Does your bf/gf/spouse know/

[32aa]

My wife has no clue I’m on here, much less that I’m writing stories and publishing them here!

Same here. My wife has been going through depression for, like forever. Reading, writing, and publishing stories is my escape.

 

[Tall_grl]

My husband knows and encourages my photo posts.

 

[call_me_sarge]

Mine knows, usually reads over my shoulder as I read. A few times she’s taken over to respond to a few. We’ve found a few threads that we enjoy. We’ve met a few people from here, met some good people.

 

[RipleNStllWtr]

No. She wouldn't approve. But with hormone replacement therapy she is getting a bit freakier lately. Yeah never know, maybe one drunken night I will show her

 

[purplelavendar]

My partner knows everything! She encourages it too

 

[Wildfly11]

My boyfriend has no idea that I’m here.

Honestly, a part of me wants to share my stories (and my fantasies) with him. Not that I intend to act on them, but just to talk about it.

But the logical part of me knows that I should probably keep all these to myself.

I hear you. I have thought about sharing the fact that I am on here but I have shared desires and fantasies along with some activities I have never told her and I don't know if I am ready to be that open and vulnerable.

 

[LIDiver]

Does this count? I am single.. however, no one in my family knows. Having been brought up in a very strict Christian home I would never let anyone know that I use this as a sensual erotica outlet for my own secret pleasure.

Yes, it certainly does. I feel, we all use lit as an outlet in one way or another.

 

[Radiantcurves87]

Yes, it certainly does. I feel, we all use lit as an outlet in one way or another.

Couldn't have said it better.

 

[Cardinal]

I came here at first to post my first story, about some naughty stuff i got up to while my boyfriend was far away (https://www.literotica.com/s/jess-and-the-country-boy feel free to read it if you like), but now I really enjoy reading other people’s posts. He doesn’t know anything about my sudden interest in being bad… does your sig other know you’re here?

She doesn’t know and wouldn’t like it

 

[VikingPhoenix]

Does this count? I am single.. however, no one in my family knows. Having been brought up in a very strict Christian home I would never let anyone know that I use this as a sensual erotica outlet for my own secret pleasure.

Use away! Hey gorgeous. Hope life is treating you kindly

 

[808guy]

My spouse caught me about 10 yrs ago. I had been using forums and chats to gain "experience" for writing erotica.
He flipped out, I get it.

After reading every message, and getting over anger of original shock, he did conclude I started out with the best of intentions. Anyone who wanted to discuss my daughter or family, I shut down instantly.

Years later, my interactions ramped up when we were in a bad place. He couldn't see his part in the destruction, gaslighting me at every turn.
One interaction turned physical. I got caught. I owned up to affair and chatting randomly. And my intention to continue.

He was asexual, unable to maintain an erection with me, but not his own pleasure.
He did not support my lifestyle so we have been leading separate lives for 3 yrs.

I thought open and honest was best.
But maybe not.

Sorry to hear about this. If I were he I’d enjoy chatting with you reading comments posting the both of us etc. I maybe a little different tho and felt that way since I was in hs

 

[goldytheGoldfish]

Yes. I hand my computer/media over sometimes and discuss. I clearly have a different expectation than they do.

 

[Badguy4u]

No. Wish she was into BDSM, but sadly she's pure vanilla and I have to have my play time with others elsewhere and on sites like this.

 

[drobert44]

Use away! Hey gorgeous. Hope life is treating you kindly

We are all here for the same reasons...........

 

[Wonderer67]

My wife knows I’m here. We sometimes look at vids and photos on a few forums.

I share things in here that I find funny or hot. (She’s doesn’t appreciate all of my sexual Urges and tastes, but that’s life.)

She also helps me with some of my stories by proofreading, or occasionally with ideas.

 

[NEOhio1972]

Wife doesn't know......we have fun on our own, but certainly like getting on and exploring more things......and more kinks depending on any given mood for the day!!

 

[neon_noodle]

yes he does, and he encourages it!! he says it gets him off when I share

Very nice. He's turned on by his hot wife making men's cocks rock hard.

 

[XXVIII]

My wife knows we're here and that I post for the both of us. She also knows about my bi curiosity and kinks. They're a hot turn on for her, and she's totally supportive and encouraging.

 

[cowboyup6977]

My husband knows I’m here mainly with my R

 

[LMWM321]

She does. ..She's the inspiration for my stories and even lends a hand writing them. If you're into the Loving Wives category, please give them a look (and post feedback please!).

I told her I'd never post anything here in the Forums section I'd be embarrassed or ashamed of her reading - that everything I read/ enjoy here on Lit is completely consensual and mutually enjoyed by all participants.

Does she come here on her own, for her own enjoyment? Alas, no... I wish she would though.

The bottomline is she knows I have an outrageously high libido and need an outlet that is not harmful to our relationship. ...She's totally cool with it.

 

[Tweedledude]

Absolutely not! She would lock me out!

Agreed. She wouldn't see the reason or understand it at all.

 

[studly87]

My wife does not know I get on here

 

[v_happy_husband]

My wife of over 10 years knows that I have the higher drive, and that I watch a lot of porn and masturbate frequently. She has never expressed any interest in the details of my solo activities, but I would share if she wanted to know.

The sex we have is amazing and we both enjoy it very much, just wish she would be interested in more of it. I want to openly worship her beautiful body all the the time, but she's the type who is uncomfortable with talking about sex, doesn't initiate, and wants the lights-off during. I suspect she might not be ok if my online activities became more interactive, and frankly I'm conflicted about it myself as I hit "Post reply" on my very first forum post.

 

[Oldermom935]

My husband knows I’m here mainly with my R

And I love you B...

 

[DickandDoof]

My wife knows I’m here, but she doesn’t know how often I’m here. She also knows I’m attracted to cocks, but doesn’t know how much time I spend on gay threads.