double penetration?

[SweetErika]

Good point, will see if that can happen. She has often seemed a bit shy in the past to actually pleasure herself during sex, but if I request then maybe she can charge of the dildo while I do my thing....

Maybe try doggie style with her just "holding" the dildo for you. She might feel uncomfortable about pleasuring herself in front of/performing for you, so that position might take the pressure off. Or, you could try propping it up in doggie style so it kind of thrusts with you, and she can reach down and support it if necessary.

We just started getting anal right, but we have used toys before. The Rabbit is great because it seems like a perfect size, rotates, and the clit stimulation is ecstacy. You don't have to move it even, so it's really good in any position. We both also love the Hitachi Magic Wand with G-spotter attachment. It's not very thick, but the angle and power is really incredible for him too. It's just the right height so we can put it on the bed, and I can ride it and rub my clit against it while he's behind me. The long handle makes for easy control and repositioning as well. I'd say the MW is my favorite because it's so versatile and every position, angle, and pressure is so great for both of us.

I find vibes infinitely better than dildos for DP, and ones that have g-spot and clit stim. capabilities are the best.

 

[Chi-Guy31]

Thanks, Erika, I will keep that in mind and seek out a good vibrator as soon as possible! I am still in shock that she found my sex toys a few days ago - if we had not had sex last night, when would she have told me, I wonder? I wonder what it will be like the first time she tries them out on me?

 

[eroticfun_2000]

Which do you and her find more intense, the dildo or the vibrator?

Vibrator definitely. Someone mentioned the rabbit and we have found that to be better.