do you ever think about an ex-lover during sex?

[pisces_girl]

When you're with someone new does your mind ever wander off mid-fuck to think about that really great fuck or that one significant other you had that you'll never forget? Or do you try to focus on who you're with as much as possible? I'm wondering if males do this more than females or vice versa... hmm...

 

[creamofthecrawp]

i can honestly say i've never thought about another woman when i've been with a current one

whoever my partner is always gets my full undivided and intense attention. i never wander from doing what i can to make her lose herself and think about nothing but how good i've made her feel

 

[itismeinnz]

No. I could consciously think about an ex-lover and think, wow they were amazing... but my mind never really drifts to them unwittingly. However I do think that there are one or two lovers who kind of "set the benchmark", not in that I'd think about them during sex, but where the chemistry was such that they remain as "man, that was frickin insane" memories.

 

[GracefullyYours]

I think about the man I'm with during sex.

 

[RAddams]

No I never think about an ex during sex. Even if I am watching others have sex while I am, I wouldn't be able to image my partner at that moment being someone else.

 

[~Elizabeth~]

Yes, i do about one...

 

[Feelfreetotouch]

When I'm masturbating, Yes. During sex, No.

 

[DarkRefuge]

Yes. Sometimes.

 

[seekingmalefwb]

I love dirty talk during sex and if talking about an ex will get my partner or both of us off...absolutely!

 

[pisces_girl]

i'm usually very invested in any sexual experience. my mind never wanders unless i sense that something is off on his end.

 

[Paul_Chance]

Yes

Yes, I have, yes, I do, and yes, I will.

 

[Scotsman69]

My ex-lover and I had some particularly intense scenes when we verbally pretended we were with others as we fucked.

 

[klippert]

I have...never with Mrs K.

 

[joan658]

I often think of my old BF ... he was black. Having a BBC is so hot! My husband just doesn't understand ... <sigh>

 

[inwinetheres]

I often think of my old BF ... he was black. Having a BBC is so hot! My husband just doesn't understand ... <sigh>

poor joan he doesnt fill you up????

I do from time to time, old college GF... she would just loose herself... very sexy

 

[oggbashan]

I often think of former lovers but not while having sex with someone else.

 

[TeaforMe]

I try not too, but sometimes my mind does wander back to one. I don't intentionally go there,it just happens, especially the closer I get to an orgasm, then I want to call out his name, but that would be so uncool!

 

[BongoGal]

I have done so on occasion. Usually I am 'in the moment', but there have been times (usually when under the influence of something or other) when I've closed my eyes and pretended that it was someone else fucking me and in a whole different setting. Some sex fantasies really burst into life when a real live person is doing the pricking or licking as opposed to being by myself with my hands or a toy. I've always kept this to myself. I recall a couple of guys noticing that seemed to get more into it, but I've never said that it was because I was thinking about someone else rather than him. No guy wants to hear me say, "Oh, I was fantasizing that it was your friend Bill fucking me rather than you."

 

[inwinetheres]

I have done so on occasion. Usually I am 'in the moment', but there have been times (usually when under the influence of something or other) when I've closed my eyes and pretended that it was someone else fucking me and in a whole different setting. Some sex fantasies really burst into life when a real live person is doing the pricking or licking as opposed to being by myself with my hands or a toy. I've always kept this to myself. I recall a couple of guys noticing that seemed to get more into it, but I've never said that it was because I was thinking about someone else rather than him. No guy wants to hear me say, "Oh, I was fantasizing that it was your friend Bill fucking me rather than you."

true no guy does want to hear that, haha (nor woman from my perspective)

But i know exactly what you mean bongo, there are just certian times where the whole experience takes you some where else, and personally its never intentional or ment to take away from the person i'm with... but if it happens i just go with it. of course, like you said... keep it to myself

 

[SkAoUt]

Should have made a poll. Polls don't seem a popular option outside the GB. Odd since its so much easier to see at a glance for these types of yes no questions.

Never though about anyone but the girl I'm loving at the time. During masturbation though...

 

[LordofBlackbirds]

Not usually, but I have a few times. A past love of mine. She's gorgeous and she know how to give me what I want. There are some things my girl just doesn't do for me that my past lover did. When I do think about her, I end up pounding my woman until she can't breathe.

 

[PaulBlart]

Honestly, I never do DURING sex. Between times, I sometimes drift back a little to college. A former girlfriend and,more so, her older sister that broke things up. Screwing must have been a genetic gift with those two.

 

[GracefullyYours]

Should have made a poll. Polls don't seem a popular option outside the GB. Odd since its so much easier to see at a glance for these types of yes no questions.

Never though about anyone but the girl I'm loving at the time. During masturbation though...

See....that would actually make sense.

The issue is that a "yes" or "no" isn't really what people are after....they want:

"Oh GOD yes! I think about my ex's fat dick fucking my pussy and wish my lover was half that big!"

You know...or something.

 

[bjm_666]

Sometimes... but mostly just for a moment or two. Certain things can trigger memories (or certain positions) :caning:

 

[inwinetheres]

See....that would actually make sense.

The issue is that a "yes" or "no" isn't really what people are after....they want:

"Oh GOD yes! I think about my ex's fat dick fucking my pussy and wish my lover was half that big!"

You know...or something.

so then Gracefully.... are we to take it thats what youve been thinking about with a current lover hehehe