Ejaculate-less orgasm?

[mugman]

Different...

My situation is totally different, milman. My 'body orgasms' were absolutely awesome!!!! I could continue lovemaking & was still hard as a rock both times until ejactulation after 20 to 30 minutes of further intercourse. My lady was very pleased, to say the least! There was no negative to my experience, perhaps the above post concerning prostate might be important. As to cumming per se, when I ejaculate it's the same quantity & force(?).

 

[grungalunga]

I just started doing this. Only prob is I was going to the brink and trying to hold back right away. So while I delayed the orgasm, I could still feel cum oozing, at which point i would become flacid again.

Once or twice, I managed to stop jacking for a split second or 2 during my orgasm, and resumed masturbating again. I had another orgasm right away. Real fun.

but i heard the whole edging thing canlead to bladder infections

 

[coolr]

i don't think age has anything to do with it since i'm in my 20's and have also had it happen twice, i don't really know what causes these, but they are by far way more intense than a normal orgasm, also wouldn't mind knowing the cause of, or how to continuously trigger these types of orgasms

 

[mackiain]

I always like to jerk off for as long as possible, sometimes set aside a good 1 or 2 hours for it, just jerk while im chattin or whatever, what i do is jerk really hard and fast till im close to cumming, and then stop and just let it calm down and do that all over again, it builds a humongous load and generally feels better to cum after that.

What has happened a couple times but i havent mastered it yet, is when im just about to cum and i pull my hand off my dick, i take just a little bit to long and after i move my hand away i try and hold back but still end up cumming anyway, but since i was tryin so hard to hold back my cum was clear and there wasnt much, and i found that i still stayed hard and i could keep jerking and the orgasm after that, WOW!! it is fuckin amazing, i really wish i could master this technique, alas it is very tricky.

 

[NYSubGrpplr]

I've noticed that I can usually control how much semen comes out when I masterbate as long as I don't go a few days with out being relieved.

 

[amraam840]

for those of you who know what the pc muscle is...

What I do to still have a rocking orgasm, but skip the cleaning part... Feel under your (or your partner's) nuts and there should be a bump/bulge/high spot down there. When you (or he) is at the point, press hard there with 2 or 3 fingers (nails can hurt) and you'll (he'll) just dry-fire... I honestly don't know what happens to my cum when I do this, maybe it just gets recycled back into the bloodstream? but after years of practicing this, and not every time I masturbate, I have found myself to be in good working order, so I don't know that this is unhealthy, but I haven't talked to anyone about it until now.

If any of you know about this, I'd like to know what your experience is...

 

[NYSubGrpplr]

for those of you who know what the pc muscle is...

What I do to still have a rocking orgasm, but skip the cleaning part... Feel under your (or your partner's) nuts and there should be a bump/bulge/high spot down there. When you (or he) is at the point, press hard there with 2 or 3 fingers (nails can hurt) and you'll (he'll) just dry-fire... I honestly don't know what happens to my cum when I do this, maybe it just gets recycled back into the bloodstream? but after years of practicing this, and not every time I masturbate, I have found myself to be in good working order, so I don't know that this is unhealthy, but I haven't talked to anyone about it until now.

If any of you know about this, I'd like to know what your experience is...

If you do excercises with you pc muscle you can do it without even pressing it.

 

[mugman]

Book learnin'

I just started to read a book about Tantric sex & it speaks of this spot too. Pressing the small soft spot between the anus & scrotum at the point of near-orgasm. We're going to experiment & see what happens.

 

[amraam840]

If you do excercises with you pc muscle you can do it without even pressing it.

Really? Which excercise specifically? I think that could really impress a partner!

 

[NYSubGrpplr]

Really? Which excercise specifically? I think that could really impress a partner!

You can practice flexing/Squeezing the muscle sorta like doing reps at the gym. I've heard the best thing is to hold it for 30 second intervals. Google it and see what comes up.

 

[grungalunga]

I wonder if nature really intended us to hold back the semen. Any thoughts onthiS?

 

[amraam840]

I have a lot of thoughts on this, but no answers. I wonder where it goes...

 

[amraam840]

edited

 

[EarnestImp]

I wonder if nature really intended us to hold back the semen. Any thoughts on thiS?

Everything you ever Wanted to Know About Sex, that 70s sex book by David Reuben, claims that squeezing the perineum is/was a common birth control method in Europe. He also claims that this is bad because blowing the semen back into your bladder stresses out various glands and valves and whatnot. But this might not be the type of holding back you meant, although someone else referred to this method.

Much of Reuben is considered outdated and kitchy, I think. I remember furtive afternoons in the library reading it, praying no one would come up the stairs.

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edit: actually, his book is really getting panned at amazon. They claim he's anti-gay, anti-single, anti-old, anti-black.....[/size]

 

[mugman]

No side effects

We have now attained the 'ejaculate-less' orgasm four times. No ill effects yet. Next time I visit the MD I'll ask if there are any dangers. Also I have done this without pressure to the perinieum, it was just muscle control (& inadvertent practice, I guess). Still experimenting (& ENJOYING) as often as possible. Thanks for the sharing of ideas & experiences. This board is very helpful.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Yes, it happens and it can be very very good from what he tells me.

Catalina

 

[biglboy]

I've had this happen to me before, usually when we've been going at it for quite a while. And it's true, sometimes orgasming(is that a word?) without ejaculating is amazing to feel.

 

[socentralpa]

yes I did it this morning...................and then went on 4 more times without ever really cumming............it feels good right now ......I stopped and visualized an ejaculatory orgasm and it happened.......wow I had a small stream of clear fluid the first and second time...It had the consistency and makeup of precum but was much more intense............I am now holding off till this evening to completely cum

 

[ash9]

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I have been doing this for at least 9 years. Nothing that special, just education.It takes a good control of your prostate to achieve maximum effect.This practice started in the middle east a long time ago first as a form of birth control.Anyone with questions should begin their search into the sexual arts.

 

[Tokan]

Yes, I have experienced it. It is absolutely amazing, and it's.. it's the way sex is supposed to be, IMO!

To respond to the idea that it involved a lot more between the ears: yes and no. Yes, you are stimulated more up there while experiencing it because so much more of your body is feeling it. In a way, it is very similar to female orgasm; you feel this tingling throughout your entire body that rushes into an uncontrollable crescendo of pleasure that rocks your entire existence! And don't touch me soon after because my body is like a charged tuning fork!

So yes, it does in that way involve you more 'mentally', but I'd hate to suggest that it involves some focused cerebral action in order to experience it. If you can imagine for a moment how intense it feels in your groin during an ejaculatory orgasm.. except all that energy ripping through your -body- instead, then you have an idea of what it feels like. And you end up feeling -supercharged- with all this intense energy that, instead of making you roll over and sleep, gives you the vibrant fervor to write short and detailed forum messages like these!

I'll be around,

~ Tokan.

 

[favoritedog]

I didn't go through all the posts to this thread, but you may want to research tantric sex. Part of the tantric method is having an orgasm without ejaculating