Do all men always lose all of their energy after they ejaculate?

[Penus_Flytrap]

From my limited experiences, when a guy cums, they physically feel really intense, like their muscles stiffen or quiver, they pound harder and deeper, their grip gets tighter and then suddenly they just crash and their body relaxes as if their body suddenly fell asleep. They act as if they are too weak to move for a moment. In a way, I feel as if I just stole their energy, and it feels empowering. Now I'm not talking about them being exhausted from doing all the work, but I'm referring to the times when they didn't exhaust themselves, no sweating and not breathing that hard. So in those situations, is this a common physical response with most or all men? If not, what are the variations in which men physically react after ejaculation? How much of a difference in similar physiological responses from men have you experienced?

Likewise, I'm curious how other women physically respond to them ejaculating? I have this tendency that when I feel their “intensity” for lack of a better word, my legs tighten as if I can't help but to squeeze my thighs together, I attempt to lift my hips into them if they're on top or if I am, I tend to lean back and squat down more. Then afterward, my legs feel shaky. A friend of mine calls it “baby deer leg syndrome” but I'm curious how common those responses are and, what is your natural physiological response to feeling your partner cum?

 

[Baztrachian]

The thing is that men get aroused and it's intense and then we get that unstoppable urge to fuck and then we get excited about the prospect of fucking and then....wow...we're fucking and the intensity goes off the charts and then...

It's done.

It's right up there with running a really serious 5K. Not a jog, but a balls-out sprint for three miles and then you get to the end and you crash.

And it only gets better when you're with a woman who wants all of that sexual energy for herself.

One of the best compliments you can have in life.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

From my limited experiences, when a guy cums, they physically feel really intense, like their muscles stiffen or quiver, they pound harder and deeper, their grip gets tighter and then suddenly they just crash and their body relaxes as if their body suddenly fell asleep. They act as if they are too weak to move for a moment. In a way, I feel as if I just stole their energy, and it feels empowering. Now I'm not talking about them being exhausted from doing all the work, but I'm referring to the times when they didn't exhaust themselves, no sweating and not breathing that hard. So in those situations, is this a common physical response with most or all men? If not, what are the variations in which men physically react after ejaculation? How much of a difference in similar physiological responses from men have you experienced?

Likewise, I'm curious how other women physically respond to them ejaculating? I have this tendency that when I feel their “intensity” for lack of a better word, my legs tighten as if I can't help but to squeeze my thighs together, I attempt to lift my hips into them if they're on top or if I am, I tend to lean back and squat down more. Then afterward, my legs feel shaky. A friend of mine calls it “baby deer leg syndrome” but I'm curious how common those responses are and, what is your natural physiological response to feeling your partner cum?

Beautiful. I’ve seen the deer legs! It’s wild. Sexy. I don’t lose all of my energy but there is a delicious haze that comes over me. Sometimes I don’t lose my erection. It’s neat when I get really close to cumming but don’t go over the edge I’ll get an orgasmic feeling and some cum will just slide out and run down my shaft. My cock gets really hard that way and I can do that lots of times without actually cumming. It’s fun with my wife licking my nipple and being dirty while I rub and seep for a while until we’re ready for the true crescendo which I usually squirt onto her. Mmm. Good post.

 

[Penus_Flytrap]

Beautiful. I’ve seen the deer legs! It’s wild. Sexy. I don’t lose all of my energy but there is a delicious haze that comes over me. Sometimes I don’t lose my erection. It’s neat when I get really close to cumming but don’t go over the edge I’ll get an orgasmic feeling and some cum will just slide out and run down my shaft. My cock gets really hard that way and I can do that lots of times without actually cumming. It’s fun with my wife licking my nipple and being dirty while I rub and seep for a while until we’re ready for the true crescendo which I usually squirt onto her. Mmm. Good post.

How do you think you physically feel to your wife when you do cum though? Or have you ever asked her what she feels you physically do?

 

[Treeview]

I read an article a while ago about this question. In the article, it discussed the biology of what’s going on.

There are chemical reactions I believe hormonal going on in the male body related to ejaculation.

The conclusion.

It’s absolutely normal and that Lady should quit yelling at the guys about falling asleep

Ha ha ha ha

 

[paulboulder]

It depends for me. I definitely have times afterwards if I am lying in bed where I will get sleepy for a few minutes. It's a switch from the sympathetic nervous system, which is highly activated during the run up to climax, to the parasympathetic taking over afterwards. The post-dopamine slumber. But, if I am up and engaged, like helping my lady partner reach a climax in an active fashion, I am like Tony the Tiger. So it's very situational.

I know my partner is very turned on by how strong I can get in the homestretch towards a climax, because she's told me so. It's not something one is always aware of in the moment.

It can be very different if it's a climax from receiving oral versus intercourse. After oral, it's a feeling of excitement and energy, not being wiped out.

 

[BillyWalrus]

I read an article a while ago about this question. In the article, it discussed the biology of what’s going on.

There are chemical reactions I believe hormonal going on in the male body related to ejaculation.

The conclusion.

It’s absolutely normal and that Lady should quit yelling at the guys about falling asleep

Ha ha ha ha

Do you remember the article or how to find it? I would be very interested in reading it.

 

[J64stephenson]

Great post. The wife an I have learned are tells of how close each other are during a section. Sometimes when we are manually stimulating each other I will get the leg shaky thing. But it doesn’t happen we have sex.

 

[Wonderer67]

I am a one and done guy. I mean I can have sex after I ejaculate but it’s tougher. I’m pushing 60.

There’s a chemical reaction that takes place when a man ejaculates. Dopamine. It makes you sleepy and relaxed.

But my wife and I have really embraced orgasm control and long fucking sessions. It takes me a while to cum anyway, but this has really changed the game. I slow down or stop when I am closes and don’t myself to fun. And it’s sexy to have her control it and tell me NOT to cum. We have great long sessions and she’s very orgasmic.

I enjoy her cumming almost as much - maybe more - than I like cumming. She does let me cum every few weeks and the orgasms are very powerful.

It’s worth the wait. But tough for me to get hard right after. Sometimes shell ruin my orgasm and I can keep on going.

Orgasm control has really changed our sex life!

 

[Treeview]

Do you remember the article or how to find it? I would be very interested in reading it.

No clue

Some clever Google searches should get an answer

Include 'hormone' 'sleep' 'male ejaculation'

the answer is based on a chain of hormonal triggers. There's no male control of these triggers. Evolution put them in for some reason.Not to allow guys to fake sleep and shirk their post coital cuddle and pillow talk

 

[BillyWalrus]

No clue

Some clever Google searches should get an answer

Include 'hormone' 'sleep' 'male ejaculation'

the answer is based on a chain of hormonal triggers. There's no male control of these triggers. Evolution put them in for some reason.Not to allow guys to fake sleep and shirk their post coital cuddle and pillow talk

Thanks. Yeah, it's all about the chemicals released in the brain after orgasm.

 

[Dreamer110]

For myself if it's later at night I definitely do. Morning ar afternoon swx im energized.

 

[trevorness]

I always found it a challenge to attend to my partner's needs after I climaxed, since I generally finished first. "No be a decent person and get her off too..."

Even in recent times when I have cam sessions, the guys often want me to lick my cum up and I often am just like "No thanks, I'm done, but thank you!"

 

[annmsguy]

Some have already referenced the hormonal connection to this. That’s the chemical side. On the practical side, think of how the build up to climax typically goes between the genders. Women typically climb that mountain on a longer, less steep climb. But when a man is not holding off and really wants to cum, he climbs that mountain fast, and furious, and steeply. If the build up is naturally more steep and intensity builds at a fever pitch it’s not surprisingly BG that the drop off would also be steep and somewhat crashing. Some do that more than others and certain times with the same man can be different depending on circumstances. But on balance women tend to climb slower and fall slower afterward, which also helps s why they are more likely to be multi-orgasmic. But men are more capable of hitting fast and hard and can crash just as quickly.

But I’ll also say that if a man does s excited enough (it’s in the mind), in good enough shape, and not exhausted before he starts that crash can be minimized. He can stay in the game, and he might just cum again without a real long refractory period. But for me that’s usually more mental than physical. You keep the excitement on a fever pitch for me, and I’m staying in it to win it.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

How do you think you physically feel to your wife when you do cum though? Or have you ever asked her what she feels you physically do?

I used to cum in her a few times a month after her moon time. Occasionally she would then move up on to me and have me lick her clean. Since menopause I have not cum inside of her and miss it. I think she does too. She had been with many men before me and almost always let them finish inside her and I have had her describe how it feels to have a man cum in her. She’s not an elaborate talker but hints at things. She seems to love the feeling of bringing a man to completion and speaks of the cock in her swelling and twitching when he does cum which turns her on. I’ll need to speak to her more about it, we’ve been expanding our erotic life lately so I will gather more information. It’s all very sexy. I’m looking forward to inseminating her again soon and collecting data on her thoughts. After she orgasms with me inside her she loves for me to go wild and fuck her hard until I pull out and cum onto her body. She has fucked me too numerous times and I love the feeling. I have been fucked by a few men and one shemale but have never been inseminated though it’s on my list of things to do before I leave this wild realm.

 

[UtilityCurve]

I read an article a while ago about this question. In the article, it discussed the biology of what’s going on.

There are chemical reactions I believe hormonal going on in the male body related to ejaculation.

The conclusion.

It’s absolutely normal and that Lady should quit yelling at the guys about falling asleep

Ha ha ha ha

I explain it to women this way: It's not as if the choice would be between falling asleep (the best sleep a man EVER has, BTW) and spending my the next half hour talking. If he had energy left, he'd get up and go play golf. Be grateful Nature has arranged for him to stay in bed with you, albeit out like a light; it could be much, much worse.

 

[kreemi_pi]

Yes, because that's actually brain cells shooting out of their dick.

 

[Kolejdayz]

Yes, because that's actually brain cells shooting out of their dick.

Perhaps someone's brain cell someday

 

[YourSecretDesires]

Not always. I've gotten erections again after cumming. All depends on the situation.

If after ejaculation, a different woman came into the room I'm sure I'd get hard and fuck her.

 

[LittleGreene]

I think every man is different but if we’re ’generalising’ in my experience a lot of men have this sudden rush of hormones after they’ve ejaculated that wipes them out. The tension and horniness they had when building up and then fucking suddenly disappears and they become incredibly satiated (not every men as I say). I will say that as my husband has got older this is much more common, when we first met he could often bounce back and continue.

Answering your other part - when I know he’s close I certainly feel like to want to squeeze it all out of him, and as he tenses and releases I’m certainly aware that I often tense as well (and if I’m on top, I squeeze and continue to ride)
I’ve had the leg shake a few times but not regularly

 

[lowcollar]

I often have mini orgasm aftershocks after the initial cum. I will go down on her anytime after I cum. I enjoy eating and wearing my own cum. But, more so, enjoy making her cum.

 

[Wanderg]

The only time my wife has ever compared me to her ex husband was in regards to this.

They were together from age 19 to 29. When we first had sex I was 30 or 31 and were in bed for two hours, fucking a good part of that time. After a few months we had a shorter session and she thought I should be ready for round 2 in a few minutes. I don’t recall the specifics of the conversation but it was apparent her ex was able to recover a lot quickly (although I don’t know after how long of a fuck).

I had to remind her of my age, but I still think she was disappointed.

 

[TinaG_2023]

I never expect a man to stay hard and keep on going after he's orgasmed. I'm actually glad that he has enjoyed the time and energy he spent with me and I have never complained about him not being enough even if I didn't orgasm.

If I'm still horny I'll wake his sorry ass up and tell him I want to fuck again!!

 

[Penus_Flytrap]

I think every man is different but if we’re ’generalising’ in my experience a lot of men have this sudden rush of hormones after they’ve ejaculated that wipes them out. The tension and horniness they had when building up and then fucking suddenly disappears and they become incredibly satiated (not every men as I say). I will say that as my husband has got older this is much more common, when we first met he could often bounce back and continue.

Answering your other part - when I know he’s close I certainly feel like to want to squeeze it all out of him, and as he tenses and releases I’m certainly aware that I often tense as well (and if I’m on top, I squeeze and continue to ride)
I’ve had the leg shake a few times but not regularly

Good to know. My legs get shaky most of the time, it seems, and I don't understand why. I mean it's not bothersome, I just didn't know what caused it or if I was losing blood flow to my legs or something.

 

[StrongMaster7]

Well, it may be all down to physiology, or maybe it’s also responding to social cues.

Once my wife comes, she is keen to get me to come asap. And once (20 minutes, start to finish) I do she collapses and begins “cleanup”. So, I follow suit. I know there’s no Act Two coming.

Once upon a time, I had a girlfriend who enjoyed coming multiple times and so when I came she would shift gears and feed me her tits knowing that always got me hard. A little moaning and I’d be back in the game, eventually totally hard. We could string together an hour or more of play like that.