Does your bf/gf/spouse know/

[yukonnights]

Yes, my spouse not only knows about my hobby here, they also proof-read them for me prior to posting them here. We don't really have any secrets and have been together a long time.

 

[Peaker44Redeux]

She has no idea. Would not be happy.

Mine also has no clue, nor does she know my fantasies!

 

[Erodicus]

I came here at first to post my first story, about some naughty stuff i got up to while my boyfriend was far away (https://www.literotica.com/s/jess-and-the-country-boy feel free to read it if you like), but now I really enjoy reading other people’s posts. He doesn’t know anything about my sudden interest in being bad… does your sig other know you’re here?

My SO doesn't know about Lit specifically. She probably thinks I'm looking at porn. But that's only one of the things she doesn't know about. Personally, I'd prefer to have my secret sexual interests all out in the open, but when I suggested we should try a foursome, she was so horrified that I've never shared any sexual secrets with her since. Nor has she with me either, assuming she has some.

 

[travelenman]

Definitely, and she loves when I share her pics and stories.

 

[WerdNerd]

Nope

 

[sexfan23]

Nope

Same.

 

[BusDee276]

Nope. He wouldn't be happy if he knew

 

[ned63]

Wife doesnt know Im here or somethings I do. She be really pissed off. If she knew I played with her panties that to I hope she never finds out.

 

[NEOhio1972]

Ditto!! Here in secret!!

 

[LavenderIncense]

Yes he knows I play and tease. But he shares me online too, so its fun for both of us

 

[ned63]

Yes he knows I play and tease. But he shares me online too, so its fun for both of us

Hope we can chat sometime. maybe it will lead to some fun.

 

[travelenman]

Nope. He wouldn't be happy if he knew

What else does he not know about?

 

[LibertineDaddy]

My husband does NOT know and would be livid if he did.

hell.. I'd be super proud!

 

[wildcard34]

My husband does NOT know and would be livid if he did.

I wouldn't mind you being here if I were him!

 

[nothingatall27]

Wife doesn’t know and that is for the best.

 

[itstararose]

Husband doesn’t know and he wouldn’t be happy

 

[DaddysYogaBabyGirl]

Does this count? I am single.. however, no one in my family knows. Having been brought up in a very strict Christian home I would never let anyone know that I use this as a sensual erotica outlet for my own secret pleasure.

 

[Handydan]

Does this count? I am single.. however, no one in my family knows. Having been brought up in a very strict Christian home I would never let anyone know that I use this as an sensual erotica outlet for my own secret pleasure.

Your pleasure is far more important than their expectations. Enjoy yourself!!!

 

[Bigboobbabe]

My spouse caught me about 10 yrs ago. I had been using forums and chats to gain "experience" for writing erotica.
He flipped out, I get it.

After reading every message, and getting over anger of original shock, he did conclude I started out with the best of intentions. Anyone who wanted to discuss my daughter or family, I shut down instantly.

Years later, my interactions ramped up when we were in a bad place. He couldn't see his part in the destruction, gaslighting me at every turn.
One interaction turned physical. I got caught. I owned up to affair and chatting randomly. And my intention to continue.

He was asexual, unable to maintain an erection with me, but not his own pleasure.
He did not support my lifestyle so we have been leading separate lives for 3 yrs.

I thought open and honest was best.
But maybe not.

 

[Nicefella]

My spouse caught me about 10 yrs ago. I had been using forums and chats to gain "experience" for writing erotica.
He flipped out, I get it.

After reading every message, and getting over anger of original shock, he did conclude I started out with the best of intentions. Anyone who wanted to discuss my daughter or family, I shut down instantly.

Years later, my interactions ramped up when we were in a bad place. He couldn't see his part in the destruction, gaslighting me at every turn.
One interaction turned physical. I got caught. I owned up to affair and chatting randomly. And my intention to continue.

He was asexual, unable to maintain an erection with me, but not his own pleasure.
He did not support my lifestyle so we have been leading separate lives for 3 yrs.

I thought open and honest was best.
But maybe not.

I’m sorry to hear that @Bigboobbabe

The truth is - although we have many people here telling us how understanding their spouses are of their interests in kink/lit, it feels as if most would not understand and gaslight. Sure, a simplifying response to this reply would be “communication is key” but some partners don’t have the same ability to communicate and/or have difficult/manipulative spouses who take open communication as another point of contention.

Just my 2 cents.

 

[LexiSmiles92]

yup

 

[slightlysubhub]

Not at all,this is my own secret fun.

 

[easyoff]

There was a time whe my wife would help me pick out play partners, not on here but lockal swingers sites and mags,

 

[amyiscold]

My boyfriend has no idea that I’m here.

Honestly, a part of me wants to share my stories (and my fantasies) with him. Not that I intend to act on them, but just to talk about it.

But the logical part of me knows that I should probably keep all these to myself.

 

[Stewart_Pidd]

My wife has posted here sometimes bro.

Stew