Dommes or subs of Dommes

[knot_sweet]

No one's "free of" that BS. Were you praised as a kid for being "pretty?" Were you ever told you need to smile more?

The message that your life's function is to make people feel good and make babies is so all consuming you may not feel it every day - I don't because I've set up my life in opposition, but it's THERE.

So a sexuality that's (oversimplifying) about making yourself feel good, even making yourself feel good in disregard to someone else - that's VERY oppositional.

I do see your point, and I do try to understand that for a vast majority of women that's how things are.

I guess I had a very unique upbringing and for the most part of my life have never had to deal with that type of BS. It does make life hard when I try to interact with more socially typical people.