Ever have a fantasy or fetish that not only won't you ever admit out loud, but you can hardly admit it to yourself?

[Kioti3510]

It seems we all have some sexual desire that we can't, or maybe won't, admit to anyone, our spouse, our lover, our side piece, whatever you have in your life. It seems sad in a way but perhaps the fear of exposing your inner most fantasies or fetishes, especially ones that seem to contradict your image, is greater than your need to fulfill that desire.

 

[redheadfantasy]

Yes! I was ashamed for a long time at how good sex with my step dad feels. It is what it is, now.

 

[Kioti3510]

That seems more like a reality than a fantasy.

 

[redheadfantasy]

That seems more like a reality than a fantasy.

I guess so, but even now when I fantasize about doing something new or extra dirty with my step dad, it feels terribly naughty - I would never tell a soul about this kind of thing.

 

[Kioti3510]

I guess so, but even now when I fantasize about doing something new or extra dirty with my step dad, it feels terribly naughty - I would never tell a soul about this kind of thing.

I understand and thus you make my point. It isn't the actual sex that bothers you it is the fact that if anyone found out the social mores you broke would have repurcussions.

Its like a line from a favorite song of mine "As long as no one knows, then nobody can care."

 

[boytoyjoy]

I've told a few people here about mine, but it is mostly a private thing.

 

[Kioti3510]

Interesting. Did you tell prospective sex partners or friends?

 

[WSM98]

Not a long standing fantasy. Just one that I've recently thought of as kinda hot. Lol, see? I say "kinda" to even minimize it to myself.

Prior to Lit, though, I would say my noncon fantasies were entirely under lock & key. Now, it's NBD. It's the newer turn ons that have emerged from diving deeper into noncon that are, well, concerning.

 

[Kioti3510]

Not a long standing fantasy. Just one that I've recently thought of as kinda hot. Lol, see? I say "kinda" to even minimize it to myself.

Prior to Lit, though, I would say my noncon fantasies were entirely under lock & key. Now, it's NBD. It's the newer turn ons that have emerged from diving deeper into noncon that are, well, concerning.

Believe me I understand. Like I said some I hesitate to even admit to myself!

 

[nostuff]

For a long time, I refused to accept my desire to suck cock or to be fucked by another man. I found the very thought disgusting, and yet I couldn't resist reading and watching gay porn.

I finally found the courage to visit a bathhouse where I experienced three men, though I've yet to be ass-fucked.

That's not to say I've sworn off women. I like both genders.

 

[Wonderer67]

The only one I guess I haven’t shared is switching, being dominant and her being submissive. I guess we’ve talk about it, but she doesn’t have any interest. I would like to take a dominant role w another woman who is into humiliation, being restrained, tied up, CNC, daddy kind of stuff (I hate that term tho).

I can’t think of much else I haven’t told my wife tho. I’ve told her about my fantasies, gay, bi, threesomes MMF/MFF, being in a reverse bukkake (squirting women marking me), gay bukkake, visiting a doninatrix, having a dominatrix co-dominate me, forced bi, being with a trans woman.

All of the above are just fantasies - of all of the stuff I’ve told my wife, she has zero interest in acting on any of them. But I’ve told her. We have a great sex life regardless.

I’d like to make them real, but I’ve Def shared them w her (except for the very top one of switching)

 

[WSM98]

For a long time, I refused to accept my desire to suck cock or to be fucked by another man. I found the very thought disgusting, and yet I couldn't resist reading and watching gay porn.

I finally found the courage to visit a bathhouse where I experienced three men, though I've yet to be ass-fucked.

That's not to say I've sworn off women. I like both genders.

Awww! That was, like, heartwarming

 

[WSM98]

The only one I guess I haven’t shared is switching, being dominant and her being submissive. I guess we’ve talk about it, but she doesn’t have any interest. I would like to take a dominant role w another woman who is into humiliation, being restrained, tied up, CNC, daddy kind of stuff (I hate that term tho).

I can’t think of much else I haven’t told my wife tho. I’ve told her about my fantasies, gay, bi, threesomes MMF/MFF, being in a reverse bukkake (squirting women marking me), gay bukkake, visiting a doninatrix, having a dominatrix co-dominate me, forced bi, being with a trans woman.

All of the above are just fantasies - of all of the stuff I’ve told my wife, she has zero interest in acting on any of them. But I’ve told her. We have a great sex life regardless.

I’d like to make them real, but I’ve Def shared them w her (except for the very top one of switching)

Um, not to overstep any bounds, but maybe describe to her how sexually fulfilling it would be for you to try the dominant role. Because, she might actually really get into it as well. Maybe express this desire as more than a fantasy. It's something that you think could enhance your physical connection with each other.

 

[Kioti3510]

For a long time, I refused to accept my desire to suck cock or to be fucked by another man. I found the very thought disgusting, and yet I couldn't resist reading and watching gay porn.

I finally found the courage to visit a bathhouse where I experienced three men, though I've yet to be ass-fucked.

That's not to say I've sworn off women. I like both genders.

Dude if it doesn't hurt anyone what is the harm in fulfilling your fantasy? Just be cautious and protect yourself.

 

[Kioti3510]

The only one I guess I haven’t shared is switching, being dominant and her being submissive. I guess we’ve talk about it, but she doesn’t have any interest. I would like to take a dominant role w another woman who is into humiliation, being restrained, tied up, CNC, daddy kind of stuff (I hate that term tho).

I can’t think of much else I haven’t told my wife tho. I’ve told her about my fantasies, gay, bi, threesomes MMF/MFF, being in a reverse bukkake (squirting women marking me), gay bukkake, visiting a doninatrix, having a dominatrix co-dominate me, forced bi, being with a trans woman.

All of the above are just fantasies - of all of the stuff I’ve told my wife, she has zero interest in acting on any of them. But I’ve told her. We have a great sex life regardless.

I’d like to make them real, but I’ve Def shared them w her (except for the very top one of switching)

So is your plan to make them real without her or just maintain as fantasy?

 

[Wonderer67]

Um, not to overstep any bounds, but maybe describe to her how sexually fulfilling it would be for you to try the dominant role. Because, she might actually really get into it as well. Maybe express this desire as more than a fantasy. It's something that you think could enhance your physical connection with each other.

not overstepping any bounds at all.

Weve been married for almost 20 years, we’re in mid 50s and she knows herself pretty well. . We’ve talked about it - it’s just not her bag. We’ve had some rough sex, but that’s about it.

It was very fascinating to her that I am submissive and that I actually get great joy out of pain, humiliation etc. In fact, it’s rough, but to me, it’s extremely loving. It’s just not her thing.

for the most part, she gives me what I want and need. Can’t have it all.

She’s a bit vanilla, but it’s all good - like I said, we have a great sex life and I couldn’t be too much happier.

So is your plan to make them real without her or just maintain as fantasy?

I’ve done a little bit of it online. But like to do it IRL.

We have a great life together, multiple businesses together and were happy.

Would it be nice? Yes, but I don’t think I need to have it.

 

[WSM98]

not overstepping any bounds at all.

Weve been married for almost 20 years, we’re in mid 50s and she knows herself pretty well. . We’ve talked about it - it’s just not her bag. We’ve had some rough sex, but that’s about it.

It was very fascinating to her that I am submissive and that I actually get great joy out of pain, humiliation etc. In fact, it’s rough, but to me, it’s extremely loving. It’s just not her thing.

for the most part, she gives me what I want and need. Can’t have it all.

She’s a bit vanilla, but it’s all good - like I said, we have a great sex life and I couldn’t be too much happier.

I’ve done a little bit of it online. But like to do it IRL.

We have a great life together, multiple businesses together and were happy.

Would it be nice? Yes, but I don’t think I need to have it.

Ugh, my one Lit rule is no PM'ing (or in general having too much fun) with married guys. Otherwise, I promise I would 1000% let you unleash all of your dominant desires on me.

 

[Kioti3510]

not overstepping any bounds at all.

Weve been married for almost 20 years, we’re in mid 50s and she knows herself pretty well. . We’ve talked about it - it’s just not her bag. We’ve had some rough sex, but that’s about it.

It was very fascinating to her that I am submissive and that I actually get great joy out of pain, humiliation etc. In fact, it’s rough, but to me, it’s extremely loving. It’s just not her thing.

for the most part, she gives me what I want and need. Can’t have it all.

She’s a bit vanilla, but it’s all good - like I said, we have a great sex life and I couldn’t be too much happier.

I’ve done a little bit of it online. But like to do it IRL.

We have a great life together, multiple businesses together and were happy.

Would it be nice? Yes, but I don’t think I need to have it.

I gotcha. Sometimes what we have to lose isn't worth it.

 

[nostuff]

Dude if it doesn't hurt anyone what is the harm in fulfilling your fantasy? Just be cautious and protect yourself.

Unfortunately, there are people who would be hurt if I came out. That doesn't mean I'll ignore my desire, only that I try to be extremely discreet.

 

[Kioti3510]

Unfortunately, there are people who would be hurt if I came out. That doesn't mean I'll ignore my desire, only that I try to be extremely discreet.

Makes sense. Too bad you can't be who you want to be.

 

[FantasySharer1]

My absolute favorite fantasy would be for my wife's older brother to move into our house with us and become a second "husband" to her. The set up would be exclusive loyal between the three of us. I saw his dick in a locker room years ago and the fact that he's so much bigger and thicker than me never left my mind and turned into how wonderful it would be if he could please his baby sister - my wife - with it. The fact that they have an INCREDIBLY close, loving, hilarious, and kind relationship already just adds to it for me. If they weren't siblings they'd be perfect for each other. I fantasize about how the dynamic would be all the time.

1. Her brother would have equal sexual rights to her at any time.

2. We'd sleep in the same bed together, but have an extra bedroom in case one of us wanted to sleep or rest while the other two played.

3. He and I would both provide for our family while she stays at home

4. I'd regularly wake up to her pussy in my face dripping her brother's cum into my mouth because they'd have just fucked first thing in the morning right next to me.

5. He'd regularly eat her out after I've fucked her as well.

6. Threesomes where there's some double-vaginal penetration would be a regular part of our lives.

7. To take away the tension of having too many decision makers in the house, she'd get final say when he and I disagree on big family decisions.

8. He and I would trade sexual tips on how to please her.

9. We'd have free-use days where she'd be OK with us just having her whenever and however either of us want.

10. There would be many times where I'd lay under her pussy while he fucks her from behind or lay under her missionary style while he does the same, and vice-versa.

11. Fantasy-only since it's so unsafe: She'd have babies with both of us. We'd both get her pregnant so that our family is truly a blend of our relationships. I'd love to rub her feet while her brother's baby grows in her womb or watch him eat her pussy while she's 5 months pregnant with my child.

12. I love the idea of me and him having different fetishes with her. My wife and I would play with watersports and pee but she and her brother would do more BDSM stuff. We'd have different sex lives while sharing a sex life together.

13. I've thought about all the other details too and how our lives would go. He's more of a handyman and I'm more of the reader so we'd be able to teach our kids together and give them the best of all our skills.

14. I love the idea of them sharing intimate moments in front of me, like her hand on his chest or his hand on her ass while they kiss gently in the kitchen as I'm making dinner. Or him seeing me come up behind her and caressing her ass while I kiss her neck while she's cutting tomatoes. His little actions constantly reminding me: "I'm fucking your wife." and my actions constantly reminding him: "I'm fucking your baby sister."

15. Even in conversation we fulfill different parts of my wife's interests intellectually. It would be great to have us both around all the time to keep her consistently fulfilled with her two men.

16. The idea of me preparing her body for a hot night with him or vice-versa turns me on.

17. We have pretty much equal sexual access to her but because I am her husband but he is BOTH her lover AND her brother - he gets extra access - to her asshole. Only he gets to fuck her in the ass but NOT me. Every time I see her butt, I am reminded that the actual butt itself and the right to fuck it belongs to him, her big brother, only. Not me. I can touch her butt, kiss it, lick it, whatever, but I am not allowed to penetrate her ass - only he is.

We could pass it off as "her brother stays with us" but really, her brother would be her husband in every sense of the word alongside me. We'd share domestic tasks, chores, everything.

Nothing would please me more than to know that on any night I feel like reading or relaxing or seeing my friends instead of sex - her brother is there to absolutely pound her pussy and please her and make her scream in pleasure like there's no tomorrow. That I could come home to them snuggling in our bed, her pussy dripping with him so I could slowly lick her clean or slide in to take their sloppy seconds.

Sometimes I wonder if this is all just sexual fantasy, but the more I've thought about it over the years, I realize this is exactly how I'd want my life to be if I could change it.

 

[WSM98]

My absolute favorite fantasy would be for my wife's older brother to move into our house with us and become a second "husband" to her. The set up would be exclusive loyal between the three of us. I saw his dick in a locker room years ago and the fact that he's so much bigger and thicker than me never left my mind and turned into how wonderful it would be if he could please his baby sister - my wife - with it. The fact that they have an INCREDIBLY close, loving, hilarious, and kind relationship already just adds to it for me. If they weren't siblings they'd be perfect for each other. I fantasize about how the dynamic would be all the time.

1. Her brother would have equal sexual rights to her at any time.

2. We'd sleep in the same bed together, but have an extra bedroom in case one of us wanted to sleep or rest while the other two played.

3. He and I would both provide for our family while she stays at home

4. I'd regularly wake up to her pussy in my face dripping her brother's cum into my mouth because they'd have just fucked first thing in the morning right next to me.

5. He'd regularly eat her out after I've fucked her as well.

6. Threesomes where there's some double-vaginal penetration would be a regular part of our lives.

7. To take away the tension of having too many decision makers in the house, she'd get final say when he and I disagree on big family decisions.

8. He and I would trade sexual tips on how to please her.

9. We'd have free-use days where she'd be OK with us just having her whenever and however either of us want.

10. There would be many times where I'd lay under her pussy while he fucks her from behind or lay under her missionary style while he does the same, and vice-versa.

11. Fantasy-only since it's so unsafe: She'd have babies with both of us. We'd both get her pregnant so that our family is truly a blend of our relationships. I'd love to rub her feet while her brother's baby grows in her womb or watch him eat her pussy while she's 5 months pregnant with my child.

12. I love the idea of me and him having different fetishes with her. My wife and I would play with watersports and pee but she and her brother would do more BDSM stuff. We'd have different sex lives while sharing a sex life together.

13. I've thought about all the other details too and how our lives would go. He's more of a handyman and I'm more of the reader so we'd be able to teach our kids together and give them the best of all our skills.

14. I love the idea of them sharing intimate moments in front of me, like her hand on his chest or his hand on her ass while they kiss gently in the kitchen as I'm making dinner. Or him seeing me come up behind her and caressing her ass while I kiss her neck while she's cutting tomatoes. His little actions constantly reminding me: "I'm fucking your wife." and my actions constantly reminding him: "I'm fucking your baby sister."

15. Even in conversation we fulfill different parts of my wife's interests intellectually. It would be great to have us both around all the time to keep her consistently fulfilled with her two men.

16. The idea of me preparing her body for a hot night with him or vice-versa turns me on.

We could pass it off as "her brother stays with us" but really, her brother would be her husband in every sense of the word alongside me. We'd share domestic tasks, chores, everything.

Nothing would please me more than to know that on any night I feel like reading or relaxing or seeing my friends instead of sex - her brother is there to absolutely pound her pussy and please her and make her scream in pleasure like there's no tomorrow. That I could come home to them snuggling in our bed, her pussy dripping with him so I could slowly lick her clean or slide in to take their sloppy seconds.

Sometimes I wonder if this is all just sexual fantasy, but the more I've thought about it over the years, I realize this is exactly how I'd want my life to be if I could change it.

Wow. Thanks for being so open and honest. That is a very wild, yet very detailed, & somehow very intimate fantasy.

I don't know how proper it is to say "I wish you luck," but you're so doggone passionate about it, that I do kinda hope this happens for you...for y'all...in some way.

 

[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

Yes. Sex with a younger, handsome "relation".

 

[Hipshot1554]

Yes. Sex with a younger, handsome "relation".

Seems to be more common lately.

 

[Kioti3510]

My absolute favorite fantasy would be for my wife's older brother to move into our house with us and become a second "husband" to her. The set up would be exclusive loyal between the three of us. I saw his dick in a locker room years ago and the fact that he's so much bigger and thicker than me never left my mind and turned into how wonderful it would be if he could please his baby sister - my wife - with it. The fact that they have an INCREDIBLY close, loving, hilarious, and kind relationship already just adds to it for me. If they weren't siblings they'd be perfect for each other. I fantasize about how the dynamic would be all the time.

1. Her brother would have equal sexual rights to her at any time.

2. We'd sleep in the same bed together, but have an extra bedroom in case one of us wanted to sleep or rest while the other two played.

3. He and I would both provide for our family while she stays at home

4. I'd regularly wake up to her pussy in my face dripping her brother's cum into my mouth because they'd have just fucked first thing in the morning right next to me.

5. He'd regularly eat her out after I've fucked her as well.

6. Threesomes where there's some double-vaginal penetration would be a regular part of our lives.

7. To take away the tension of having too many decision makers in the house, she'd get final say when he and I disagree on big family decisions.

8. He and I would trade sexual tips on how to please her.

9. We'd have free-use days where she'd be OK with us just having her whenever and however either of us want.

10. There would be many times where I'd lay under her pussy while he fucks her from behind or lay under her missionary style while he does the same, and vice-versa.

11. Fantasy-only since it's so unsafe: She'd have babies with both of us. We'd both get her pregnant so that our family is truly a blend of our relationships. I'd love to rub her feet while her brother's baby grows in her womb or watch him eat her pussy while she's 5 months pregnant with my child.

12. I love the idea of me and him having different fetishes with her. My wife and I would play with watersports and pee but she and her brother would do more BDSM stuff. We'd have different sex lives while sharing a sex life together.

13. I've thought about all the other details too and how our lives would go. He's more of a handyman and I'm more of the reader so we'd be able to teach our kids together and give them the best of all our skills.

14. I love the idea of them sharing intimate moments in front of me, like her hand on his chest or his hand on her ass while they kiss gently in the kitchen as I'm making dinner. Or him seeing me come up behind her and caressing her ass while I kiss her neck while she's cutting tomatoes. His little actions constantly reminding me: "I'm fucking your wife." and my actions constantly reminding him: "I'm fucking your baby sister."

15. Even in conversation we fulfill different parts of my wife's interests intellectually. It would be great to have us both around all the time to keep her consistently fulfilled with her two men.

16. The idea of me preparing her body for a hot night with him or vice-versa turns me on.

We could pass it off as "her brother stays with us" but really, her brother would be her husband in every sense of the word alongside me. We'd share domestic tasks, chores, everything.

Nothing would please me more than to know that on any night I feel like reading or relaxing or seeing my friends instead of sex - her brother is there to absolutely pound her pussy and please her and make her scream in pleasure like there's no tomorrow. That I could come home to them snuggling in our bed, her pussy dripping with him so I could slowly lick her clean or slide in to take their sloppy seconds.

Sometimes I wonder if this is all just sexual fantasy, but the more I've thought about it over the years, I realize this is exactly how I'd want my life to be if I could change it.

Wow! That is quite a detailed fantasy. Any chance you will ever act on it? Any possibility that they have already been sexually active with each other?