Dom/Domme "space"

[jdmct]

If this has been done,sorry.
Looking for what makes other Doms/Dommes "space".
Can only speak for myself.
When my Loving Sub spaces,my responsibility is caring and comforting(both during and after).
This bring our souls together and that is when it happens for me.There is no other feeling like it.
Other Doms/Dommes??

Thanks,
James

 

[YinandYang]

If this has been done,sorry.
Looking for what makes other Doms/Dommes "space".
Can only speak for myself.
When my Loving Sub spaces,my responsibility is caring and comforting(both during and after).
This bring our souls together and that is when it happens for me.There is no other feeling like it.
Other Doms/Dommes??

Thanks,
James

I can only speak from the other side of the coin.,..but I would be interested to hear more on this

 

[YinandYang]

My SO talks of feeling really powerful but also very protective almost in a maternal sense for me? Is this what you mean?

 

[Leolover711]

Who's serving who?

The incredible responsibility of having another completly in Your hands and knowing they willingly gave themselves to You in that manner creates a levelof adoration that is unexplainable. Dom space is in many ways like comming full circle, You are in fact at that moment completely serving the needs of Your sub/slave. Imagine that?

 

[madetobeme]

ouch!

You are in fact at that moment completely serving the needs of Your sub/slave.

My head is starting to hurt...

How about we re-name this thread the paradox of dom/domme ship?

 

[Leolover711]

Ship has sailed

My head is starting to hurt...

How about we re-name this thread the paradox of dom/domme ship?

alas, the ship has sailed,but I would certainly like to hear from other Dom/Domme's.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Debated answering this one because i think i have in other places.

Submissives speak of dropping, falling, becoming enclosed in a dark and warm place. My trip progresses in the opposite direction. The hunger starts off as a sputtering orangish/brown flame like a dying sparkler at dusk on the 4th of July. If i choose to feed that hunger, it transforms into a warm and steady orange like that in an oil fed hurricane lantern. When i've decided i want what i want, i flow quickly through blue to almost invisible butane torch. Like the torch, i don't need the glass of a hurricane lantern to sustain the flame. i become hyperaware of everything. Although highly aroused, the agitation alters to cool control. i wouldn't characterize what i feel as invulnerability, omniscience, nor any other God like power. i simply fit.

 

[Netzach]

Mine is

much more like what AA eloquently describes than warm fuzzy interconnectedness. That post-coital unity thing usually happens post-scene and after a few moments to collect ourselves.

The pleasure of Dom space for me, is very similar to the pleasure of creative work. The space in my brain is taken up with making something happen, paying attention, being mindful to all the little things that I need to make happen at once. I'm not a multitasker by nature ---except in a scene I can keep a lot of balls in the air (no pun ha ha) and that makes me feel happy, accomplished, together, and in charge.

Sometimes I find myself laughing, sometimes I find myself committing sadistic things I would have issues with were I not in my zone where such things are appropriate and fitting, and the right thing at the right time. Sometimes Dom space is where I have to go to meet my sadist.

 

[roosterado9]

much more like what AA eloquently describes than warm fuzzy interconnectedness. That post-coital unity thing usually happens post-scene and after a few moments to collect ourselves.

The pleasure of Dom space for me, is very similar to the pleasure of creative work. The space in my brain is taken up with making something happen, paying attention, being mindful to all the little things that I need to make happen at once. I'm not a multitasker by nature ---except in a scene I can keep a lot of balls in the air (no pun ha ha) and that makes me feel happy, accomplished, together, and in charge.

Sometimes I find myself laughing, sometimes I find myself committing sadistic things I would have issues with were I not in my zone where such things are appropriate and fitting, and the right thing at the right time. Sometimes Dom space is where I have to go to meet my sadist.

this lady scares me in an aweful OhMy way

 

[landcruisergal]

much more like what AA eloquently describes than warm fuzzy interconnectedness. That post-coital unity thing usually happens post-scene and after a few moments to collect ourselves.

The pleasure of Dom space for me, is very similar to the pleasure of creative work. The space in my brain is taken up with making something happen, paying attention, being mindful to all the little things that I need to make happen at once. I'm not a multitasker by nature ---except in a scene I can keep a lot of balls in the air (no pun ha ha) and that makes me feel happy, accomplished, together, and in charge.

Sometimes I find myself laughing, sometimes I find myself committing sadistic things I would have issues with were I not in my zone where such things are appropriate and fitting, and the right thing at the right time. Sometimes Dom space is where I have to go to meet my sadist.

What she said...
Totally unprepared, was I for the kick.
He whimpers, he moans, he begs, even tears roll down his cheeks, he gets hard at a word from me now.
I get aroused and I think, " I am so f..king good at this.I can make him do whatever I like. I can push all his buttons."
The fact that he is a big boy makes it even sweeter.
I look back sometimes and think he has evoked a demon in me that I never knew existed. What's even worse/better, is that it makes me smile.

 

[erusian]

The sad misconception of the masses is that BDSM and D/S is a pageant of inequality. It is, rather, an exploration and celebration of differences. Both master and slave, top and bottom, artist and canvas feed one another for the duration of their interaction. For that time, by way of trust, the girl is enabled to detach herself from all inhibition.

As she leaves her natural reactions of self preservation in the wake of the body's endorphins rushing through her blood, she reaches a point at which she completely 'lets go'. It is then that she is able to float... to free fall within expanse of her own being.

Bringing a woman to this point is pure nectar for me. It is 'space', if you will. From there on, it is a matter of balancing that moment on a knife edge. To go too far is to rouse her out of that euphoria. To provide too little stimulation ebbs the flow of endorphins. It is here that one treads carefully... testing the strength of strands woven; all the while expanding the web. Pain and pleasure, fear and comfort, shock and release, all woven into the pattern...

 

[Never]

Oh yeah, I know all about going into your own space. One time I walked into a wall. Then continued walking, hitting the wall again. Then I was like, "Oh! It's a wall!"

Do you think that makes me a dom or a sub?

 

[grace9]

The sad misconception of the masses is that BDSM and D/S is a pageant of inequality. It is, rather, an exploration and celebration of differences. Both master and slave, top and bottom, artist and canvas feed one another for the duration of their interaction. For that time, by way of trust, the girl is enabled to detach herself from all inhibition.

As she leaves her natural reactions of self preservation in the wake of the body's endorphins rushing through her blood, she reaches a point at which she completely 'lets go'. It is then that she is able to float... to free fall within expanse of her own being.

Bringing a woman to this point is pure nectar for me. It is 'space', if you will. From there on, it is a matter of balancing that moment on a knife edge. To go too far is to rouse her out of that euphoria. To provide too little stimulation ebbs the flow of endorphins. It is here that one treads carefully... testing the strength of strands woven; all the while expanding the web. Pain and pleasure, fear and comfort, shock and release, all woven into the pattern...

Well said!!!...*stands and applauds*....I would hazzard a guess to say that this could be what James wrote of.....

 

[jdmct]

guessing Grace

Congratulations Grace,you are this week's winner of a return trip to the clouds of your choice!!
You have only to call your Loving Master's phone number this eveningand all will be arranged.

 

[grace9]

Congratulations Grace,you are this week's winner of a return trip to the clouds of your choice!!
You have only to call your Loving Master's phone number this eveningand all will be arranged.

was that a command?....<left to own momentary devices to figure out>.....*picks up phone while packing to go *

see you soon