Does butt sex cause prolapse?

[human_male]

Hi there folks. I have never had butt sex, and I haven't played with a toy in ages mostly because I'm terrified of doing myself an injury of some sort. But it's something I thought I might try again at some point if I met someone who was into it.

But the things that terrify me are becoming permanently loose and (the new horror) prolapse. Would someone know for sure (if you're a health care professional) if anal play can lead to that or not? Is a prolapsed rectum just something people are born with or is it caused by abusing one's rectum? And does the sphincter tighten itself up always, or does repeated butt play eventually loosen it?

Any other tips, pros and cons, stories?

Thanks heaps.

 

[noonenew]

prolapse IS possible. General rule: if it starts to hurt, stop. start slow and small. use LOTS of lube.

looseness and prolapse aren't really related to each other afaik. I know the 'pink sock' effect can happen if there is an excess of friction. afaik, it can happen but it's rare.

 

[noonenew]

and after a little research, I've found that it is reasonable to assume that it is pretty rare for prolapse to occur because of anal sex. Everything I've read seems to suggest that it'll generally occur due to constipation, child birth, heavy strain, etc.

(btw, never google image search the word "prolapse," something I learned long ago...)

 

[Etoile]

The short answer: No.

The long answer: You would have to try really, really hard to cause permanent looseness or prolapse via anal sex. If you did it 15 times a day, every day, for years on end, you might experience some looseness. I won't say it's impossible, but unless you already have damage to your sphincter or rectum, it's really unlikely. And don't take this to mean "oh my god, she said it's possible, it's going to happen to me!" If you experienced prolapse or looseness due to anal sex, you would be one in 1,000. Seriously!

 

[none2_none2]

I think Etoil is probably right. I have seen pictures of where some big time fisters have a bit too much looseness. However, they are taking double hands, feet, extremely huge objects. If you think about it, women have babies which are much larger than a fist or foot. Yet you don't hear of an epidemic of prolapse among mothers.

While I haven't bottomed since 1985 (never enjoyed the experience), I have been with MANY guys over the years that I have fucked. Not one of them had prolapse problems. The problems with anal sex are usually related to hygene, lack of enough lube, or they have untreated hemroids (for which they shouldn't be bottoming until they get it addressed).

I personally couldn't imagine being sexually satisfied if there were no guys in the world that bottomed anymore. Oral (lollipop sex as I see it) just doesn't have the intensity that fucking a guy has. Likewise, mutual j/O doesn't do it for me either as I can do it myself. But for anal, there is just no m2m sex that brings two guys physically closer together. There is nothing like being inside a guy when he reaches orgasm. It is like being in the center of the universe at the time of the big bang. You are at the very center of where sexual pleasure in the groin begins for a guy. You may think of male orgasm as the shot of semen from a penis, but it is really from the contraction of the prostate that a good top loves to bang against.

Finally, we all know that anal sex is at risk for STD's. If you don't know for sure that your top is clean from STDS -- from the deadly AIDS to the treatable stds such as like clamidia, syphilis, ghonerrhea, or other deseases like Hep B, make sure you protect yourself against these diseases. If you are using toys make sure they are clean -- ESPECIALLY if you aren't the only one that uses it.

 

[human_male]

prolapse IS possible. General rule: if it starts to hurt, stop. start slow and small. use LOTS of lube.

looseness and prolapse aren't really related to each other afaik. I know the 'pink sock' effect can happen if there is an excess of friction. afaik, it can happen but it's rare.

I'm cringing while asking this but what the heck is the pink sock effect? And what's afaik mean? Sorry, I'm foreign.

 

[human_male]

(btw, never google image search the word "prolapse," something I learned long ago...)

I heard that. I've seen videos. OMG! You've never seen the face of true horror unless you've seen that.

 

[human_male]

Thank you for the comments. Now if I could only find someone to do me...

 

[noonenew]

I'm cringing while asking this but what the heck is the pink sock effect? And what's afaik mean? Sorry, I'm foreign.

pink sock is a prolapse... because it looks like a pink sock is sticking out of you ass. but yeah, pretty rare.

 

[Shankara20]

pink sock is a prolapse... because it looks like a pink sock is sticking out of you ass. but yeah, pretty rare.

same as what some call a "rosebud" I expect

 

[RobXXX]

Hey I started out with a small toy, one that was actually smaller than I. I used it for a while, the first time was no problem (plenty of lube and I went slow), after that I did try to hard and did cause a sting a few times.

I next purchased a Jeff Stryker one off of a website, entirely too big, I tried but could not get to much in. I guess that would be my answer, stick with something you can handle, then you do not have to worry about anything.

 

[Shankara20]

Hey I started out with a small toy, one that was actually smaller than I. I used it for a while, the first time was no problem (plenty of lube and I went slow), after that I did try to hard and did cause a sting a few times.

I next purchased a Jeff Stryker one off of a website, entirely too big, I tried but could not get to much in. I guess that would be my answer, stick with something you can handle, then you do not have to worry about anything.

hang on to that Stryker, I expect there will come a day when, when everything is just right and your ass is hungry, very hungry, and you have worked with a other toys larger then what you have now but not as large as the Stryker...

I expect there will come a day when you put towels all over the floor, and you get out the heavy duty Probe lube and you put some gay porn on the TV...

I expect you will try that Stryker again, you will work up a sweat, there will be lube all over the place, you might even forget about your hard cock, getting that son-of-a-bitch-mother-frickin thing in will be all that matters...

and sooner or later you will feel that second sphincter - you know, the one inside, you will feel it start to burn just a little, you might even hold your breath for a moment, then you will just relax and take a breath and it will slide right in - it will feel so god-damn wonderful that you might even cry just a little....

you will never be the same again, and you might only take the Stryker out only once-in-a-while for those special times, but you will never be the same.


just sayin'

 

[Etoile]

Here is a picture of the pink sock effect. If you click it, don't say I didn't warn you.
http://www.surgical-tutor.org.uk/pictures/images/lower_gi/rectal_prolapse.JPG

 

[Shankara20]

Here is a picture of the pink sock effect. If you click it, don't say I didn't warn you.
http://www.surgical-tutor.org.uk/pictures/images/lower_gi/rectal_prolapse.JPG

ok - that is wayyyyy bigger then a rosebud,

and I just learned a new sex term

 

[Etoile]

ok - that is wayyyyy bigger then a rosebud,

and I just learned a new sex term

That's not even the biggest one I found...just the prettiest.

 

[human_male]

pink sock is a prolapse... because it looks like a pink sock is sticking out of you ass. but yeah, pretty rare.

Oh, right. Obvious when you think about it. Duh. I thought you might be talking about some other anal horror that I hadn't heard about.

 

[south_florida_bicur]

That's not even the biggest one I found...just the prettiest.

Thats disgusting.. That can really happen?

Does it happen to both sexes?

 

[Etoile]

Thats disgusting.. That can really happen?

Does it happen to both sexes?

Yes, it can really happen. And actually, it is 6 times more common in women! For children it is about equal, but for adults it is mostly women who have this. For a very good medical website that describes it and has pictures click here. (The pictures are mostly of babies, but it's still graphic.)

BTW, the rectum is not the only thing can prolapse. In women, the bladder, vagina, and uterus can all prolapse. Basically "prolapse" means "the muscle that was holding it in place was too weak and it fell out."

 

[south_florida_bicur]

Yes, it can really happen. And actually, it is 6 times more common in women! For children it is about equal, but for adults it is mostly women who have this. For a very good medical website that describes it and has pictures click here. (The pictures are mostly of babies, but it's still graphic.)

BTW, the rectum is not the only thing can prolapse. In women, the bladder, vagina, and uterus can all prolapse. Basically "prolapse" means "the muscle that was holding it in place was too weak and it fell out."

Thanks... I only heard of hemorrhoids happening in that area but not Prolapse.

I guess all of us that like anal play (either sexual or with toys) should be careful.

we learn something new each day..

 

[Etoile]

Thanks... I only heard of hemorrhoids happening in that area but not Prolapse.

I guess all of us that like anal play (either sexual or with toys) should be careful.

we learn something new each day..

Ah but remember what we have already said in this thread! It is almost impossible to get prolapse through normal anal play. No matter what you stick in your butt, no matter how often you do it, it is VERY unlikely you would end up with prolapse. There would definitely be warning signs if you even were headed anywhere near that route.

Put it this way, it's not something the dozens of leathermen and pigs I know have ever worried about!

 

[Chicklet]

why, Why, WHY do I follow Etoile's links?!?!

NEVER AGAIN!!!

 

[human_male]

why, Why, WHY do I follow Etoile's links?!?!

NEVER AGAIN!!!

Ha ha. It will haunt you for weeks.

 

[south_florida_bicur]

Put it this way, it's not something the dozens of leathermen and pigs I know have ever worried about!

LOL @ leathermen and pigs