Erectile dysfunction advice needed

[WHYNOTTODAY]

ED is no fun and there are some good suggestions in this thread. But, keep in mind that an erection isn’t a requirement for a male orgasm, and the combination of a talented tongue and a dildo and/or vibrator can certainly provide her orgasms.

We find this to be very true and pleasing her is just as enjoyable as both of us having orgasms.

 

[Michael_Keaton]

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We find this to be very true and pleasing her is just as enjoyable as both of us having orgasms.

I'm single, mid 70's with some ED - sometimes "it" works and sometimes "it" doesn't. Some time ago I dated a woman and when we attempted to have sex for the first time I wasn't able to perform and she subsequently ended the relationship because of it.
Later I dated another woman and in the course of telling her that I may or may not be able to keep up my end of the bargain I told her about my experience with woman #1. Her response was that this woman was either lazy or lacked imagination because there are lots of things two people can do that don't require an erect penis. She was right, and we went on to have some good times. We later parted but the parting had nothing to do with my ED.

 

[old_hippy_46]

Does anyone done injections to get hard? I don't drink, smoke or take bp medicine and my blood pressure is good but I can't get hard. I'm 72 and don't want to never have another hard on. My urologist prescribed meds but they haven't worked. I'm going to ask him about injections but was hoping someone here might have experience with them.

Thanks!

Similar situation here. The pills worked at first, then they stopped working. I did take the penis injections and had very hard reactions, but like the pills they stopped too.
Fortinately I have many do d memories from my past

 

[luckyseven]

Erectile dysfunction (impotence) is very common, particularly in men over 40. Most men occasionally fail to get or keep an erection.

ED is usually caused by stress, tiredness or drinking too much alcohol, and it's nothing to worry about.

It can also be a side effect of some medicines.

If erectile dysfunction happens often, it may be caused by a condition such as Physical issues: Heart disease, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, diabetes, obesity, and smoking or Mental health concerns: Depression, anxiety, stress, and relationship problems.

I have had many occurrences of ED and premature ejaculation, and every time, it was down to the above. So, with the correct diagnosis and taking the proper medication, I very rarely fail to get a serviceable and prolonged erection.

If in doubt, always consult a medical practitioner. Your penis will thank you.

 

[Biguy77578]

Has anyone tried Eroxon?
I saw it at CVS the other day and like anything else I've found mixed reviews for it.

I have. It had no effect for me. I tried it 10 times.

 

[1972_hangtime]

I’m not old (60) but I’ve been in a sexless marriage for several years and I’m pretty depressed about it. I’ve been drinking more than I should and am also on blood pressure meds so what was once a fierce erection is almost nonexistent. I’ve reached the point where I might want to step out but this condition has really shattered my confidence. Even masturbating is difficult. I’ll be seeing my MD in a month or so and I’ll bring it up with him. In the meantime I’m considering getting some toys but am unsure what to get (Prostate toys? Rings?). I’m also considering trying an erotic massage to see if that could get things going. Any thoughts on the subject are greatly appreciated.

Cialis try a low dose everyday 1 or 2 mg

 

[SusanHoward]

Perhaps it wasn’t clinical ED, but guys have never had any problems after I gave them some close personal attention….

 

[tristantrotsky]

Perhaps it wasn’t clinical ED, but guys have never had any problems after I gave them some close personal attention….

Just looking at your profile photo gives me an erection, Susan.
No problem whatsoever.

 

[SusanHoward]

Just looking at your profile photo gives me an erection, Susan.
No problem whatsoever.

I can tell that you must really be sweet!

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

I’m not old (60) but I’ve been in a sexless marriage for several years and I’m pretty depressed about it. I’ve been drinking more than I should and am also on blood pressure meds so what was once a fierce erection is almost nonexistent. I’ve reached the point where I might want to step out but this condition has really shattered my confidence. Even masturbating is difficult. I’ll be seeing my MD in a month or so and I’ll bring it up with him. In the meantime I’m considering getting some toys but am unsure what to get (Prostate toys? Rings?). I’m also considering trying an erotic massage to see if that could get things going. Any thoughts on the subject are greatly appreciated.

Forget the doctors. Real food, drop medications, drink good water and exercise!!

 

[glsmnk5o]

I’m not old (60) but I’ve been in a sexless marriage for several years and I’m pretty depressed about it. I’ve been drinking more than I should and am also on blood pressure meds so what was once a fierce erection is almost nonexistent. I’ve reached the point where I might want to step out but this condition has really shattered my confidence. Even masturbating is difficult. I’ll be seeing my MD in a month or so and I’ll bring it up with him. In the meantime I’m considering getting some toys but am unsure what to get (Prostate toys? Rings?). I’m also considering trying an erotic massage to see if that could get things going. Any thoughts on the subject are greatly appreciated.

 

[glsmnk5o]

For someone in a similar situation, after conferring with a Dr., and supposing they were inclined to begin even a light bit of exercise appropriate for the person- Even a light exercise program/workout a couple of days a week can bring a BIG improvement in bloodflow, energy, and a testosterone response.

 

[calmlikeabomb]

Kegels exercises can help with erections. Pelvic floor therapist Michelle Kenway has a YouTube video that provides a Kegels exercises beginners guide for men. Kegels trains twitch muscle fibers in the pelvic floor and penis. The slow twitch fibers are endurance fibers, and they work for extended periods of time. Fast twitch fibers are for fast, strong contractions. For the exercises, Michelle Kenway describes the technique as simultaneously (1 retracting the penis inwards as if a turtle is drawing its head in, (2 tightening and lifting around the anus opening, and (3 thinking about passing urine. The slow twitch fiber exercise is done 10 times for 10 seconds each, and the fast twitch fiber exercise is done 10 times for 1 second each. Both of these 10 times sequences should be done at least 3 times a day and for at least 3 days of the week. She also has a YouTube real time coaching video, with a timer that sets the pace, that is very helpful.

This is very true. Kegels, in general fitness and stopping my heavy drinking worked wonders for me. I had issues with the captain during covid because I was drinking pretty much every day. But put in some discipline and the captain went back to performing as expected.

 

[Mrbingo1976]

Erectile dysfunction (impotence) is very common, particularly in men over 40. Most men occasionally fail to get or keep an erection.

ED is usually caused by stress, tiredness or drinking too much alcohol, and it's nothing to worry about.

It can also be a side effect of some medicines.

If erectile dysfunction happens often, it may be caused by a condition such as Physical issues: Heart disease, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, diabetes, obesity, and smoking or Mental health concerns: Depression, anxiety, stress, and relationship problems.

I have had many occurrences of ED and premature ejaculation, and every time, it was down to the above. So, with the correct diagnosis and taking the proper medication, I very rarely fail to get a serviceable and prolonged erection.

If in doubt, always consult a medical practitioner. Your penis will thank you.

i actually like being impotent. turned it into a fetish. wife sees other men and i’ve turned that into a fetish.. i’m caged 24/7 and it’s fine. wife is happy i’m happy. i’d get so stressed about erections etc that it’s actually a blessing.

 

[pumperguy191]

Ok, living in the Washington DC area, I heard a radio ad pretty much guaranteeing results. I finally made an appointment. After a thorough medical background check, they did a dopler on my penis. It showed lots of plaque buildup which prevented blood flow. They came up with a plan, an injection that would give v me an erection. They did a test injection, not full strength, and for the first time in 4 1/2 years, I was almost hard enough for penetration. I almost shed a tear. I missed the little guy. They will also do a type of wave therapy to help break up the plaque. A years worth of treatments are over $10,000. They do finance. I had my first wave therapy before I left. I kept the semi hard erection for over 3 hours. The meds will be custom blended for me and arrive in about a week. I'll let you know the first time i feel the inside of my wife's pussy in over 4 1/2 years.

 

[Mrman69]

Does anyone done injections to get hard? I don't drink, smoke or take bp medicine and my blood pressure is good but I can't get hard. I'm 72 and don't want to never have another hard on. My urologist prescribed meds but they haven't worked. I'm going to ask him about injections but was hoping someone here might have experience with them.

Thanks!

rexmd. 3-5 pills on an empty stomach. Hard and ready in 15 minutes- key is NO FOOD for at least two hours before.

 

[Mrman69]

rexmd. 3-5 pills on an empty stomach. Hard and ready in 15 minutes- key is NO FOOD for at least two hours before.

I still get “morning wood, but if I get a hardon during the day, its gone in a few minutes. The morning stiffy stix around for a while. I might even get to fuck with it, but if I throw a couple “dick pills” down my throat, I will be hard enough for vaginal penetration.

 

[hulmule]

Ive noticed that to much porn and LIT ineed more and more stimulation. But if i take a break from it .. humm the good old days. Try and few other options. I hit the gym 3 days a week, active. But stil in a sexless marriage. Momma stimulate you?

 

[Mrman69]

my GF has health problems that prevent certain positions. But she’ll suck me and fuck me and get on her knees on the sofa so I can enjoy her pussy from behind as her big titties sway to my thrusts. Working up to anal. But not ready yet.

 

[AndyJacker]

I am able to bring my wife to orgasm with fingers or tongue, but with the way she squeezes her legs together, it takes the hard out of me. Does anyone else have this issue? Has anyone tried a realistic dildo so that she still gets satisfied with a dick inside?

 

[razor33a]

Has anyone tried a realistic dildo so that she still gets satisfied with a dick inside?

I've used a strap on with my wife and it worked well on her. I'm using a pump now and finally got rings that constrict enough to be hard.

 

[pumperguy191]

I am able to bring my wife to orgasm with fingers or tongue, but with the way she squeezes her legs together, it takes the hard out of me. Does anyone else have this issue? Has anyone tried a realistic dildo so that she still gets satisfied with a dick inside?

Many times. We have 4 different ones that I use on her. Different sizes, curved, straight etc.

 

[AndyJacker]

Thank you. I would like to hear more.

 

[pumperguy191]

Ok, I received my meds yesterday and had to try them last night. As described, in 8-10 minutes, I had an erection. For the first time in 4 1/2 years, I entered my wife's luscious pussy. It was better than I remembered. The medication is called Trimix. It is "custom blended" for each individual. The only drawback was after about 20 minutes, I developed pain I'm penis, just under the head. From research, this is common. It is a side effect of one of the meds. I'm calling the Dr Monday and seeing if the can adjust the mixture. Overall, we are very happy with the results. My wife says I actually increased in girth. Could be, she tightened up over the last 4 1/2 years.

 

[dawn_of_night]

I am able to bring my wife to orgasm with fingers or tongue, but with the way she squeezes her legs together, it takes the hard out of me. Does anyone else have this issue? Has anyone tried a realistic dildo so that she still gets satisfied with a dick inside?

I've been this woman before.... He didn't have a solution....
Mine wasn't much better