Do you masterbate in front of you spouse?

[Flirtydeb]

Embarrassed at first, but now I enjoy seeing his excitment. I know I love watching him.

 

[TIGES13FUN]

Of course!!!

Of course i do, she loves to watch me.

 

[Cardinal]

got to watch my wife use one of her dildos last night during foreplay. I almost came just watching her.
Do women ever get that tuned on watching a guy jerk it?

 

[Wandadollgirl]

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[SlvrTongueDevil]

Last night (er, early this morning) I was the star attraction at an after-hours private bukkake party. Short answer, oh, yeah. I get turned on seeing how what I do gets guys hard and they can't help but start jerking off. And then I really get into doing stuff that makes them wild so they can't help themselves and squirt all over me. I go off like an autoloading shotgun, bucking and squealing.
Damn. To think I get paid for it, too.

Life is good.

Enjoy it Wandadoll!! I'm not sure I'd pay for it ... but I'm sure would be willing to give you a contribution anyway!

 

[Lady_Prowless]

did it again....and he joined in gladly..thanx for the advise!!!

 

[jethrobodeen]

Last night (er, early this morning) I was the star attraction at an after-hours private bukkake party. Short answer, oh, yeah. I get turned on seeing how what I do gets guys hard and they can't help but start jerking off. And then I really get into doing stuff that makes them wild so they can't help themselves and squirt all over me. I go off like an autoloading shotgun, bucking and squealing.
Damn. To think I get paid for it, too.

Life is good.

I've seen my share of vids of this particular variety. Let's just say it's like a "thing" for me to see a really horny girl be so turned on and be so free to express herself that way. I don't like it when the guys are degrading though. The girl has to, in every conceivable way to me, to be enjoying herself completely or I'm turned off. A kind of guy "rescue mode" kicks in or something....

-JB

 

[acamstar]

oh yea, there's always times when me or my SO is in the mood and one of us isn't, really... so we watch either other get ourselves off and it's very sexy. My guy likes to watch me use toys on myself, and I like to see the way he strokes himself... it's defintely a way you can learn about what kind of touch your partner likes.. by watching them do it themselves!

 

[M's girl]

..... I almost came just watching her.
Do women ever get that tuned on watching a guy jerk it?

Yes, but the degree of excitement for me has a lot to do with the way it is done then. What works best is if he's all seductive about it at the same time; looking me in the eyes, slowly jerking off and talking 'sweet' to me at the same time.... mmmm...

 

[jethrobodeen]

oh yea, there's always times when me or my SO is in the mood and one of us isn't, really... so we watch either other get ourselves off and it's very sexy. My guy likes to watch me use toys on myself, and I like to see the way he strokes himself... it's defintely a way you can learn about what kind of touch your partner likes.. by watching them do it themselves!

Oh yes, the toys. I especially like it when she shows the determination to get herself off, but I'd like to see her fuck herself more with her toys. When we are taking a short break during our love making, sometimes we'll lay head-to-feet facing to each other. She starts rubbing her nipples and pinching them and moaning. They are always erect which is very erotic for me. Even better if we're oiled up or in the bath and soapy. Then she rubs her clit and gets a quick wave, but not earth shattering. Meanwhile, I'm very lightly stroking my cock, it needs to have some sensitivity return. We both have close and clear views of each other's genitalia. I coach her on to several orgasms and if she feels like it, she'll insert a finger or two which drives me wild and I tell her so and it fuels her on. Sometimes, I reach the point of no return and we like it when I reposition over her and ejaculate on her face, in her mouth, and all over her tits (but I always try to keep it out of her eyes, burn). It seems to trigger a biggie for her, but since I'm not touching her, I really don't know if she's faking that one, but I trust our previous discussion where we agreed there would be no faking. Regardless this method can sure make me blast off.

-JB

 

[jethrobodeen]

Yes, but the degree of excitement for me has a lot to do with the way it is done then. What works best is if he's all seductive about it at the same time; looking me in the eyes, slowly jerking off and talking 'sweet' to me at the same time.... mmmm...

Yes, yes, eye contact. I tell her to tell me when she's cumming, and then I tell her she's such a good girl for telling me. If I am going to cum, I ask her where she wants me to squirt it. Sometimes she likes to see me shoot laying on my back. It goes 3-4 feet in the air, the first several squirts. Then about 4-10 (depending on my arousal and stored fluids) extending 4-6 inches and then the squeeze and up-stroke to empty the urethra. My belly and thighs soaked. She asks for my fingers so she can taste me as I do hers. But she also knows how much I like facials, they are so visual. Early in our relationship this wasn't very common, but the porn we'd watch together desensitized her to taking my wad on her tounge and cheeks, eventually swallowing greedily. Made the occaisional mistake of getting some spunk in her eye and she taught me how big of a no no, so if it ever happens, she knows it was an accident. I can hit the headboard when withdrawing and ejaculating from the missionary position and easily hit her face with a few shots and she loves it, but it has gotten in her eyes that way too. Heh, maybe I'll buy her a pair of safety goggles.

That's the porn-vid type sex we typically have. Often a good money shot. But I also like to come inside her during intercourse. We both like it both ways, but the part I highlighted shed still more light on the solution to a problem that had developed in the BR. She want's more closeness and cuddliness, and tenderness. Monkey sex is great, but she told me not all the time. So I am learning to adjust.

-JB

 

[Programmer Cat]

Do women ever get that tuned on watching a guy jerk it?

My wife likes to watch me jerk it.

 

[lemmesee]

You bet, I masturbate in front of my S/O....we both enjoy it very much....she displays her breasts for me because she knows that this is one of my fantasies....sometimes she puts on a see-thru bra that she knows I enjoy....we talk as I'm doing it....she plays with my fantasy of cumming on her breasts....and I jerk-myself-off into oblivion....lotsa fun ....

 

[flamesofdesire]

Do women ever get that tuned on watching a guy jerk it?

The answer is a definite YES
I get REALLY turned on watching my husband stroke himself.

 

[Tazzod]

No, but I would love to. Would love to think that he got totally turned on by it! Maybe one day hey. Now we live 5000 miles apart.... I do miss him!

 

[fae_bella]

Well, he's the one that keeps buying me toys... I'd feel bad if he didn't see I was using them on a regular basis...

 

[SlvrTongueDevil]

Well, he's the one that keeps buying me toys... I'd feel bad if he didn't see I was using them on a regular basis...

Note to self ... go out to buy more toys for her ....

 

[Mr. Mann]

I *LOVE* to watch my wife masturbate. (or any women, really) It has got to be one of my favorite things in the entire world - watching a woman going at it with herself, enjoying her body, just letting go and ... WOW! Incredibly hot!

I've masturbated in front of her before. She enjoys watching, but I don't think it is such a "big thing" for her. I might have to ask. She says she loves to watch, so... maybe she likes it more than I thought. Hmmmm.

I would *really* *REALLY* enjoy giving her a nice show if she was into it. It is a big turn on for her to watch me.

 

[rl_dylan]

It is pure erotic to have my SO watch as I stroke by cock. She like to have me jack my cock and wrap her lips around the head of my prick. It feels great for me, feeling my cock pulse as I cum, and her lips tight on me, sucking gently. Then it is her turn . . . .

 

[longhair41]

Yes I have with both of my ex-wives,also my last lover.We loved it ,as we both watched each other,often cumming togather.I loved to hear her moan as she got off.And loved it when she sucked my cock after cumming for her.We would do this a couple times a week.

 

[Hoodman]

Do now

When I was younger, my problem was premature ejaculation. And I was sort of self conscious about masturbating in front of my spouse. Age has taken its toll, and lately we can fuck for 15 or 20 minutes, anyway a looong time, with neither of us climaxing. Sooooo ... one night I asked her if she minded if I masturbated after our lovemaking, and to my surprise she said: "No, go right ahead." She's a nurse, so I should have realized that to her this is perfectly normal. Well, I pumped my cock at max speed and found that special spot about halfway down the top that turns me on. It felt great, not as good as cumming inside her, but good just the same. She was happy that I got my rocks off and we both turned in for the night. Off Topic - I never thought of adult videos as educational, but I gotta tell you they are. I was watching one with two guys doing one gal, and was impressed that they could both cum on her face at the same time. The trick was that they were massaging the head - glans of their penises. Well duh ... I've tried that, but it just didn't seem to work for me. Then a light bulb went off in my head: "Lubrication" . I had just bought some KY heated "personal" lubricating oil, and man, that did the trick. Rubbed some on my glans and had the nicest orgasm, sweet without the work and sweat of the full shaft experience. So, you learn something every day. By the way, I've asked my wife to squeeze (kegel) me when I'm inside her and that has really helped bring me to a climax. She seems to enjoy it too . Enjoy the posts and feedback on this one. Now if I can convince her to return the favor and masturbate in front of me. That's my next assignment H

 

[Mr. Mann]

reporting back...

Turns out she enjoys watching me as much as I enjoy watching her! Which is ALOT!

Oh, yeah! VERY cool!

 

[swtcum]

Oh yeah, I love watching her get off. She like to watch me as well. She love the way I really swell up just before I cum. She really likes to watch me spasm and shoot all over my chest and belly.

 

[Cardinal]

There is nothing hotter than watching a woman masturbate!!!!

 

[Azuldrgon]

There is nothing hotter than watching a woman masturbate!!!!

Defintely agree. I love watching her and she defintely loves watching me while she does it.