earning her submission?

[faithlessmaiden]

Submission isn't earned, but trust is. You can't expect someone to submit to another without trust being built first. Building trust takes time and is something that cannot be rushed. Any D/s relationship requires time to build as well. The processes of building the relationship is what is fun!

 

[alank]

I'm older (retiring in couple years) but new to this lifestyle and not very good at it.

These comments were polite, insightful and comforting.

Hell, if everybody was the same, it would be one pretty boring world!!