Do Erotic Recordings for lit

[Pompeii]

Hey Lit, back after a long hiatus.

Recently I've been keeping in contact with some favorite people here and hadn't realized how many guys loved to have a woman telling them how to pleasure themselves. Even for the few I've spoken with (That skype decides to behave) have asked for a little more, especially with how afk I can get with Rl.

How best should I do a recording? Should I do one with audio and text? Is there a way not to sound too cheesie or things to look out for? I want to do one before the end of the week, so any feedback would be nice.

 

[GrrlFriday]

I've dabbled in recording a bit, but not posted anything up on lit. Choose a time when you're unlikely to be interrupted, and you're relaxed. Being relaxed and having fun while recording really comes through in the finished audio, and guards against cheese. Recording an audio is more like writing a letter to someone than having a conversation - so you might find it helpful to draft a guideline of what you want to say, but don't be afraid to ad lib. The first time, you might feel a bit silly - if so, try again after masturbating. (or masturbate while you record, why not! ) You will most likely sound silly to yourself, if you're not used to hearing your own voice recorded. Don't worry about this too much - the fellas won't mind. Listen to the whole thing after you're done, to make sure that it's loud enough, clear enough, etc.

Think about some of the appeal of giving you control over how they pleasure themselves.... It feels different - your technique is different to their own. They feel like they're masturbating for you rather than alone. Try and be genuine, have fun, and pay attention to detail - ask them to do things that would turn you on, if you were watching them... and that would most likely turn them on. I'm given to understand that 'Hit your dick with a hammer' is fairly niche.

I hope that this gives you some ideas - and if not, there's always the oeuvre of SomeAussieGuy to inspire you.

 

[amofiga]

I agree with the first responder that sounding too cheesy and too over the top can be more of a laugh and a turn off rather than a turn on. Keep it real. The porno movie fake moans and "oohs" and "ummms" don't do it. Be natural and genuine. Talk naturally and don't over do it. If it sounds fake, it's no good. At least from my perspective, make sure you use enough street language and forget the medical sounding stuff. Tell the guy you love looking at his cock or dick or prick while he strokes it and never use the word penis. Tell him how you want to have his thick creamy cum squirting out of his pee hole all over your face or into your mouth. Tell them you'd love to feel it sliding into your soaking wet cunt hole. Tell them you'd love to see them on their knees squeezing and milking their cock while they were licking your cunt. etc. But don't do a lot of over the top panting and moaning that sounds fake. If it sounds insincere, it will sound fake. You need to sound sincerely like you love looking at cocks and watching cum squirt out and such.

Personally, I've loved to have women record things about their own masturbation or make a recording while their actually doing it. I've had several do this for me. One was truly excellent at it because she had a naturally innocent sounding voice and didn't over do it. I used to tell her she should do commercials. I like it if they talk about finger fucking themseves while they watch me jerk off or trying to work their whole hand up into their sopping cunt. Again, don't use terms like "pleasuring yourself" as far as I'm concerned. It will sound like a "self help text book" rather than an erotic session. I love hearing women talk dirty but for me, it has to be really dirty and not too namby pamby.

Good luck with your little adventure. If you get really good at it, who knows, you could sell them.

 

[mike2010fc]

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[subwannabe]

I tried listening to audio a short handfull of times but every time it just sounded like someone was reading words from a sheet of paper. I guess to be really good, in mind anyway, you need some level of acting ability so it doesn't just sound like someone is reading.

 

[Pompeii]

The audio on lit is really cool, I remember the first time I found it, it just totally blew my mind. Unfortunately much of it has devolved into hearing a vibrator and a women biting her lip.

For me, the best part is hearing loads of detail. So paint a picture of the room, tell us if it's light or dark, if you're tired, busy, in a hurry, what your mood is, if there is anyone in the next room, how long it's been since you've had sex. The more of the imagery you fill the story with, the less you'll have to talk about the nitty gritty.

That said, it might be good to do a variety of styles. So in one, talk about every detail of your body, like, do the curtains match the drapes, are you dry/wet/old/young/tight/loose/young/old/experienced/big breasted/flat chested, that sort of thing. But in another, pretend that we are two lost souls who happened to meet and we won't know anything about each other. Sometimes I want to fantasize about a beautiful female body but other times I like to think about sex with a complete stranger and I practically don't even care what she looks like.

What I've found lately is that for me, I'm looking for acceptance and interaction. Every man's fear is to be making love to someone who isn't feeling it, doesn't want him, is bored, restless, in a hurry, anything like that. So use the tone of your voice to make the situation sultry, like it's the most important thing in the world at this moment.

I guess one last idea is, think of everything that you find sexually appealing, and then spin that in a way that a man might also. So if you like being taken from behind and he doesn't find that as erotic (like me, unfortunately), try creating a path for his mind. Talk about starting upright, letting him cup your breasts, kiss your back, all that stuff and ease into the act itself. Add details like if it's hot or humid or cold and you're under covers. I'm having to do this constantly in my stories because men are so visually oriented and women generally aren't as much, so I'm trying to paint more with sensation than imagery. I've been thinking about it more as, instead of giving up what I want, give her what she wants and then she might be willing to reciprocate. I sort of fell out of the sex game by being too vanilla and losing interest, which is almost worse than being dumped. So always be focusing on your own pleasure and you'll create it in him.

Hope this helps, good luck!

Mike

Wow.....I never knew painting a picture so.....essential. Or even the manner and lighting. Thank you so much for sharing this.

 

[Pompeii]

Bump.

I still feel kinda selfconscious with this and have more questions.

How should I pace it? Is it best to start off long or short ones? (3-7 mins)
How should I aim the "conversation" towards for men? more on self or more towards the act on the man? thwbj you everyone for your helpful response. I'm just trying to make a quality recording.>_<