Does everybody love anal ?

[PredatorSmile]

I was talking to my friend Hayden the other day on the phone. He's a gay man living with his boyfriend outside the U.S. We started discussing our sex lives and he couldn't believe that I, a woman, liked anal sex !!!


He wondered what I got out of it, since I had no prostate to stimulate. I told him that I loved the feeling of being penetrated, of feeling full and also, sweet surrender to the man I love.


Apparently, Hayden and I had similar tastes.


All over the world, men and women seem to be discovering their back doors.


Some men are asking their girlfriends to "give up the booty".


A few women are debating how to ask their boyfriends to try "strap on play".


What a world !


Why is anal sex so damn popular ?

 

[bimori]

I was talking to my friend Hayden the other day on the phone. He's a gay man living with his boyfriend outside the U.S. We started discussing our sex lives and he couldn't believe that I, a woman, liked anal sex !!!


He wondered what I got out of it, since I had no prostate to stimulate. I told him that I loved the feeling of being penetrated, of feeling full and also, sweet surrender to the man I love.


Apparently, Hayden and I had similar tastes.


All over the world, men and women seem to be discovering their back doors.


I think it becuase it feels so damb good . But thats just me .

Some men are asking their girlfriends to "give up the booty".


A few women are debating how to ask their boyfriends to try "strap on play".


What a world !


Why is anal sex so damn popular ?

I think its because it feel so damb good . But thats just me .

 

[HeavenCanWait]

Cos it feels so damn naughty.

 

[naughtyinsilk]

Well I think with AIDS and all the other stuff going round, people are sleeping with fewer partners, and rather than go stale are more willing to experiment, and we nowhave less hang ups.

Even I who regards my self basically as a straight crossdresser, fantasises occasionally about making it with another cute TV in front of my partner.

But find it easier in reality, to fantasise that my partner is the other TV rather than go out and find one.
Biggest hangup is I cant do anything with someone I dont care about, even in FFM experiences, it has been with a couple of thirds who I have known and cared about for many years.

 

[rjp44]

I have to agree, it's because it feels so damned good. It's not that we are discovering it though. The Greeks were about 3,000 years ahead of us.

 

[shy slave]

I was terrified of anal and really struggled with the concept that he (or anyone) would want to do that. I could not get my thoughts around the potential mess of it all.

However, I discovered it does feel good.

I am in an LDR and often miss that more that being fucked in my cunt.

At the same time I really find it mentally and physically difficult for him to initially enter me.

No matter what, I am tense and expecting it to hurt.
It only becomes pleasure once he is inside me.

I get so damn annoyed with myself for finding it hard to cope with. I hate that the reality does not always meet the fantasy in my mind.

We have tried lots of things to overcome that. Pushing back on his cock so I am in control of depth and speed helps alot.
The only time it didn't hurt was when we were in the middle of a HUGE row and he decided to fuck my ass. I was screaming and yelling at him so much I forgot it would hurt.

As a result it was the most amazing anal sex I have ever experienced. It was my first anal orgasm and I enjoyed it so much.

I can't help but wonder if my being angry had a physiological effect which made penetration easier. Does anyone have any ideas on that?

I also learnt that calling him a 'fucking bastard' is not a good idea

 

[AlecBond]

abcde

 

[malewhore]

I Love It

I never thought anal sex could be fun. Untill my first time I was hooked for life. If I could I would have anal sex twice a day.

 

[sinfulallure]

I was talking to my friend Hayden the other day on the phone. He's a gay man living with his boyfriend outside the U.S. We started discussing our sex lives and he couldn't believe that I, a woman, liked anal sex !!!


He wondered what I got out of it, since I had no prostate to stimulate. I told him that I loved the feeling of being penetrated, of feeling full and also, sweet surrender to the man I love.


Apparently, Hayden and I had similar tastes.


All over the world, men and women seem to be discovering their back doors.


Some men are asking their girlfriends to "give up the booty".


A few women are debating how to ask their boyfriends to try "strap on play".


What a world !


Why is anal sex so damn popular ?

I personally love the first few seconds of penetration when that lil rosebud is forced open , normally when wife and I play with other bi-males i like to take some ''vitamin E'' (EFG), It just relaxes me to no end , and my sex drive increase 100 fold. Olny downside to having anal on substances is that after a while it doesnt feel big enough anymore.

But at the end of the day it is nothing short of amazing.

 

[fauconier]

I seem to be the exception today

Why is anal sex so damn popular?

Hi PS. I have to admit I don't know. One reason I have no interest in it is that I was very ill for a while when I was a kid, and someone was constantly taking my temperature rectally. I absolutely hated it and I still feel the same way about anything entering that portion of my anatomy. Nature seems to have designed that part of the body for one thing only. Also it's extremely important to be cautious in one's choice of partners and activities these days. With caution and safety in mind, however, each to her or his own.

 

[LordHawk]

Speaking from the giving end, I love it. For some reason it is usually a more intense orgasm for me. I don't know if that is due to some subconscious reason or what. As good as it feels, I don't really care. Part of it I think is that I love taking my little one, making her give herself up to me.

 

[Mazinger]

I was talking to my friend Hayden the other day on the phone. He's a gay man living with his boyfriend outside the U.S. We started discussing our sex lives and he couldn't believe that I, a woman, liked anal sex !!!

He wondered what I got out of it, since I had no prostate to stimulate. I told him that I loved the feeling of being penetrated, of feeling full and also, sweet surrender to the man I love.

Why is anal sex so damn popular ?

Although I have a prostate, I have the same stimulation as you and your friend PS.

But the most exciting feeling is that of surrender, looking beyond your self in pleasuring your loved one.

Once we get hold of that feeling, I guess anal sex will become, not an option, but a norm.

Maz.

 

[Etoile]

I wouldn't say I "love" it - more like "tolerate" it. I think my dominant does it because e likes to make me do things I don't really want to do...that "make her take it" thing. I can put up with it but I much prefer being fucked in the cunt.

However...I don't think it is quite as popular as all that. Remember that we are a self-selecting group here, people who enjoy discussing sexual things and who are a little more open with our sexuality. I think most of America is snooty and straitlaced and only does it in the missionary position.

 

[Paige.]

I don't think everyone 'loves' it and I'm not so sure about its popularity, at least among women because some men I have talked to expressed surprise at my acceptance. They told me other women had said no.

My first experience ws terrible and I vowed not to do it again. I wasn't well lubricated and the boy wouldn't stop and he hurt me. I don't like it as a regular diet and mostly I do it because I enjoy the heightened excitement of the guy. Also I have found that generally when he is in my ass he stays harder for longer time.

 

[naughtyinsilk]

I don't think everyone 'loves' it and I'm not so sure about its popularity, at least among women because some men I have talked to expressed surprise at my acceptance. They told me other women had said no.

My first experience ws terrible and I vowed not to do it again. I wasn't well lubricated and the boy wouldn't stop and he hurt me. I don't like it as a regular diet and mostly I do it because I enjoy the heightened excitement of the guy. Also I have found that generally when he is in my ass he stays harder for longer time.

I think there you have it in a nutshell, if the first time somebody receives anal its done in an uncaring, or painful manner, then it reduces the chance of someone wanting to repeat the performance.

I was lucky the first girl to fuck me anally, spent a lot of time getting me relaxed and comfortable and lubed up. Also as she was someone I trusted implicitly, I was happy to handover control to her, I knew in my heart that if I said stop she would immediately. Thanx to her willingness to spend time and energy, I found that I really enjoyed it, if my first time had been with someone else its likely I wouldnt have ever done it again.

 

[AlecBond]

abcde

 

[Paige.]

I was amazed/apalled to hear that people still have "first-times" where guys are trying to "oops" it in. I don't even think I could "oops" in a vaginally-lubricated pinky-finger, much less my cock.

I believe that it is something that definitely takes the right person to get it just-right. A good portion of the arousal for it is the feeling, but also the trust/control/lack-of-control/taboo-ness and all else. I believe that much more of the world would be open to it if:
a) They hadn't tried it with an idiot who ruined it for them
b) They hadn't been taught their entire life to not go near their asshole, that it's "nasty" or "for gay men"
c) They did try it once with someone caring/slow/they cared for, and found the different-sort of feeling it can give one.

The guy didn't try to 'oops' it in but we were both teenagers and it was a new experience for both. He had heard that the ultimate in sex was to do in a girls ass. I went along with it for all the wrong reasons.

About a year later an older man with an infinite supply of patience and care taught me what I needed to know. And it was good.

I agree with your abc's

 

[naughtyinsilk]

I agree too, trouble is even today in sex education, anal is not covered in schools.
If your abc was taught, it would improve matters all round.

 

[Fatemaster]

Anal Sex

I have tried anal with both men and women, giving and receiving, and I'm not really into it.

In my experience, guys always think this is because "you just have never done it right." It doesn't turn me off, and I've done it before because I've been begged, but it's just not my thing.

It's all personal preference, I don't think it has to do with your sexuality.

 

[Raimondin]

I was talking to my friend Hayden the other day on the phone. He's a gay man living with his boyfriend outside the U.S. We started discussing our sex lives and he couldn't believe that I, a woman, liked anal sex !!!

He wondered what I got out of it, since I had no prostate to stimulate. I told him that I loved the feeling of being penetrated, of feeling full and also, sweet surrender to the man I love.

Why is anal sex so damn popular ?

Well, as we all know, Sex wasn't just discovered yesterday. That it has become so "politicized" unlike any other time, is certainly another story. I think it's because of this, that anal sex is suddenly taking center stage, or was thought something only gay men did.

Changing times, public swayings, and of course religion have always played a key role in what's taboo, allowed, liberated or otherwise in regards to sex.
Maybe once again today it's cool to be "anal" right alongside iPods, multi-task cell phones, and high-powered PCs that can probably launch you to the moon.
The "strap-on" business are also probably much happier these days!

I can't speak for the ladies, but as my "husband" partner put it so succinctly, "Yeah, man-pussy!"

 

[homunculus]

self-selected

This a self-selected group indeed-- by and large, people who are stimulated/curious/into anal sex enough to read this thread. And literotica posters are, by definition, into sex and kink and the like. Outside the literotica shortbus it's different. I've never met a woman who liked anal sex, asked for it, wanted it. My s/o will go along, and will use a strapon, but will never initiate. Women in my experience don't want their assholes touched, never mind penetrated. They don't like any association between sexual pleasure and poop, or sexual pleasure and pain in the ass. Can't blame them, though, naughty boy that I am, I like the idea of being screwed in my bum, and of being screwed royally in return.

 

[ozz133]

I agree too, trouble is even today in sex education, anal is not covered in schools.
If your abc was taught, it would improve matters all round.

Even though it's not covered in schools, kids well & truly know about it. Their probably not mature enough to understand much about it except for "I wanna stick it in there".

 

[PredatorSmile]

This a self-selected group indeed-- by and large, people who are stimulated/curious/into anal sex enough to read this thread. And literotica posters are, by definition, into sex and kink and the like. Outside the literotica shortbus it's different. I've never met a woman who liked anal sex, asked for it, wanted it. My s/o will go along, and will use a strapon, but will never initiate. Women in my experience don't want their assholes touched, never mind penetrated. They don't like any association between sexual pleasure and poop, or sexual pleasure and pain in the ass. Can't blame them, though, naughty boy that I am, I like the idea of being screwed in my bum, and of being screwed royally in return.

You are right on many aspects. I was "surprised" into anal sex by my partner. I didn't ask for it the first time but got really into it afterwards.
I totally dig butt sex now. My BF is into it, albeit he's strictly top while I am versatile in and out of bed.

Maybe I have to develop Leukemia and have 24 hours left to live before he lets me use my "tool" on him.

 

[Nabokov]

In my experience, I have met quite a few woman who are into anal sex. At least half of the woman I have dated have been totally into it. In fact, a woman got me to try anal for the first time.

 

[naughtyinsilk]

I just feel for my partner, girlfriends & I it adds another pleasurable dimension to our passion.