Do you know the fetishes of your friends or family?

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Do you know if your friends and family have fetishes?

When my younger brother was 19, I found his stash of my older sister’s bras and panties. She had been away at college for several years by then. She must have left some of her old underwear at home and my brother found them. I’m certain he was using them to masturbate.

I kept my brother’s secret because I knew I was in no position to judge him since I had gone through my mother’s underwear drawer.

My father appears to have an exhibitionism fetish. When he was hospitalized for a small stroke, he kept exposing his penis to the female nurses at times when they surely did not want to see it.
 
My answer to the question is basically 'no'.

However, on a few occasions I learned some random sexual fact about a woman I knew and it drove me wild with lust. In college, a friend told me about a girl in the dorm we both knew. He told me she gave him the best blowjob of his life. From that moment on, I would get horny any time I saw her.

Another friend told me that he had banged a real cute blonde in another dorm and that she was a screamer and talked super-dirty in bed. I tried like hell to get her in bed, but never made it happen.

If I learn any 'sexual' fact about a woman, it's all I can think of.
 
We did learn of a married couple who we’ve been friends with for a few years. We discovered it after one night of drinking at their place. They had always fantasized about being with another couple, but since they were high school sweethearts and married right out of school, they never acted on it. It still intrigues us, and we know they still have never acted on it.

And I learned my female co-worker, who is married, loves to dominated by other women.
 
Wissen Sie, ob Ihre Freunde und Familie Fetische haben?

Als mein jüngerer Bruder 19 war, fand ich seinen Vorrat an BHs und Höschen meiner älteren Schwester. Zu diesem Zeitpunkt war sie schon seit mehreren Jahren auf dem College. Sie muss einige ihrer alten Unterwäsche zu Hause gelassen haben und mein Bruder hat sie gefunden. Ich bin sicher, dass er sie zum Masturbieren benutzt hat.

Ich hielt das Geheimnis meines Bruders für mich, weil ich wusste, dass ich nicht in der Lage war, ihn zu verurteilen, da ich die Unterwäscheschublade meiner Mutter durchgesehen hatte.

Mein Vater scheint einen Exhibitionismus-Fetisch zu haben. Als er wegen eines kleinen Schlaganfalls ins Krankenhaus eingeliefert wurde, zeigte er den Krankenschwestern immer wieder seinen Penis, wenn diese ihn sicherlich nicht sehen wollten.
Ichch hab immer in dieBHs von meiner Mutter gespritzt.
Meinen Schwanz hat sie immer gern gesehen und auch angefasst
 
My friends live together.Have for many years;she moved into his house. Even after almost 10yrs.,she has not been allowed to change 1 thing in his house;not even a picture of her kids who sleep over often. He's VERY controlling...BUT,in the bedroom,he wants to be utterly humiliated and degraded;told he has a small dick,can't please a woman,(I'm being G-rated) The filthiest,most foul mouthed insults u can imagine! Gets him off.Go figure.
 
I went to help move my girlfriends daughter. She is in her mid twenties and at the time had a boyfriend who lived in another state. She and her mom went to the store to get some more packing tape and boxes. I was ready to break down her bed. I went to move the box spring and there were restraints, a glass dildo, a "Daddy" hat, anal plugs and lube and enema kits. I didn't want her mom to see it all. So I stuck it all in a suitcase and told her discreetly where she could find it. This happened on a second move as well. I know, she knows I know, we both pretend i don't know. I actually thought her boyfriend might have been bi-sexual. I also saw a riding crop in my daughters basement (lying in plain site, it was a tv room) my son-in-law went beet red and quickly grabbed it and said it was part of a Halloween costume (yeah, right ! ) I played stupid and uninterested. And since my daughter was involved, I wanted to unsee that - but the look on his face was great....
 
My parents are into exhibitionism.
They both love to go to nude beaches and saunas.

A cousin of mine is into furries. She had a girlfriend who is into that as well

One of my friends, she loves to watch how her husband fucks me. Occasionally she takes pictures but she won't join.
 
I haven’t shared much with others. Sometimes if my friends and I are talking about sex I’ll mention something like “oh cum doesn’t bother me at all. It’s the best part about husband having a vasectomy.” Or something like that without emphasizing that being cummed in is my ultimate pleasure. Or “I have done anal, it isn’t that bad as long as you use a lot of lube and are turned on.” But they don’t know I have butt plugs and such.

I wish I knew more about the folks around me. I think sexual conversations are fun and it is so lovely when people feel safe enough to be open and honest.
 
My mom passed when I was 5 so I don't recall my parents together.
Everything I know, was from pictures and meeting dad's friend.

As I journey into the lifestyle, I am more and more convinced my parents were Parr of a 5 couple swinger group in the late 60"s and early 70's.

They went snowmobiling, cruising, and other group events.
Matching sweatshirts. In almost every picture from the events mom was not with dad.
They always had their arms around someone else's spouse.
They had jackets with the patch, "R U A Turtle" which if you Google was the swinger code.
If you answered "You bet your sweet ass I am" meant shared interests.

When dad took us to friends houses after mom passed, it was often pool parties. When my dad met my step-mom, she refused to hang out with these couples and forbid him from talking to them. One was my Godmother.
When my dad passed one of the wives sent a message through the funeral home, referencing herself as a very good friend of dad's. They hadn't connected in over 35 years.
My brother said he remembered her. She was hot and had that white bikini with belt on the bottoms.

It's just a feeling. One I will never confirm. If I am right, it's one more way I am just like my mom.
 
This isn’t technically a fetish…

But I know a bit about my sisters and her boyfriends sex life. Shes told me and my wife and I a few times casually that they are nudists.

In fact they are the ones that let me know about The nude beach at Sandy Hook. (My wife and I went there last week but not with them…)

Last year she and I were driving and I dont recall why, but I shared that my wife is my dominatrix. She said “oh interesting! I’m ______’s (her boyfriends) dominatrix!” I couldn’t believe it. “He likes to be spanked and humiliated.”

I wanted to talk in more detail about it (both hearing and telling) but it was clear she didn’t want to go much further into the discussion.
 
I think if you are observant enough there are ways to find out.

I know a coworker has a foot fetish because he has mentioned a woman's feet at the often several times. Like saying, "I would kiss her feet and work my way up", and noticing what she has for shoes several times. From that you can kind of tell what others like.

One guy at work got hurt, and as we were checking him for more injuries he pulled his pants legs up and quickly said, "I have a genetic thing and don't have much hair on my legs". Maybe, but I think he shaved his legs, and I have only known bicyclists and cross-dressers to shave. He was not the former, so I assumed the latter, but I could be way off on that.
 
I think if you are observant enough there are ways to find out.

I know a coworker has a foot fetish because he has mentioned a woman's feet at the often several times. Like saying, "I would kiss her feet and work my way up", and noticing what she has for shoes several times. From that you can kind of tell what others like.

One guy at work got hurt, and as we were checking him for more injuries he pulled his pants legs up and quickly said, "I have a genetic thing and don't have much hair on my legs". Maybe, but I think he shaved his legs, and I have only known bicyclists and cross-dressers to shave. He was not the former, so I assumed the latter, but I could be way off on that.
I have almost no hair on my legs and I don't shave them
 
I know for sure that a family friend is into something that's considered quite taboo. I was only half sure that my mom shares the same interest and experience. She kind of dodged the question the few times I asked. I think she feared I would lose all respect for her because of the things she did during her junkie hippie phase. I assured her I won't and never brought the topic up again
 
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