Do you have any sexual or masturbation habits that you regret afterward?

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This is in no way meant to judge or shame people, I'm just wondering if anyone is in the same boat as me. I have sex or masturbation habits that seem hot in the moment but I realise are not healthy. But its when all those chemicals get pumped into the brian and make me stupid that I can't resist. But afterward I promise, never again.

Does anything know what I'm talking about?
 
This might not be what you are looking for, but during the 90s and early 00s I spent a lot of time and money in video arcades watching porn. Fed a lot quarters into those machines. Twice I ran into -- not exactly coworkers, but more like colleagues from other companies I did business with. At first I was embarrassed, then I told myself they were there for the same reason I was. Luckily, the internet came along and saved me from wasting money and any more embarrassing encounters.
 
Most of mine are like mainly what I am thinking about at the time.

I would never say I would want my wife to cheat irl. I do fantastize about certain scenarios, but then out of the moment I don't enjoy it.

I feel like some are just there for fantasy fuel, but they can be emotionally arousing.
 
I get that feeling of regret after eating my cum sometimes. I find it so annoying that that feeling surfaces like that
 
Other than questioning the kind of (legal) porn I've jerked off to in that moment of clarity no
 
I’ve stuck ginger root up there a few times, or had a partner do it to me. I’ve thought at various points throughout I’m deeply regretting this moment and someone put this fire out, however I pushed through. And did it again. 🔥
I completely forgot about figging! This was a very popular topic around here years ago. Tried it with a partner once. She couldn't deal with the searing pain... It was only fair to let her try it on me and I too, pushed through. Incredible but takes some courage to try again!
 
I’ve stuck ginger root up there a few times, or had a partner do it to me. I’ve thought at various points throughout I’m deeply regretting this moment and someone put this fire out, however I pushed through. And did it again. 🔥
I've never heard if this!? I take it you peel it? And that it burns? Tell me more!!
 
This is in no way meant to judge or shame people, I'm just wondering if anyone is in the same boat as me. I have sex or masturbation habits that seem hot in the moment but I realise are not healthy. But its when all those chemicals get pumped into the brian and make me stupid that I can't resist. But afterward I promise, never again.

Does anything know what I'm talking about?
I get what you are saying about the chemicals. When I am really aroused, my brain goes into over drive. I am extremely brave until I cum and then everything changes.
Many years ago, in an almost sexless marriage, our first year together, I needed to masturbate often. I used to get up in the middle of the night and go for walks in our neighborhood. This was before cell phones and all the new tech gadgets. I would leave the house completely naked and hard. There were very few streetlights. I would walk and stroke to orgasm. Back then, after I came I would be very self conscious and scared. I would then have to make my way back home. Over time, I challenged myself to go farther and farther on these walks. I never went more than four or five blocks. The longer walks back with all my emotions in overdrive were tense, to say the least.
I no longer become nervous or scared after I cum and I look back on my adventures with much fondness. Good memories.
 
This is in no way meant to judge or shame people, I'm just wondering if anyone is in the same boat as me. I have sex or masturbation habits that seem hot in the moment but I realise are not healthy. But its when all those chemicals get pumped into the brian and make me stupid that I can't resist. But afterward I promise, never again.

Does anything know what I'm talking about?

yes. when i think about my sis in law seeing my tiny penis and jerking me and making me watch as my woman gets to cum and cum on bro in laws big dick.
 
I’ve stuck ginger root up there a few times, or had a partner do it to me. I’ve thought at various points throughout I’m deeply regretting this moment and someone put this fire out, however I pushed through. And did it again. 🔥
Figging...yum
 
Sometimes i try cum over my face. So horny in the fantasy but immediately after i think why did i do that. Then it may be a few weeks but i do it again 😆
 
When I was younger I put a rubber band around my cock and couldn’t get it off. I started to get really scared. I was maybe 13…

Eventually it got soft and I was able to get it off.

I still do enjoy using cock rings and tying up my cock and balls.
 
Hi human_male.

Thanks for asking the question because I have a psychological issue (after the event) with the material I masturbate to all the time. Its not at all illegal. Let me explain.
I have become very good at photoshoping.
This week it was my wife's sister. See is small and petite and has a very sexy figure. I think about her a lot when I masturbate. I would never in real life want to have sex with her but I try so hard to picture her sexy body in sexy lingerie and that does it for me. In the last few years I have used my Photoshop skills to create exceptionally real life pictures of her (Lisa) in very sexy panties. I am very selective about the "donor" model I find as she has to have a similar skin tone and body shape as Lisa. I then go through the many photos of Lisa on FB and Instagram to find the perfect head or face photo of Lisa to superimpose over the "donor" porn model.
If I can get a photo of Lisa with serious facial expression that's even better. When shes not smiling it means business!
I can spend hours finding the correct "donor" model and hours creating the Photoshop image.
I have had to pinch myself with the end result sometimes. The orgasms are amazing.

When its all over I have so much guilt that I delete the images and swear never to do it again but I always do.
No one only me will ever see these images and I will never share them or post them online. That would be unforgivable.

I have done this for my own personal pleasure to many women around my life. Friends wife's, workmates, and even close family member's which has its own issues in itself!!

So. What does anyone think? Its it wrong to create these images?
Would love to know what people think or if many others do this.

Thanks.
T
 
I have been a sadist a few times (only when a masochist begs me to do so). The worst part is that i learned how to be good at it. Makes me feel yuck even if she loved it.
 
Hi human_male.

Thanks for asking the question because I have a psychological issue (after the event) with the material I masturbate to all the time. Its not at all illegal. Let me explain.
I have become very good at photoshoping.
This week it was my wife's sister. See is small and petite and has a very sexy figure. I think about her a lot when I masturbate. I would never in real life want to have sex with her but I try so hard to picture her sexy body in sexy lingerie and that does it for me. In the last few years I have used my Photoshop skills to create exceptionally real life pictures of her (Lisa) in very sexy panties. I am very selective about the "donor" model I find as she has to have a similar skin tone and body shape as Lisa. I then go through the many photos of Lisa on FB and Instagram to find the perfect head or face photo of Lisa to superimpose over the "donor" porn model.
If I can get a photo of Lisa with serious facial expression that's even better. When shes not smiling it means business!
I can spend hours finding the correct "donor" model and hours creating the Photoshop image.
I have had to pinch myself with the end result sometimes. The orgasms are amazing.

When its all over I have so much guilt that I delete the images and swear never to do it again but I always do.
No one only me will ever see these images and I will never share them or post them online. That would be unforgivable.

I have done this for my own personal pleasure to many women around my life. Friends wife's, workmates, and even close family member's which has its own issues in itself!!

So. What does anyone think? Its it wrong to create these images?
Would love to know what people think or if many others do this.

Thanks.
T

I don't think it's wrong since you are not sharing them and are deleting them immediately. To me this is similar to simply fantasizing about these people, which is totally okay.

You probably feel weird because you are going through the trouble of creating a physical visual of these women. Obviously if you were no good at Photoshop you would just imagine them naked and doing wild things with you. But again since you are destroying the images and not showing anyone else I don't think you're crossing any line. (I kind of envy you as I've often wanted to photoshop girls I know just out of curiosity.) If you simply jacked off thinking about them (with no image) would you feel guilty?

The other component is perhaps by deleting the images afterward it's giving you a feeling of remorse. Not sure if that's the case or not but if it were me, I'd flip my mentality from "this shouldn't happen again" to "that was a great experience, glad I savored it." Like a one night stand.
 
Sometimes I regret not having my gadgets fully charged.
Omg that happens to me all the time!!! Have to remember to manually turn off. If not the Bluetooth stays in searching for a connection and liking the battery!
 
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