because you want to avoid the pain but because you want to avoid er... well yeah avoid the pain but for different reasons.

 

[Powerdog16]

I often find myself in the hardware section of the local mart and... being rather handy with hand and power tools for real, I found myself thinking about ways to use the items in the store to build sex toys. The different lengths of chains and ropes, dowel rods, different kinds of clips. I remember once I wanted to buy a set of weighted nipple clamps for a sub and could not find any I wanted to buy anywhere. I found a pair of clips I liked and then went to the hardware store and bought some heavy fishing weights, a length of chain and crafted a pair for her myself. It amazingly enough turned out very well and we used them on her often!