Does size of penises REALLY matter to us women?

[kauen]

thanks, you must be a technical sort of person...

appreciate the expanation further down about having a ruler, etc handy...

Your welcome and I like to think of myself as a technical person but then again OCD will do that to you XD

 

[BrightShinyGirl]

Big cocks are fun to play with, but when it gets inside me is where it really gets to what I prefer.

Yes, this is a good distinction. I like looking at big cocks, and I like touching big cocks, but when it comes down to actually having one inside me I prefer something closer to average. Enough to feel filled up without feeling like I'm being skewered.

 

[knottygirl]

The real test for us "honest" ladies is the following: If you had to have sex with only one man and the choice of men were the ones shown below and all you knew about them was what you see in the picture who would you choose?

I like them all, but if I had to choose one it would be...

http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mdonsu1ckQ1rjwaedo1_1280.jpg

Based on the picture, I'm going to assume they are all gay or bi, and so I'd take a pass on all of them. But for the sake of this discussion, let's pretend that's not the case. I'd take the guy on the right because I think he's the best looking. Also, I don't think you can really tell who has the biggest cock unless they are all fully erect.

How someone answers this question depends on how she interprets the question, and there are several different ways to interpret this question. First consider the word "really". The word can mean "in reality", or it could mean "to a great degree". Now consider the word "size". Most commonly, it refers to the measure of magnitude in general (What size are you?), but it can also refer to bigness (a sizable portion of food). With two different meanings for "really" and two different meanings for "size", there are four distinct ways to interpret this question. If you put the question into the context of the OP's entire post, it is clear that what she was asking was, "In reality, do women prefer big penises over average size penises?" She clearly prefers average size ones, suspects most women do, and is therefore skeptical of the prevailing wisdom (or at least what she perceives to the be the prevailing wisdom) that bigger is better.

What women consider to be the ideal range for penis sizes varies from woman to woman. How important it is to us that our mate be within this range also varies from woman to woman. That said, I think it is safe to say that, among us women who enjoy having sex with men, all other things being equal, 99.9% of us would prefer partners with penises that are larger than or pinky finger but smaller than our forearm. Forgive the generalization.