Do you masterbate in front of you spouse?

[Badd Leroy]

A week later..I'm still craving it...grrrrrrrrrr

Yup.. My ex enjoyed this as well.. she'd ask me to stand over her on the bed and jerk off while she rubbed her pussy. She'd stare up at me intensly and tell me how hot she thought I looked, and loved when I worked my cock with both hands. Almost always she'd cum as soon as my first splashes covered her.. she looked amazing.. face all red, holding her breath before letting out a solid long groan.
Masturbation was a huge thing for us and I've brought it into every relationship that's followed.
On kind of a side note, I'm fascinated by the different ways women have of manipulating their pussies when only using their hands/fingers. My ex's technique was to almost cup her pussy with both hands, an index finger on either side of her clit while the remaining fingers kind of locked together. She'd kneed her clit and this always brought her off big time!!.. sometimes she would cum 8 or 10 times without stopping her manipulation, all the while exclaiming, "Ohhh my pussyyy.. I can't stop!!! "... DROVE me CRAZY!!
My most recent G/F would pinch her clit between her thumb and index finger and while firmly stroking the top of her clit would insert her 2nd and 3rd fingers just inside her pussy.. she would have somewhat violent orgasms, bucking and twitching uncontrolably. She told me that at times she was able to squirt. I was dying to experience this. I was teasing and kissing her pussy, sucking her lips and clit into my mouth. Taking my time and enjoying it greatly. She reached down and began working her clit, my tongue working in and out between kisses and nibbles... such a turn on to have her fingers bumping my face and making me work for my prize. Although she didn't squirt, her orgasm was VERY intense, and she finally had to push my face away, then layed there completely spent.
I'd love to hear from other woman regarding their techniques.. It would certainly be very educational (not mention HIGHLY erotic).
Masturbation is one of the most intimate and arrousing things I can do with my partner... Really missing it !!!!

 

[SaraClarisse]

On kind of a side note, I'm fascinated by the different ways women have of manipulating their pussies when only using their hands/fingers.

Yes...I think every woman develops her own unique style that feels best (if she's lucky enough to learn to explore herself, that is.) Consider how greatly different the folds and tissues can be down there, from woman to woman. Each pussy needs its own special stroking techniques. And each technique can vary in pattern and intensity depending on the woman's mood.

Most of the time my clit is too sensitive to touch directly with my fingertip, so I knead the fleshy folds to either side...with forefinger and middle fingertips, usually. The soft kneading motion and lubricated smooth skin inside the folds make just the right stimulation. Fortunately my husband has learned the technique and can bring me to climax with his fingers himself, after a few months practice' when we were first dating.

But he's also gotten good at getting his fingertips all lubed up inside me when I'm aroused, and teasing and rubbing my clit directly.

To bring this back on-topic, I haven't tried the reverse cowgirl yet. I think it might be a tight and uncomfortable fit considering the usual angles and curves of our bodies, but it's worth a shot sometime.

 

[Badd Leroy]

Yes...I think every woman develops her own unique style that feels best (if she's lucky enough to learn to explore herself, that is.) Consider how greatly different the folds and tissues can be down there, from woman to woman. Each pussy needs its own special stroking techniques. And each technique can vary in pattern and intensity depending on the woman's mood.

Most of the time my clit is too sensitive to touch directly with my fingertip, so I knead the fleshy folds to either side...with forefinger and middle fingertips, usually. The soft kneading motion and lubricated smooth skin inside the folds make just the right stimulation. Fortunately my husband has learned the technique and can bring me to climax with his fingers himself, after a few months practice' when we were first dating.

But he's also gotten good at getting his fingertips all lubed up inside me when I'm aroused, and teasing and rubbing my clit directly.

To bring this back on-topic, I haven't tried the reverse cowgirl yet. I think it might be a tight and uncomfortable fit considering the usual angles and curves of our bodies, but it's worth a shot sometime.

Lol.. I think we both got a little off topic Hun.. No Cowgirls in here.. just self abusers lmao... but thanks for the insight, Hubby's a lucky man!!.

 

[SaraClarisse]

D'oh! I'm following the "Riding Your Guy" thread, too, and I guess it all blended together for me.

 

[Lady_Prowless]

tryed to but i was shot down.he is too conventional.

 

[Badd Leroy]

tryed to but i was shot down.he is too conventional.

are you saying he's not into MM ?.. Maybe you should set it up so 'Catches' you in the act.. somehow in a way that gives him time to watch thinking you're not aware. I know that would work for me!!
Good luck.

 

[Lady_Prowless]

are you saying he's not into MM ?.. Maybe you should set it up so 'Catches' you in the act.. somehow in a way that gives him time to watch thinking you're not aware. I know that would work for me!!
Good luck.

i do lay across him after we make love and dittle myself when i know he is half asleep and i know he wakes up when i moan...but he would never admit he was awake.btw...how could i get him to be more open to different things??

 

[SlvrTongueDevil]

i do lay across him after we make love and dittle myself when i know he is half asleep and i know he wakes up when i moan...but he would never admit he was awake.btw...how could i get him to be more open to different things??

I'll forego the standard "talk about it", assuming you've done that. You seem to have a bit of a dominant streak. Have you considered tying him and teasing him by fingering yourself? When he's getting horny, you can release just one hand and have him do himself.

Just a thought.

 

[Lady_Prowless]

I'll forego the standard "talk about it", assuming you've done that. You seem to have a bit of a dominant streak. Have you considered tying him and teasing him by fingering yourself? When he's getting horny, you can release just one hand and have him do himself.

Just a thought.

he isnt into that either the tying thing or the hand cuffs or anything like that.he does finger me though but only when he is in the mood.he is just a basic penetration man..wonder if that is a real super hero.."PENETRATION MANNNNNNN"

 

[SlvrTongueDevil]

he isnt into that either the tying thing or the hand cuffs or anything like that.he does finger me though but only when he is in the mood.he is just a basic penetration man..wonder if that is a real super hero.."PENETRATION MANNNNNNN"

Sounds sorta vanilla to me.
Sorry - not judging.

 

[Lady_Prowless]

Sounds sorta vanilla to me.
Sorry - not judging.

actually ice milk would sorta be more like it.

 

[SlvrTongueDevil]

actually ice milk would sorta be more like it.

you poor neglected dear ... no wonder you come to lit.

 

[Lady_Prowless]

you poor neglected dear ... no wonder you come to lit.

lol he is good in other areas dont get me wrong.im not the baren desert...but come on..i wanna touch his ass with my tongue every once in awhlie.

 

[SlvrTongueDevil]

lol he is good in other areas dont get me wrong.im not the baren desert...but come on..i wanna touch his ass with my tongue every once in awhlie.

If you really need a "kink fix", give me a call.

 

[Juken]

A week later..I'm still craving it...grrrrrrrrrr

We got some of that action in this week end. It was AWESOME!

 

[Badd Leroy]

If you really need a "kink fix", give me a call.

Now C'mon.. do ya honestly believe that the lady doesn't Jill-off without his knowledge?... All she needs to do now is tell us about it!... Ears wide open Darlin'.

 

[Cardinal]

huh?

let me ge this straight, you want to masterbate in front of him but he wouldn't like it? even after he gets off and you haven't?
He also wouldn't like bondage, why?
Come on, if he would really be turned off by you masterbating then maybe he has other issues and hang-ups.
You are an adult and responsible for your own sexual satisfaction and/or happiness, take it and show and tell him what you want.
Its all you.

 

[Badd Leroy]

let me ge this straight, you want to masterbate in front of him but he wouldn't like it? even after he gets off and you haven't?
He also wouldn't like bondage, why?
Come on, if he would really be turned off by you masterbating then maybe he has other issues and hang-ups.
You are an adult and responsible for your own sexual satisfaction and/or happiness, take it and show and tell him what you want.
Its all you.

Yeah Darlin'.. Free yerslf!!!

 

[wudelfin]

second, third or even fourth wind

I smiled when I saw this thread.

One of great foreplays of sex is masturbation. Playing with your body in front (or behind) your lover. It is the intimacy, lustful and free. There is no judgment but your own. The chaos of the world is let behind and you create another full of sensual lustful desires.

It also gives you time to store up for another round!

 

[Lady_Prowless]

well i did it this weekend...needless to say he was shocked ,but he didnt asked questions and continued to stoke my face and breasts as he watched me.it made it even more exciting with him so close to me humping at his body with my hand between my legs.it was awesome.ill have to catch him off guard more often.if i do it too frequently it will get old.

 

[Juken]

well i did it this weekend...needless to say he was shocked ,but he didnt asked questions and continued to stoke my face and breasts as he watched me.it made it even more exciting with him so close to me humping at his body with my hand between my legs.it was awesome.ill have to catch him off guard more often.if i do it too frequently it will get old.

Outstanding! Congratulations for taking, what sounds like to me, a risk? Did he have any response when you were through? Did he seem aroused? I certainly was envisioning it!

 

[Kinky Couple 69]

tryed to but i was shot down.he is too conventional.

Hes giving us guys a bad rep... We both love to pleasure ourselves in front of each other and lend helping hands too when needed.


Kinky Couple 69

 

[Kinky Couple 69]

well i did it this weekend...needless to say he was shocked ,but he didnt asked questions and continued to stoke my face and breasts as he watched me.it made it even more exciting with him so close to me humping at his body with my hand between my legs.it was awesome.ill have to catch him off guard more often.if i do it too frequently it will get old.

Wish you could have caught his face on cam may have been one of those priceless moments.

Keep it sexxy!!


KC 69

 

[Lady_Prowless]

Wish you could have caught his face on cam may have been one of those priceless moments.

Keep it sexxy!!


KC 69

we have only one movie we made when we were in our first year together...maybe time for another one.thanx for the idea.

 

[deadly7]

In the 22 years that I have been married I have only ever masturbated in my Wifes prescence. Shortly after marrying she took total control of this aspect of our life together:

If I want to M. I tell her and she will watch or join in. Iam never allowed to touch myself without permission.

Somedays, she will give me a number in the morning (say 5). This is the number of times she will make me cum, using all sorts of implements. I never know when or where it will happen. She might do me 3 times quickly then leave me alone for hours. Sometimes I might wait up to 14 hours for the first hit. (During long waits obviously i ooze pre cum for hours).On these days I never get consent to touch myself.

Other days, completely without warning she will pull me of, whatever I am doing at the time or instruct me to get in to a certain position and M. in a certain way or with specified instruments; she may or may not watch this.

Comments or questions please.......