Do you peek?

[MissTaken]

I have noticed the submissives I have had the opportunity to play with and/or watch generally don't look to see what is going to happen next.

Scooter will keep his head exactly where I tell him and never looks.

Do you?

How do you, the Dominants among us feel about this? How would you feel about a submissive who looks over his or her shoulder?

For me, that they don't peek tells me they are engrossed in the sensation and trust whomever is using them.

 

[bound]

i think peeking would take all the fun out of it! Part of the excitment is the thrill of not knowing what's coming next and from where.

That delicious anticipatory feeling just can't be beaten, peeking would cheapen it.

 

[WriterDom]

And there is always a blindfold. For women with big hair, get those eyeglass athletic supporters and make a blindfold from them. Slipping them over her head and pulling them tight is a lot easier than tying knots in a bunch of red curly hair.

 

[Netzach]

I like brief moments of eye contact.

I really like brief moments of eye contact over a gagged mouth.

 

[SubmissiveDove5]

I feel uncomfortable if I peek or he peeks. Once I tried giving a blow job, but I had to hide under the blanket in order to do it, lol. (Yes, I have given a bj once)

 

[Desdemona]

I don't peek. I trust him and I love surprises. He loves surprising me. It works for us.

 

[Kajira Callista]

i peek sometimes. but its not because i want to see whats about to happen. it is because i want to see the way the person making it happen looks, you can kinda feel what they are feeling for a split second... its kinda nice.

 

[The Mutt]

i peek sometimes. but its not because i want to see whats about to happen. it is because i want to see the way the person making it happen looks, you can kinda feel what they are feeling for a split second... its kinda nice.

I peek, because my Mistress looks so sexy. But I love the thrill of risk. She will punish me if she catches me.

 

[ghosst_K&H]

i personally never peek, i prefer not knowing what they're doing

 

[MissTaken]

And there is always a blindfold. For women with big hair, get those eyeglass athletic supporters and make a blindfold from them. Slipping them over her head and pulling them tight is a lot easier than tying knots in a bunch of red curly hair.

I don't use blindfolds all the time as there are times when I want to see his eyes.

 

[MissTaken]

i peek sometimes. but its not because i want to see whats about to happen. it is because i want to see the way the person making it happen looks, you can kinda feel what they are feeling for a split second... its kinda nice.

*smirks*

IT was just that sort of fantasy that got me interested in exploring my Dominant side.

I wanted to watch my training Dominant top someone and before you knew it, I was there on the giving end of the flogger!

However, men and women are so sexy when they are lost in the rythm of a good thrashing. Their facial expressions, their stance, the dance they do all add up to "hot."

(I am a bit of a voyeur!)

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

Long ago, when I was the submissive, I never peeked, even when it would have been ok for me to do so. The thrill of not knowing is what made me hot.

With my pets (in the past) I need them to see me, to see what it is I am doing to them. I want to watch their eyes as they drop deeper and deeper into the feelings, thoughts..to the place where the only real things are the pleasure/pain they feel and me. (Which is one of the reasons I have never used blindfolds. It makes their *giving over* even stronger..when I can look into their eyes.)

 

[vogon8n]

peeking? maybe

My feelings about peeking are simple.
If I peek, I am stating by my action that I care less for your control, than the miniscule gratification I might get from seeing whats coming

If I peek (however briefly) I am stating that I am the boss, but I’m letting you think you have control…

I would not peek on My Domme (havent got one at present) because I would trust her and respect her enough to be surrendered to her whims and not my impatience or curiosity.

ON THE OTHER HAND....

Maybe I might want to get caught.
Maybe I just might enjoy having my hair pulled or my face slapped.
Maybe Im not being SO disobediant as I am encouraging My Domme to gain a firmer control

It is an exciting topic, really...

 

[vogon8n]

......It makes their *giving over* even stronger..when I can look into their eyes.)

I like that. Pasionate!

 

[enigma nocturne]

I am an occasional peeker here. Is not cause I am trying ot figure out what they are doing, is cause they are so darn sexy when they are getting ready to do it.

I guess it would be appropriate to say, I peek when it is okay. I know that peeking could make big trouble of a scene ending kind if I peek when they tell me not to, so I do not. But the rest of the time, if they have not said no, I do.

 

[Justina123]

I peek. I peek because I do want to see what's next, I'm not good at surprise sensations, but if I know what's coming, I get a second or so to mentally absorb and prepare.

Sometimes that's okay with my Dominant, and sometimes it's not. If not, the blindfold works just fine.

- justina

 

[The Mutt]

I peek. I peek because I do want to see what's next, I'm not good at surprise sensations, but if I know what's coming, I get a second or so to mentally absorb and prepare.

Sometimes that's okay with my Dominant, and sometimes it's not. If not, the blindfold works just fine.

- justina

I have always thought of myself as a slave, not a submissive. If my Mistress doesn't want me to peek, she will blindfold me. I always obey my Mistress without question, without hesitation, but I will take my liberties where I may.
Goddess, if She reads this my ass is in big trouble.

 

[Kajira Callista]

*smirks*

IT was just that sort of fantasy that got me interested in exploring my Dominant side.

I wanted to watch my training Dominant top someone and before you knew it, I was there on the giving end of the flogger!

However, men and women are so sexy when they are lost in the rythm of a good thrashing. Their facial expressions, their stance, the dance they do all add up to "hot."

(I am a bit of a voyeur!)

(im a voyeuer too!)

 

[Miss Oatlash]

I peek, because my Mistress looks so sexy. But I love the thrill of risk. She will punish me if she catches me.

He peaks...and then he gets the lash. But that's why he peaks.

 

[Miss Oatlash]

I have always thought of myself as a slave, not a submissive. If my Mistress doesn't want me to peek, she will blindfold me. I always obey my Mistress without question, without hesitation, but I will take my liberties where I may.
Goddess, if She reads this my ass is in big trouble.

His ass IS in big trouble. Truth is, the little slave peaks, even when blind-folded.

OK, boys and girls, change of direction. Give me your best ideas for taming this little Ass Mutt! All ideas - especially kinky ones - are welcomed and encouraged!

 

[The Mutt]

His ass IS in big trouble. Truth is, the little slave peaks, even when blind-folded.

OK, boys and girls, change of direction. Give me your best ideas for taming this little Ass Mutt! All ideas - especially kinky ones - are welcomed and encouraged!

Yipe! Yipe! Yipe!

 

[Miss Oatlash]

Yipe! Yipe! Yipe!

That IS what you sound like when you beg, you little mutt!

Your ass is in soooooo much trouble!

 

[The Mutt]

That IS what you sound like when you beg, you little mutt!

Your ass is in soooooo much trouble!

 

[Etoile]

Yes, I peek sometimes. When Daddy and I are just fucking, I'll have my eyes open sometimes and closed sometimes, and it doesn't really matter. If I'm specifically told not to look, then I can't help but looking! And then there are the times when my gf doesn't tell me that I'm not supposed to look until it's too late...and those can be the most fun of all.

 

[Miss Oatlash]

You will learn NOT to mock me!