Dom's control over the sub's natural urge to pee

[Daddy1111976]

Hi
As a dom I have this rule where my sub need to ask my permission if she wants to use the washroom. If I am too caught up to respond she is expected to wait for 10 mins and thereafter she is supposed to message me a fixed message and go ahead. At other times when I am free and in the mood I often delay gratification, give detailed instructions regarding her actual sitting down on the toilet seat and control the flow as well.
Often I pair this with a certain number of glasses that are required to be drunk at specified hours along with specific manner of reporting.
I would love to hear from others who share this kink. Both dom who love to control the sub in this way and subs who get turned on by such control .

 

[Somethingdifferent74]

Hi
As a dom I have this rule where my sub need to ask my permission if she wants to use the washroom. If I am too caught up to respond she is expected to wait for 10 mins and thereafter she is supposed to message me a fixed message and go ahead. At other times when I am free and in the mood I often delay gratification, give detailed instructions regarding her actual sitting down on the toilet seat and control the flow as well.
Often I pair this with a certain number of glasses that are required to be drunk at specified hours along with specific manner of reporting.
I would love to hear from others who share this kink. Both dom who love to control the sub in this way and subs who get turned on by such control .

You sound like a red flag. Js. I don't normally judge ones "practices" but there again I am an untrusting fucker, especially of "online Doms". I don't have a problem with one's practices or kinks but the fact that you get them "intoxicated" for a specific amount of time for your purpose is quite troubling. Since it sounds like you are setting up a "sub" to fail intentionally for your pleasure.

Just had to share my thoughts. I'm intoxicated slightly so I'm gonna purposely piss on your thread ✌⚘

 

[Daddy1111976]

The idea is not to get the sub "intoxicated." The idea is to use everyday situations (like drinking water) imaginatively so as to lend an erotic quality to it. This helps the sub to feel the dom's presence even if she may be at her workplace and also helps to assert ownership ( which of course follows from prior consent). Its not only play but tasks like this that keep the bond between the dom and the sub simmering.

 

[Somethingdifferent74]

The idea is not to get the sub "intoxicated." The idea is to use everyday situations (like drinking water) imaginatively so as to lend an erotic quality to it. This helps the sub to feel the dom's presence even if she may be at her workplace and also helps to assert ownership ( which of course follows from prior consent). Its not only play but tasks like this that keep the bond between the dom and the sub simmering.

Often I pair this with a certain number of glasses that are required to be drunk at specified hours along with specific manner of reporting.

I have to call "bullshit" here

But hey it's whatever.

Do you know what S.S.C., R.A.C.K. or even P.R.I.C.K means/stand for? Just curious

 

[Daddy1111976]

It is humorous to see that you feel that you are the only person who knows anything about this lifestyle.

 

[ericalauren]

It sounds like a good way to get a UTI. That being said, if it's consensual and you're both having fun, okay.

 

[DaddyKay2121]

If it's consensual on both ends then power to you. Just be careful because there are health risks that come with holding in your bladder. Suggestion if you going to do it think about shortening the wait time from 10 minutes.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

UTIs are no joke. I would safeword/limit on this one as it’s dangerous to do routinely.

 

[petes478]

UTIs are no joke. I would safeword/limit on this one as it’s dangerous to do routinely.

This girl speaks the truth.

 

[Older_Pervert]

Hi
As a dom I have this rule where my sub need to ask my permission if she wants to use the washroom. If I am too caught up to respond she is expected to wait for 10 mins and thereafter she is supposed to message me a fixed message and go ahead. At other times when I am free and in the mood I often delay gratification, give detailed instructions regarding her actual sitting down on the toilet seat and control the flow as well.
Often I pair this with a certain number of glasses that are required to be drunk at specified hours along with specific manner of reporting.
I would love to hear from others who share this kink. Both dom who love to control the sub in this way and subs who get turned on by such control .

Honestly, some of the replies on here beggar belief! I also have used bathroom control regularly as part of the (fully consensual) D/s dynamic. Apart from any D/s dynamic, bladder control is an important life skill as one ages (I know that only too well and practice it myself). If you encourage your sub to drink plenty of fluids (not alcohol), that’s supposed to be a good thing, not a recipe for UTIs. Imposing bladder control for 10 mins is not a health hazard - I self control like that all the time!
Take no notice of the self-righteous bastards, Daddy 1111976 and enjoy mutual pleasure with your sub!

 

[IrisAlthea]

Honestly, some of the replies on here beggar belief! I also have used bathroom control regularly as part of the (fully consensual) D/s dynamic. Apart from any D/s dynamic, bladder control is an important life skill as one ages (I know that only too well and practice it myself). If you encourage your sub to drink plenty of fluids (not alcohol), that’s supposed to be a good thing, not a recipe for UTIs. Imposing bladder control for 10 mins is not a health hazard - I self control like that all the time!
Take no notice of the self-righteous bastards, Daddy 1111976 and enjoy mutual pleasure with your sub!

This is BDSM Talk - a place for discussion.
From the Welcome post:

You will find most on the forum will treat the questions seriously and offer to share their experiences.....respect those experiences may not always provide the answer you would hope for, nor may they mirror your own, but are usually a response in good faith.

It can be a good thing to know that not everyone will find this a good idea and that there may be risks involved that you didn’t think of.

For those who really just want a ”Hawt’” or general sunshine blown…Fetish and Sexuality is probably a better fit.

As for the topic I’d agree that holding it for 10 minutes once in a while be harmless for most when done once in a while. That wasn’t what people were reacting to though. The OP talked about making this a rule all the time and waiting 10 min was just for him to have time to answer. Anyone not living a life of absolute leisure is probably already controlled by work, travel, meetings etc so OP’s games would be on top of that.
It might be more of an occasional thing but that was not how it was presented.
It might also be more of a fantasy thing, but this part of the forum is for discussion about actual BDSM, so that is what people are going to assume it is.

 

[L1511p]

If we are 'in the zone' my sub has to ask , she might be told to hold it for 5-10 mins, and she might deliberately dribble on me. Then she must be punished. I might use a sterile sound on her urethra. I might make her unable to hold her piss completely by putting a catheter in her and leaving it open to drip in her panties, or i might fit it to a bag and clamp it off so she literally cant piss. BUT anything in the urethra or connected with it must be sterile which caths and sterile lube is/are, and you have to know how to use them and you have to never stop her for more than 15 mins about. If its connnected to a bag 24 hours is fine. She [and i] become hugely turned on by all of this. Its been said - UTIs arent fun, but we've never had one from this in almost a decade.

 

[IrisAlthea]

Bathroom control veterans are well aware of the risks. Just like how anyone who dabbles in breath play risks killing their partner. Needle play could cause infection. And don't even get me started with impact play. All play & vanilla sex has risk. So acting like bathroom control needs special attention and condescending to the OP is unnecessary. I know peepee is icky but c'mon.

I don’t think it’s about this being icky, but rather that while most people get the idea that breath play and sharp things can be dangerous, there is less awareness when it comes to things like this.

Only time I've ever had a UTI? After surgery, after having a catheter in.

Yup, hardly ever had a UTI, but got pyelonephritis both times I had cathters put in by professionals at the hospital.

 

[Just4you2use44]

Hi
As a dom I have this rule where my sub need to ask my permission if she wants to use the washroom. If I am too caught up to respond she is expected to wait for 10 mins and thereafter she is supposed to message me a fixed message and go ahead. At other times when I am free and in the mood I often delay gratification, give detailed instructions regarding her actual sitting down on the toilet seat and control the flow as well.
Often I pair this with a certain number of glasses that are required to be drunk at specified hours along with specific manner of reporting.
I would love to hear from others who share this kink. Both dom who love to control the sub in this way and subs who get turned on by such control .

Sounds like fun to me. I would love to have various aspects of my normal life controlled by another person. For me, its not just the physical I crave, but the mental and "brain fucking" part as well.

 

[traill]

When daddy and I are together I ask permission. It is my pleasure to give him that control. If we were together on a daily basis he would be offered everything and anything he wanted, up to and including when I pee.

There is something really quite intimate about giving someone that power to control when one is allowed to pee. We have been playing a bit with this recently and Goddess has commented that when she allows me to pee after a long period of time it almost sounds like an orgasm. I just want to give her everything I can really.

 

[firmbutgentle]

Unless she has a really big bladder, your sub should probably be safewording sooner. An in-between option is a bedpan or a bowl, so that while the sub is not allowed to go to the toilet, she does not have to hold it in. But if she has a shy bladder she may need to safeword from that too. Overall, this is a nice control thing, but not good for endurance training.

 

[sweeterika2]

Hi
As a dom I have this rule where my sub need to ask my permission if she wants to use the washroom. If I am too caught up to respond she is expected to wait for 10 mins and thereafter she is supposed to message me a fixed message and go ahead. At other times when I am free and in the mood I often delay gratification, give detailed instructions regarding her actual sitting down on the toilet seat and control the flow as well.
Often I pair this with a certain number of glasses that are required to be drunk at specified hours along with specific manner of reporting.
I would love to hear from others who share this kink. Both dom who love to control the sub in this way and subs who get turned on by such control .

id like to be your sissy faggot please

 

[rob13jr]

You sound like a red flag. Js. I don't normally judge ones "practices" but there again I am an untrusting fucker, especially of "online Doms". I don't have a problem with one's practices or kinks but the fact that you get them "intoxicated" for a specific amount of time for your purpose is quite troubling. Since it sounds like you are setting up a "sub" to fail intentionally for your pleasure.

Just had to share my thoughts. I'm intoxicated slightly so I'm gonna purposely piss on your thread ✌⚘

Think he meant water

 

[rob13jr]

If it's consensual on both ends then power to you. Just be careful because there are health risks that come with holding in your bladder. Suggestion if you going to do it think about shortening the wait time from 10 minutes.

When the wife and I travel in a car, sometimes we both say we have to stop at the next rest stop because we both need to pee. That rest stop is 30 plus minutes down the road sometimes and we have no trouble holding it. I guess there are a lot of you pulling over on the freeway to pee whenever the urge happens. Be careful, might be more dangerous pulling over on road to pee then holding it. Crazy!

 

[Simee72]

Hi
As a dom I have this rule where my sub need to ask my permission if she wants to use the washroom. If I am too caught up to respond she is expected to wait for 10 mins and thereafter she is supposed to message me a fixed message and go ahead. At other times when I am free and in the mood I often delay gratification, give detailed instructions regarding her actual sitting down on the toilet seat and control the flow as well.
Often I pair this with a certain number of glasses that are required to be drunk at specified hours along with specific manner of reporting.
I would love to hear from others who share this kink. Both dom who love to control the sub in this way and subs who get turned on by such control .

I’ve pretty much enjoyed this kink my whole life. Usually it’s self inflicted but I have shared it with people no online. There are a lot of people who enjoy it, personally for me it’s the power exchange, giving up control really turns me on, I would even extend it to not being allowed to poop either, although this is predominantly a fantasy, I get off on the pain

Hi
As a dom I have this rule where my sub need to ask my permission if she wants to use the washroom. If I am too caught up to respond she is expected to wait for 10 mins and thereafter she is supposed to message me a fixed message and go ahead. At other times when I am free and in the mood I often delay gratification, give detailed instructions regarding her actual sitting down on the toilet seat and control the flow as well.
Often I pair this with a certain number of glasses that are required to be drunk at specified hours along with specific manner of reporting.
I would love to hear from others who share this kink. Both dom who love to control the sub in this way and subs who get turned on by such control .

I’ve pretty much enjoyed this kink my whole life. Usually it’s self inflicted but I have shared it with people no online. There are a lot of people who enjoy it, personally for me it’s the power exchange, giving up control (and all forms of denial) really turns me on, I would even extend it to not being allowed to poop either, although this is predominantly a fantasy and women including my wife are not interested. I get off on the pain and discomfort when I do hold, I don’t feel it hurts anyone except me and I’ve never had any medical issues because of it (I’ll only ever hold in anything for a few hours). I also like to extend this fantasy to another woman, but usually it’s not a control thing it’s about a predicament and she is unable to go.

Anyways, I’m weird and that’s just one of my many kinks.

 

[SPARTAN047]

This is really sexy and I love being controlled to pee and poop. Maybe in a nappy.

Or just keep me naked and tell me to hold in my pee and poop. Make me do it outside or in the floor and punish me for not holding it in every time.

 

[PleasureDaddy]

I few years ago I was in an online /phone/ text Daddy/slut situationship where she liked to text and ask me permission to do things such as peeing or touching herself. This was usually during work. It was hot. And we also had a “common sense” rule that if after a time if she didn’t hear back from me she needed to go regardless. She would sometimes rub herself after she got permission and went. Very fun!