Does size of penises REALLY matter to us women?

[kauen]

I guess average guys with little experience are totally screwed then

Not at all just find a girl who is equally inexperienced or cums really easily

If such a lady is not available though I think you'll find most woman will have a lot of patience if they like you. So long as your eager to learn and get better most women will find it a joy to guide your tongue as it goes to work.

Inexperience is only a problem when the guy is totally unaware of how crap he is and just bangs away thinking he's sending you into nirvana...

 

[Mercury_Maniac]

If such a lady is not available though I think you'll find most woman will have a lot of patience if they like you.

i guess thats the problem then.

 

[Suburbia]

Big Dicks are pretty to look at but can be a pain in the ass.

 

[ABmaninCAL]

Big Dicks are pretty to look at but can be a pain in the ass.

lol not enough prep time or lube!

 

[jasonsans]

Just an average man chiming in here to say that I don't think I have ever got myself anxious about my size. OK I've been with a woman who's happy with me a long time; but I'm thinking to my virgin years and I liked my erection very much then too, without any fretting about some guys being bigger than me.

Ah! - no porn in my youth! Is that why it was not a deal for me?

Ya, I think porn kinda tends to fuck with peoples heads a bit, you watch enough and you get this subconscious opinion that all dudes have horse dicks. The truth is that most women dont even want a dick that big,... I have a homie thats... fuckin packin, and when we were younger it was pretty much a problem because no girl could give him head, or enjoy fucking him because it hurt so much. I was jealous because I wanted a dick that big, he hated it because in reality it was a hassle..... lol male penis psychology is honestly pretty hilarious.

 

[policywank]

The enduring problem with this question and I think part of the reason guys keep asking it is that most women don't answer it directly.

The question is very simply "does it matter?"......not how much does it matter or how does that relate to other considerations. "It doesn't matter as much as the man it is attached to" may be an honest statement but it doesn't answer the question. As thickheaded as we imagine guys to be they can recognize obfuscation when they hear it.

The short answer is yes it matters. Its not all important or even very important at all and if all I wanted was to be impaled on a giant pole I'd buy baseball bats instead of dildos.

Switch places for a moment. Your man is drooling over some woman with big tits so you ask him if he prefers bigger breasts. He launches into a discussion of how perfect you are, how great your ass is, how big tits are only one aspect of sexiness, how attitude and approach trump any specific feature.......on and on saying anything besides actually answering the question. After all that what is the answer.....yes he likes big tits and you weren't the least bit convinced by all the diversions. The effort he put into not saying yes more or less screamed YES.

 

[secretly_yoursx]

Yes size does matter but all it really does is change the different type/style of sex I have. I have had smaller ones that have given me just as good and sometimes even better than an overly large penis. Unless I am so horny that it just doesnt matter at all what is in me size usually only changes the type of positions I like and length of time I can last

 

[lydia_kitty]

Yes, is matters. In my experience though most men fall into a delightfully satisfying "average" range. I've have VERY BIG and teeny tiny and the tiny didn't do it for me at all.

 

[ShyMaleSub]

Yes, is matters. In my experience though most men fall into a delightfully satisfying "average" range. I've have VERY BIG and teeny tiny and the tiny didn't do it for me at all.

But isn't it a little fun to tease a guy with a small penis?

 

[BrightShinyGirl]

As others have said, it's not so much the length as the girth. And even that doesn't matter THAT much. As long as he's thick enough to fill me up, that's enough. Who he is, and how he acts, and how he moves are all much more important than how big he is.

 

[stud_4_milfs]

Size, yeah probably, but what about curve and firmness? Also thicker and wider vs. longer??

 

[HayleyLuvsSex]

for intercourse, not really. I prefer bigger because I enjoy handjobs and blowjobs on bigger dicks more.

 

[live4thebj]

I guess average guys with little experience are totally screwed then

Girls used to talk about this guy in the group that was packing 9 plus inches and they said it's sad for he didn't know how to use it.

 

[Mercury_Maniac]

I guess that's me without the nine inches

 

[UrbanBohemian]

The enduring problem with this question and I think part of the reason guys keep asking it is that most women don't answer it directly.

The question is very simply "does it matter?"......not how much does it matter or how does that relate to other considerations. "It doesn't matter as much as the man it is attached to" may be an honest statement but it doesn't answer the question. As thickheaded as we imagine guys to be they can recognize obfuscation when they hear it.

The short answer is yes it matters. Its not all important or even very important at all and if all I wanted was to be impaled on a giant pole I'd buy baseball bats instead of dildos.

Switch places for a moment. Your man is drooling over some woman with big tits so you ask him if he prefers bigger breasts. He launches into a discussion of how perfect you are, how great your ass is, how big tits are only one aspect of sexiness, how attitude and approach trump any specific feature.......on and on saying anything besides actually answering the question. After all that what is the answer.....yes he likes big tits and you weren't the least bit convinced by all the diversions. The effort he put into not saying yes more or less screamed YES.

I agree. Of course there's something to it. It might just be the culture but there's SOMETHING there. I don't think I've known anyone who's ever gotten laid because of it though. The most I've gotten is "You have really big hands and feet. You must have a huge dick!" I even had someone kind of broadcast it years ago and it never got me anywhere with anyone as far as I can tell.

I found out I was well-endowed at a young age and it did seem to matter then, but more recently it doesn't seem like that big a thing. We'd all prefer physical perfection but that's just not how the world is and most of us at some point mature and realize that we're going to have to look deeper than that.

And as I said before if you find someone who says "Yeah, no. You're just too small. Not happening. Get out of here" that's not someone you want to waste time on. Like if a guy said "I don't think so. You're way too loose" that would be a douchey thing to do, right? So don't waste time on immature childish people and you're generally going to be fine.

 

[Raingirl85]

But isn't it a little fun to tease a guy with a small penis?

This wasn't directed at me, but I have to answer, I know some guys *WANT* to be humiliated about their small size..but me personally, I could never humiliate a guy like that, even if it is what he is into. Maybe it's because I'm a sub through anf through and not a Domme type.

When I was 19, my bisexual girlfriend-with-benefits and I went home with two guys (roommates) we met at the club. I think they assumed we'd pair off, but she and I wanted group play and made sure that happened. Turned out one of the guys had an actual micro-penis. Like, it was fully erect and the size of my thumb. Bizarrely, the other roommate had the biggest dick that I have ever seen, both length and thickness... this was 10 years ago and I still have yet to see a bigger one in real life. Since the little guy was too small to fuck we took turns giving him oral until he came, and then took turns getting fucked by the big guy. Which was seriously kind of painful/uncomfortable. Anyway, it never once crossed my mind to tease or even comment on the small guy's micro penis. He deserves to get off like anyone else. No, I couldn't be with a guy like that unless I had someone else on the side. That doesn't mean he should be treated badly.

It was a very weird night though...my smallest and biggest at the same time.

 

[Iceprincess12]

Yes size matters. If it's too short and thin, there isn't the feeling of fullness. Too long and he can hit the cervix, that is very uncomfortable. Too thick can be just as bad.

A man should know that sex isn't just about his cock. He can please a woman without ever dropping his pants.

 

[ChattyAnnie]

The real test for us "honest" ladies is the following: If you had to have sex with only one man and the choice of men were the ones shown below and all you knew about them was what you see in the picture who would you choose?

I like them all, but if I had to choose one it would be...

http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mdonsu1ckQ1rjwaedo1_1280.jpg

 

[gregy70]

This wasn't directed at me, but I have to answer, I know some guys *WANT* to be humiliated about their small size..but me personally, I could never humiliate a guy like that, even if it is what he is into. Maybe it's because I'm a sub through anf through and not a Domme type.

When I was 19, my bisexual girlfriend-with-benefits and I went home with two guys (roommates) we met at the club. I think they assumed we'd pair off, but she and I wanted group play and made sure that happened. Turned out one of the guys had an actual micro-penis. Like, it was fully erect and the size of my thumb. Bizarrely, the other roommate had the biggest dick that I have ever seen, both length and thickness... this was 10 years ago and I still have yet to see a bigger one in real life. Since the little guy was too small to fuck we took turns giving him oral until he came, and then took turns getting fucked by the big guy. Which was seriously kind of painful/uncomfortable. Anyway, it never once crossed my mind to tease or even comment on the small guy's micro penis. He deserves to get off like anyone else. No, I couldn't be with a guy like that unless I had someone else on the side. That doesn't mean he should be treated badly.

It was a very weird night though...my smallest and biggest at the same time.

I wonder how then little guy felt confronting the reality that he was dwarfed by the bigger guy & he wasn't considered for fucking.

 

[Raingirl85]

Actually we did try (to have sex with him). But could not feel him in me at all, and there was no room for any kind of in-and-out movement..hard to explain but it basically did not work. Switched to oral and got the sense he was getting more out of that himself.

I've always wondered if he and his roommate knew about each other's sizes..like surely they'd seen each other take a piss or something? I don't know, American guys are so homophobic. Where I grew up they definitely would have seen each other already, but here in US it's odd.

I wonder how then little guy felt confronting the reality that he was dwarfed by the bigger guy & he wasn't considered for fucking.

 

[stiv837]

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[Mercury_Maniac]

I guess I've always been afraid of being laughed at being average and crooked and uncut on top of that I don't really plan on getting laid again

 

[suckonsimon]

I guess I've always been afraid of being laughed at being average and crooked and uncut on top of that I don't really plan on getting laid again

MM get this, please:

Average works wonderfully and that's what the women are saying on this thread.
A curve gives certain advantages especially when it comes to g-spot arousal.
Uncut means your equipment has a natural handsomeness, you get more pleasure in terms of the sensations on the head when exposed, and at full erection your foreskin creates more thickness on the upper part of your shaft.

Put it this way: I challenge you to find one ... ONE! European gentile man who envies the American custom of circumcising baby boys.

So, pal, put this misery talk of yours behind you and leave it there!

And I'll add some more. With the greatest respect to women. Any one of them who is likely to "laugh at" a guy who is average, curved and uncut is not worthy of you. You send such a gal packing, and throw her panties in the trash, d'ya hear!

 

[Hornblende]

MM get this, please:

Average works wonderfully and that's what the women are saying on this thread.
A curve gives certain advantages especially when it comes to g-spot arousal.
Uncut means your equipment has a natural handsomeness, you get more pleasure in terms of the sensations on the head when exposed, and at full erection your foreskin creates more thickness on the upper part of your shaft.

Put it this way: I challenge you to find one ... ONE! European gentile man who envies the American custom of circumcising baby boys.

So, pal, put this misery talk of yours behind you and leave it there!

And I'll add some more. With the greatest respect to women. Any one of them who is likely to "laugh at" a guy who is average, curved and uncut is not worthy of you. You send such a gal packing, and throw her panties in the trash, d'ya hear!

I'm with Simon on this one...

 

[MakeMeSweat]

The thing is like with the size of breasts, size cannot be controlled. Big tits are nice, but it's not like the woman did anything to get them - assuming they are natural. Same with dick sizes. Preference is fine, and I understand it. But size isn't controllable.