Ever feel like you've suddenly become persona non grata?

KillerMuffin

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You know, suddenly not wanted and subtly snubbed? It's an interesting feeling. I can't say as I've experienced it before, but it's interesting. It's kind of like finding your way through a river blindfolded.
 
Being snubbed is the worst, isn't it? Worse than being ignored. Sometimes I think people just forget about us if we don't post a LOT.
 
Not to off on a tangent and whine, I'll only say yes, I know what it feels like and am reminded daily...in real life, no less.
 
Yes and it sucks if you have forgotten your life jacket.
 
Yes, I have & I have learned not to let it bother me. I like myself most of the time & my sweetie loves me, even when I am a devil bitch like I have been lately. I loves ya, KM, I'm just not around much thanks to job junk, but I start vacation in a few days.
 
Oh God! I hope it wasn't by me! I wouldn't do that to someone like you intentionally. Or anyone for that matter, but to anyone who I may give no regard to, where it is due, please forgive me, as I have my limitaitions and all, like we all have. I really do love all of my lit family, and I am so grateful for you all. Especially our dear muffiekins.
 
Can't be me, I just got here for the evening myself. What did ya do, Muffin? Piss someone off? Tell me who and I'll join you- we can post their name to the "who do you want to fuck with" list and have a ball! Or balls, as the case may be.
 
Every day. You just gotta keep plugging away until they have no choice but to love you!!!!
 
KillerMuffin said:
You know, suddenly not wanted and subtly snubbed? It's an interesting feeling. I can't say as I've experienced it before, but it's interesting. It's kind of like finding your way through a river blindfolded.

Yes. I know the feeling all too well. And that's all I'm saying.
 
Yuo mean something like the time I told the company VP that he didn't know what he was talking about?
 
Not a good feeling at all... *sighs*

Still, that kind of thing is their loss. If someone I truly like and respect did that, I would ask them why. A lot of the time it turns out that it was quite unintentional. If it is some mere acquaintance, I'll silently wish them well on their journey, and put them right out of mind. :)
 
Be snubbed SUCKS!!!!!

Having been snubbed all through my High School days because your not "popular", consequently I didn't have many friend, I kow how it is.
 
Ahhh Muffy...

Gee, I thought that you've been snubbing me ever since I let Puddles go crazy and try to buy PC out from under you. Most likely you've been busy in real life, as I have. I've had go on vacation to find time get on the general board. So if you think that it was me, it wasn't intentional.
 
Yep, I have that feeling from time to time. It stinks, especially if I don't know what (if anything) I did to the person. If some time goes by with no change in the situation, I drop the person a friendly "hi, everything ok?" email or IM. If the person rebuffs me or flat out ignores me, I just say to myself, "All right, let me know when you get rid of whatever crawled up your ass." That doesn't really make me feel better, but it does help me to move forward and focus on other people who do know how to treat a friend.
 
Qualifications: Must be smallish, an ubermacho chickypoo and quite muffinisious.

Please apply within.
 
most definitely

YES!!
I sucks and sometimes hurts real bad in that one spot that lacks definition but still hurts like hell...
 
Never said:
Qualifications: Must be smallish, an ubermacho chickypoo and quite muffinisious.

Please apply within.

Hey I thought you went all straight on me

Damn... I cant apply
 
Wow, they can subtlely snub you???? I always get the big loud turning my whole body away from you so I can pretend you are dead thingy. Seriously KM I know what it's like, the sudden strange fog that deafens anything you say....... It sucks to be in that situation esp. if it's family. It sucks even more when you are clueless as to what you did. Sorry to see you have to go through it.
 
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