Does size of penises REALLY matter to us women?

[Friendlymann]

for intercourse, not really. I prefer bigger because I enjoy handjobs and blowjobs on bigger dicks more.

I almost didn't read what you said, too busy enjoying the hand job gif!

 

[sangerin]

Life isn't a fantasy and although looking at pics might arouse my fantasies I'm quite content with any size. What's been the case for me has been WHO the penis is attached to, not what size it is or what it looks like. Can he stimulate every sense in my body?

 

[gregy70]

Actually we did try (to have sex with him). But could not feel him in me at all, and there was no room for any kind of in-and-out movement..hard to explain but it basically did not work. Switched to oral and got the sense he was getting more out of that himself.

I've always wondered if he and his roommate knew about each other's sizes..like surely they'd seen each other take a piss or something? I don't know, American guys are so homophobic. Where I grew up they definitely would have seen each other already, but here in US it's odd.

Yunno power to the little guy for braving up & power to you ladies for being sweet about including him.

 

[happyamy]

I guess average guys with little experience are totally screwed then

It's the attitude that matters most. If you come at me all hangdog and negative and nervous and unsure, then yes, you're screwed. If you confidently take control and use me good and hard, then you'll get screwed and we'll both love it.

 

[policywank]

I agree. Of course there's something to it. It might just be the culture but there's SOMETHING there. I don't think I've known anyone who's ever gotten laid because of it though. The most I've gotten is "You have really big hands and feet. You must have a huge dick!" I even had someone kind of broadcast it years ago and it never got me anywhere with anyone as far as I can tell.

I found out I was well-endowed at a young age and it did seem to matter then, but more recently it doesn't seem like that big a thing. We'd all prefer physical perfection but that's just not how the world is and most of us at some point mature and realize that we're going to have to look deeper than that.

And as I said before if you find someone who says "Yeah, no. You're just too small. Not happening. Get out of here" that's not someone you want to waste time on. Like if a guy said "I don't think so. You're way too loose" that would be a douchey thing to do, right? So don't waste time on immature childish people and you're generally going to be fine.

That is right. There are other things that are far more important. And laughing at a guy or giving him the brush off because he has a small dick is a shallow and bitchy thing to do. Likewise I have never pursued a guy because I thought he had a big dick. But that isn't the same thing as saying it doesn't matter at all.

We are all human and physical appeal is part of attraction.

 

[Mercury_Maniac]

It's the attitude that matters most. If you come at me all hangdog and negative and nervous and unsure, then yes, you're screwed. If you confidently take control and use me good and hard, then you'll get screwed and we'll both love it.

I wish I wasn't that way. Maybe if I had been treated better I would be better off who knows just the way I feel now wish it wasn't

 

[SocalMilf]

I enjoy average or slightly bigger. Really for me it is about how the guy uses it.

 

[lynn-23]

There have been some great answers here. I think size can matter, to different women in different ways. I do agree that who its attached to is the more important thing. But to honestly answer the question, to me, its not that important. I have been with a guy that was very large. I admit that it was very exciting to look at and hold and touch. I still occasionally like to see big cocks in porn. However, it wasn't very practical or enjoyable for intercourse or even oral. My husband is average size, about 6 inches. It is perfect. When i think of the ideal cock, its his. I k now some women like that full/stretched feeling. I understand that, but that is only a small part of sex to me. What else the guy does is more important. Also, how HARD a guy is more important than the size really. A large cock that isn't fully hard, isn't very satisfying.

 

[scott6251]

The real test for us "honest" ladies is the following: If you had to have sex with only one man and the choice of men were the ones shown below and all you knew about them was what you see in the picture who would you choose?

I like them all, but if I had to choose one it would be...

http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mdonsu1ckQ1rjwaedo1_1280.jpg

far left . . .

 

[lynn-23]

There was a comment earlier that i really agree with: porn really gives people a misconception of reality of what average men are and what women like. Most of the men in porn are way over average size. Thats how they got into porn, but they are not really representative of most men. Neither is the idea that all women need or want a large cock. Have fun with porn, but just remember its just porn. I have a friend that is part asian. She is absolutely gorgeous. But she told me once that she hates to look at porn because all the women are tall skinny platinum blondes and so she thought that is what men all want.

 

[Friendlymann]

There was a comment earlier that i really agree with: porn really gives people a misconception of reality of what average men are and what women like. Most of the men in porn are way over average size. Thats how they got into porn, but they are not really representative of most men. Neither is the idea that all women need or want a large cock. Have fun with porn, but just remember its just porn. I have a friend that is part asian. She is absolutely gorgeous. But she told me once that she hates to look at porn because all the women are tall skinny platinum blondes and so she thought that is what men all want.

That is very insightful. We each of us could do more maybe to make it clear it is the whole person, mind and body, who interests and excites us, not just one or a few parts of him or her.

 

[AnnieBonneau]

There are women to whom size is very important. I think that they are probably in the minority but guys don't know that. The thing that I think makes us different from guys in regard to penis size and breast size is that with us, breast size is fairly obvious eve when we are dressed while penis size is not. I think that some chicks would get laid much more often if they wore a button that says, Size Doesn't Matter.

 

[lynn-23]

There are women to whom size is very important. I think that they are probably in the minority but guys don't know that. The thing that I think makes us different from guys in regard to penis size and breast size is that with us, breast size is fairly obvious eve when we are dressed while penis size is not. I think that some chicks would get laid much more often if they wore a button that says, Size Doesn't Matter.

LOL, funny. You are right, there are some women that have a preference for large. I have a friend that says that. Thats fine, there is nothing wrong with that in my opinion. I just think that for most women, its not a big deal. Just like for most men, breast size isn't really that important. But women dont realize it. Everyone has insecurities; just don't let them get the best of you.

 

[PtmcPilot]

Evolution is a bitch. The average male is 6", +/- less than an inch. That is precisely the range women prefer or our distant ancestors would have been shorter, longer, or wider.

Do some women enjoy bigger, sure. Do most people profess liking tart wines and then buy sweet? Yes. The fact of the matter is your dick is your dick and chances are most women (90%+) will be able to enjoy it perfectly well.

I have to say that for women and men, to paraphrase an earlier poster, the genitalia are most important when attached to someone you care about. I don't know for sure, but I am willing to bet that the most popular dildo/penetrating vibrator size is 'average' and not 'huge.' Vaginas coevolved with penises, and that's the way it is.

 

[PtmcPilot]

I should add, however, since penises are much easier to please than vaginas, it is the men who are the right fit for women and not the other way around.

 

[PtmcPilot]

far left . . .

This has been demonstrated in scientific trials. Yes, women choose the bigger, thicker dick in such tests...but yet the evolutionary choice is 'average.' The difference between 'stated' and 'declared' preference. Said another way, we do not always opt to buy what we say we want.

 

[riverrunt]

Ok so size is kinda a big deal but tell me this than how does a guy know if he is using it right,,, is there a technique that I need to work on here,,, how do us guys know.

 

[lydia_kitty]

Ok so size is kinda a big deal but tell me this than how does a guy know if he is using it right,,, is there a technique that I need to work on here,,, how do us guys know.

Every woman is different. Communicate with your partner about what she likes and dislikes and pay attention to her body language and sounds.

 

[riverrunt]

I would love that but it seems that she is just so quiet when it comes to that, really reserved,, that is where I just wonder if there is something i'm missing thanks Lydia

 

[Interested_Girl]

The answer is yes, for the love of CHRIST, yes. Size matters.

 

[hotnwetnow]

To me size matters

I prefer big cocks. I love cocks that fill me up completely, and no, I don't have a big cunt. I use a thigh master exerciser and also tighten and release my vaginal muscles hundreds of times daily. I love feeling my pussy as it milks a cock when I'm fucking. I like it to hurt deep inside when a big cock is pounding into me! I want my pussy to be sore when I get finished fucking.

 

[hotnwetnow]

Girl talk

When you're out having drinks with the girls and one of them points out a guy and says, yeah, he's good lookin, but he's got a little dick, and the other girls giggle, size matters to all of them. I've never heard on of my gf's bragging about going out with some pencil dick. Dick size determines a second date with me!

 

[AnnieBonneau]

My thing is that sometimes size is great just for the size. But it it far from being a criteria. Some of the best were probably around 5. Sometimes because they had so much else going that size wasn't relevant. Sometimes at 5 they were just great lovers and also knew how to eat pussy and make me feel sexy.

 

[Mercury_Maniac]

MM get this, please:

Average works wonderfully and that's what the women are saying on this thread.
A curve gives certain advantages especially when it comes to g-spot arousal.
Uncut means your equipment has a natural handsomeness, you get more pleasure in terms of the sensations on the head when exposed, and at full erection your foreskin creates more thickness on the upper part of your shaft.

Put it this way: I challenge you to find one ... ONE! European gentile man who envies the American custom of circumcising baby boys.

So, pal, put this misery talk of yours behind you and leave it there!

And I'll add some more. With the greatest respect to women. Any one of them who is likely to "laugh at" a guy who is average, curved and uncut is not worthy of you. You send such a gal packing, and throw her panties in the trash, d'ya hear!

i wish it was that easy for me.

 

[guns44]

The answer is yes, for the love of CHRIST, yes. Size matters.

What do you consider a big cock? Sounds like girth is more important?