Ending relationships

[Guest]

I was just wondering, how do you tell when it's over?

Is it when you find yourself putting more in than you're getting back?

Or maybe when you find that communication is no longer there?

 

[alltherage]

When you resent putting in more than your getting out. Relationships ebb and flow. There are times when the right thing to do is to give more than you are recieving.

 

[Vinny]

I was just wondering, how do you tell when it's over?

Is it when you find yourself putting more in than you're getting back?

Or maybe when you find that communication is no longer there?

I personally think it is when communication is gone. Not that I am totally right, but for me when you cannot sit there and talk for hours and be open and not afraid of judgement. Also when them compliments and affection in words and contact are gone. Let us remember that 90% off communication is not words but actions.

 

[Angel]

I realized that someone can tell you they love you all they want, but those are just words. When they stop showing you they love you, and their actions begin to say otherwise, it is time to move on.

 

[wkdclwn]

hmmm

Actions speak louder than words always. Honestly, if I am questioning whether or not it is over... chances are... it`s already over. Sometimes it is easier to question than to act.

 

[bluntforcemama]

Holy crap, I'm paranoid.

 

[patient1]

Holy crap, I'm paranoid.

Your not paranoid if everybody is out to get you

 

[OUTSIDER]

I was just wondering, how do you tell when it's over?

Is it when you find yourself putting more in than you're getting back?

Or maybe when you find that communication is no longer there?

You can tell the magic has gone when she comes in and takes a dump while your in there brushing your teeth.

 

[PowerOfOne]

How can you tell when it's over?

When the smallest of things turn into annoyances it is over, such as finding fault with a pair of socks or a shirt and so forth that your lover wears.

When the things you found "cute" about the lover and now find them to be obnoxious it is over.

When you assume more than is being communicated it is over.

When the things that you were once, more than willing to look over, now become mountains and a source of arguments it is over.

When it becomes a chore instead of a thrill to be with your lover then it is over.


Best of luck to you. It is very hard to have been in a relationship with someone and realize that it is over and your lover/mate still thinks it is the same.