Do you masterbate in front of you spouse?

[horny99556]

yes

I love to watch my wife play with herself but she dont want to use toys in front of me I like to play with my self in front of her

 

[skydream773]

myself and my SO are a long-distance relationship, which is hard. but we actually masturbate together over the phone with pretty graphic details. often, we will imagine that we are masturbating in front of each other...which is a huge thrill. so yeah, i'd say it's great if you and your spouse or SO can be that open with each other...it is a REALLY personal thing for the majority of people!!!

 

[thrity]

Do you like masturbating in front of your spouse or SO? What do they think about it?
My wife and I have come up with an agreement, when she doesn't want sex or to help me out in some way, she will stroke me to a hard-on and then stop to let me finish by myself. It is a turn on for me as I stroke myself while she is laying next to me in bed. Sometimes she will rub my nipples while I stroke and I really like it when she talks to me at the same time telling me that I am sexy or telling me to cum.
I don't think that it turns her on but I don't think that she minds either.
One fantasy that I do have is that she catches me masturbating and wants to watch me finish.

My wife can't be part of that, I prefer doing it alone, I may fantasize about other girls during masturbation...

 

[M's girl]

My wife can't be part of that, I prefer doing it alone, I may fantasize about other girls during masturbation...

And your wife can read your mind so that would not work of course.....

 

[wtf????]

I do it in front of my wife, she gets really turned on watching.

 

[TBKahuna123]

And your wife can read your mind so that would not work of course.....

NO I can see what he's saying. I couldn't do it in front of my wife while fantasizing aobut someone else. However, if I were to do this in front of her, I wouldn't be fantasizing. I think the moment itself would be enough of a turn on for me.

 

[lemmesee]

Jurken and his lady are where I hope to be soon....my older lady-friend and I were masturbators for most of our former lives....we're used to it, we like it, and now we do it in front of each other....but we're not yet to the point of verbally sharing our masturbatory fantasies, or sharing them with written or visual material....but I want to get there real quickly-like ....

 

[Masturb8tr]

Nothing wrong with that at all, sounds like you guys have a strong relationship.

My wife & I will often "mutual" or just give the other a helping hand.

 

[SexyBeast523]

I cant bring myself to masturbate in front of my SO. Not because i'm conservative because we've done other things that are a hell of a lot crazier but i feel it's something so personal and can't bring myself to do it. He asks for it all the time....but....can't

If anyone has any tips on being able to get more comfortable with it...feel free...

 

[RazeByFire]

I'd suggest that you do it under a sheet. Seriously- out of sight out of mind. Have him take a seat away from the bed and watch that way. It might make you more comfortable and then you can take baby steps to the full monty.

 

[robbi]

When my wife doesn't want sex I ask her to stand doggystyle spread and move her ass, and this is enough to make me masturbate horny and easy... I can't show you a pic of what i mean for the new rules will censor it...

 

[bethanyman]

love mutual mast

 

[Omote]

Mutual masturbation is a fun part of me and my SO's sex life. I think doing this in front of each other really opens up our imaginations. Sometime we dirty talk to each other while doing it, other times it's nothing more then pleasurible silence.

However, I never have been able to do this while she is not in the mood. There is something about masturbating together, but while she is not interested really turns me off.

 

[strokerGuY]

nothing is hotter IMO...mmmmmmm

 

[Cardinal]

My favorite is when my wife is giving me a hand job or blow job and puts my hand on my cock to watch me masturbate a little. It really turns me on and she likes the break in the action when she is giving me a blow job.
I love when she watches me!

 

[silverwhisper]

there are very, very few things sexier than watching a woman masturbate, IMHO.

ed

 

[-Nyx]

I'll masturbate in front of my SO, and he loves it. Sometimes, instead of having sex, we just both diddle ourselves and enjoy the show. I like watching him too.

 

[XCal]

I don't mind watching or being watched whether it's intentional or not. I came upstairs one time when she thought I wasn't home. She was lying on the couch, legs spread, pants undone, hand in her panties, eyes closed and rubbing away. I nearly came when she did and I didn't even have to touch myself.

 

[HandFan]

I would really like to start sharing masturbation with my guy, but he's shy about doing it in front of me, even though I've told him that it would really turn me on if he did if for my viewing pleasure. Once I had a guy I was chatting up on the web send me a clip of himself stroking off and I nearly came on my computer chair!

I would do it for my man in a heartbeat, but he never has asked me to and hasn't really expressed a lot of interest in watching me do it....so maybe I'm just dreaming....sigh...someday.....

 

[him n her]

we havent mutualed yet,i have rubbed away if i'm giving him a Bj in a position that he cant help me,and i have often thought i'd like to see him pleasuring himself ,sometimes he'll grab his cock while i'm sucking and that really does excite me,so after reading this the other day i bought it up how hot i thought it would be to actually do it mutual and he is up for it,

I also share the fantasy of being caught or being the catcher

 

[jethrobodeen]

does he?

I cant bring myself to masturbate in front of my SO. Not because i'm conservative because we've done other things that are a hell of a lot crazier but i feel it's something so personal and can't bring myself to do it. He asks for it all the time....but....can't

If anyone has any tips on being able to get more comfortable with it...feel free...

Does he do it in front of you? If not, start by having him pull-out just before cumming and tell him to make it shoot so you can see it. If he doesn't grab it and yank on it for you, tell him to pump it out big because it turns you on. Then while he's pumping his load on your stomach, reach down and put your hand as close to your pussy as you can.

If you aren't able to touch your slit or clit, don't worry about it. Can you play with your nipples while you're going at it? If not, you probably need to start there. In any case, just keep doing this as often as you feel like, and the day will come when you are able to at least touch yourself in his presence. If he pressures you, just let him know you're just testing the waters but if he does things to make you uncomfortable, warn him that you could just forget about it!

Also, I think it's more normal to masturbate than not. Not sure if that's opinion or fact. Hope this helps.

--jb

 

[Herronmark]

the wife and I LOVE to watch each other

 

[lemmesee]

I'd suggest that you do it under a sheet. Seriously- out of sight out of mind. Have him take a seat away from the bed and watch that way. It might make you more comfortable and then you can take baby steps to the full monty.

Excellent idea!!!!

 

[Snowman5933]

We have done this a few times and I think its very fun.

 

[Cardinal]

Interesting twist, my wife wouldn't let me watch her masturbate until we bought a vibrator. I don't know why but I'm not complaining!