Do you fake it?

[Cleopatra]

I'm faking that I'm still awake right about now.

*pokes you*

You feel like you're not faking it.

 

[Prince Romeo]

Cleo are you a night owl or what?

 

[Prince Romeo]

Hey, watch where you're poking!

 

[Cleopatra]

Cleo are you a night owl or what?

Nope, but I've got a date at 2am with a hungry little baby. No point in trying to sleep now.

 

[Cleopatra]

I have faked happiness before...it is possible.

I know that my hubby (separated...how I wish I could say ex) faked...knowing how to even toss garbage into the garbage pail. He would have others do things that he could. Just cos he could get away with it.

I think I made a point to not let my SO get away with that before we were married. Either that, or he just didn't do that a lot.
Good luck...

 

[Cleopatra]

I found out that guys can't fake an orgasm, that's how she found out I was faking about a lot of other stuff too.

Well, was it good or bad that she found out?

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I don't fake a thing. Frankly, faking, and remembering to keep up the facade, is harder than just admitting things.

 

[Cleopatra]

I don't fake a thing. Frankly, faking, and remembering to keep up the facade, is harder than just admitting things.

So very true. If I really don't want to do something, I just say I don't want to do it. Easy enough.

How are you? Having a good day? *grin*

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

So very true. If I really don't want to do something, I just say I don't want to do it. Easy enough.

How are you? Having a good day? *grin*

I ALWAYS have a good day...the world may change, good and bad situations come and go, but at the center of it all, I remain calm, peaceful, and unshaken by what the world throws at me.

 

[Cleopatra]

I ALWAYS have a good day...the world may change, good and bad situations come and go, but at the center of it all, I remain calm, peaceful, and unshaken by what the world throws at me.

Write a book, do a seminar...I *need* to feel that way Johnny.

 

[breakwall]

Well, was it good or bad that she found out?

It was good. I was faking my way through the entire relationship but it was wintertime and I didnt have the energy to get out of it and besides, i would have to go to movies alone. I hate that.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Write a book, do a seminar...I *need* to feel that way Johnny.

I think that 'faking' is a vital component in having the good days. I force myself to remain in high spirits, the end result of which is true high spirits. Hell, I've trained myself to react favorably to bad things, sometimes. I 'fake' my way though things, in order to not allow myself to get swamped by the almost exclusively nonsensical 'troubles' I have. If no one is liable to die, I don't sweat things a bit.

 

[Cleopatra]

It was good. I was faking my way through the entire relationship but it was wintertime and I didnt have the energy to get out of it and besides, i would have to go to movies alone. I hate that.

You do? I kinda like it...

Not the faking your way through the entire relationship cause you're lazy part, the going to movies alone part.

 

[breakwall]

You do? I kinda like it...

Not the faking your way through the entire relationship cause you're lazy part, the going to movies alone part.

actually the faking through a relationship part is almost the same as going to a movie alone...

you are separate from the action as a inert observer. You remotely care what happens to the people you are watching but not intensely so. And you often think

a) this is kind of dragging...

b)what am I going to do when this is over and

c)i'm glad I am leaving soon, the floor is really sticky.

 

[Cleopatra]

And you often think

a) this is kind of dragging...

b)what am I going to do when this is over and

c)i'm glad I am leaving soon, the floor is really sticky.

You've been in some odd realtionships, I think.

 

[breakwall]

You've been in some odd realtionships, I think.

EVERY relationship I've been in has been weird...



i'm starting to think that maybe it's ME!

 

[Cleopatra]

i'm starting to think that maybe it's ME!

NO!!!


No?


NO!!


Well, maybe...

 

[Romial]

Heya Cleo


But a question...how can men fake it? lol

 

[Cleopatra]

Heya Cleo


But a question...how can men fake it? lol

Hey Romial. You didn't read the original post, did you?

 

[breakwall]

Hey Cleo,

hows your 'date' going?

oh to be a parent....

 

[Sex & Diamonds]

*flying tackle hug*


Cleo !!!!!!!!



Happiness can be faked. Those that get up every morning and drive to their boring jobs put on their happy face before walking through the door. As for it changing one's mood. I have my doubts. There are many that have the ability to 'fake' being happy on the outside and mean while on the inside they are depressed and very unhappy.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Happiness can be faked. Those that get up every morning and drive to their boring jobs put on their happy face before walking through the door. As for it changing one's mood. I have my doubts. There are many that have the ability to 'fake' being happy on the outside and mean while on the inside they are depressed and very unhappy.

On the other hand, some of us can get the inner mood to match the outer mood. I find, for instance, that if I get moving, and pretend to be excited about my day, eventually, my day just seems to be going better!

 

[Romial]

Hey Romial. You didn't read the original post, did you?

Nope, but I guess I should have huh?

I fake being stupid sometimes, comes natural to me.

 

[Sex & Diamonds]

On the other hand, some of us can get the inner mood to match the outer mood. I find, for instance, that if I get moving, and pretend to be excited about my day, eventually, my day just seems to be going better!

Good point.....but,


I find that sometimes it hard to keep up the positive thinking and the inner emotions swell to a height that cannot be contained.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Good point.....but,


I find that sometimes it hard to keep up the positive thinking and the inner emotions swell to a height that cannot be contained.

Well...let's be fair here. If your parents die, all the positive thinking in the world isn't going to make your day wonderful all of a sudden. However, if you are just having a 'blah' day, positive thinking can make things great!