Do all men always lose all of their energy after they ejaculate?

Nope. I always thought that was an excuse so if a guy didn’t finish pleasuring his lady before he came he didn’t have to finish her off. Or a cop out to not eat your own cum.
 
From my limited experiences, when a guy cums, they physically feel really intense, like their muscles stiffen or quiver, they pound harder and deeper, their grip gets tighter and then suddenly they just crash and their body relaxes as if their body suddenly fell asleep. They act as if they are too weak to move for a moment. In a way, I feel as if I just stole their energy, and it feels empowering. Now I'm not talking about them being exhausted from doing all the work, but I'm referring to the times when they didn't exhaust themselves, no sweating and not breathing that hard. So in those situations, is this a common physical response with most or all men? If not, what are the variations in which men physically react after ejaculation? How much of a difference in similar physiological responses from men have you experienced?

Likewise, I'm curious how other women physically respond to them ejaculating? I have this tendency that when I feel their “intensity” for lack of a better word, my legs tighten as if I can't help but to squeeze my thighs together, I attempt to lift my hips into them if they're on top or if I am, I tend to lean back and squat down more. Then afterward, my legs feel shaky. A friend of mine calls it “baby deer leg syndrome” but I'm curious how common those responses are and, what is your natural physiological response to feeling your partner cum?
So, the (main) limiting factor for guys, after we ejaculate, is the release of prolactin. Yeah, we expend a lot of energy pumping away and tensing up and all that, but we are motivated to make that exertion because of how good it feels fucking you girls. And it's not like your body changes when we cum, so logically the same activity that made us cum should still feel just as good afterwards. What gets in the way of us feeling that is prolactin (and other hormones, to a lesser extent). It disrupts the neurotransmitters that are necessary for erections, both physically and mentally. Our cocks feel both super sensitive and oddly numb (feels like it's from sensory overload, so too much feeling rather than not feeling enough). So the signals to our brains/nervous system aren't getting through, but even if the signals did get through, prolactin is also messing with the neurotransmitters that make us feel horny.

So yeah, we get a shot of endorphins with our orgasms, just like you girls. But we unfortunately also get a blast of a chemical that stops us from being multi-orgasmic... or even continuing to fuck (most of the time). There are medications and peptides that can combat the effects of prolactin, but nothing is perfect and there's no 'metabolic free lunch'. Most of them affect dopamine, not something you want to mess with on a long-term basis. Cabergoline and pramipexole are both dopamine agonists. Anecdotally, caber has a more powerful effect, but also more potential sides. If you're someone that tans, or would like to be more tan, look into Melanotan 2. I took it a couple of years ago because I got tired of burning after doing 20mins of yardwork in the summer lol. It worked great for making my melanocytes do their damn job and protect me from the sun, for once in my life. But I found out a (beneficial) side effect of taking it is more, and harder, erections... ones that also comeback (or never fully go away) after you cum. So you're ready for round 2 real quick, and probably round 3 and 4 depending on the day. Fair warning, I did notice that while I was able to start fucking again after cumming the first time, there was still some desensitization (instead of too much sensitivity) afterwards. So it wasn't as pleasurable as the first time around, when your cock can feel every bit of the sucking and fucking. But slightly desensitized sex is still sex :devilish:
 
I’m usually one and done, but I really focus on my wife and if she hasn’t cum herself I will lick her cum filled pussy until she has a leg shaking orgasm. If she doesn’t want me to lick her after, cuddles and kisses will suffice until I’m ready again in the morning…
 
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I lose my energy after a hot fuck session, yes. Lol

Hard to explain, but the buildup to orgasm feels like like this massive dam inside me building. All my muscles tense. My cock is aching and throbbing and dripping. Maybe even a sweat if we are going hard. The tension feels wonderful, but when I cum, ALL that energy shoots out of me in one concentrated location. It’s incredibly intense and feels incredible. Like someone poked a hole in my dam. But after that, the dam is empty and it takes awhile for it to fill back up.

Sometimes 15 minutes. Sometimes 30. Usually a few hours.

Just gotta let nature take its course.
It is called Post Coital Depression or en Francaise " le petit mort" [ the little death] . After ejaculation man turns off sex for awhile
 
Though it’s supposedly the opposite for men, I remain in an ecstatic place. If she hasn’t come yet, I’m devoted to that. If she has, I’m chatty, exuberant and seeking lots of kissing and skin-to-skin contact.

And despite being older, it’s almost always the case that after help her cum, I’m hard and ready for another orgasm (usually a handjob; I don’t come from blowjobs).
 
Loss of semen/testosterone/" Tejas " after orgasm / coitus/ masturbation robs a man 👨 of his erotic desire/ erection/ sexual energy for a period of time.
Younger guys bounce back faster. Older guyz' recovery time is loooonger.....
 
From my limited experiences, when a guy cums, they physically feel really intense, like their muscles stiffen or quiver, they pound harder and deeper, their grip gets tighter and then suddenly they just crash and their body relaxes as if their body suddenly fell asleep. They act as if they are too weak to move for a moment. In a way, I feel as if I just stole their energy, and it feels empowering. Now I'm not talking about them being exhausted from doing all the work, but I'm referring to the times when they didn't exhaust themselves, no sweating and not breathing that hard. So in those situations, is this a common physical response with most or all men? If not, what are the variations in which men physically react after ejaculation? How much of a difference in similar physiological responses from men have you experienced?

Likewise, I'm curious how other women physically respond to them ejaculating? I have this tendency that when I feel their “intensity” for lack of a better word, my legs tighten as if I can't help but to squeeze my thighs together, I attempt to lift my hips into them if they're on top or if I am, I tend to lean back and squat down more. Then afterward, my legs feel shaky. A friend of mine calls it “baby deer leg syndrome” but I'm curious how common those responses are and, what is your natural physiological response to feeling your partner cum?
Just in case that's why I like to give a Woman 4 or 5 orgasms with my Tounge before hand.
 
From personal no… not sure why but I can go for hours without losing energy or losing erection. I also seem to be able to pump cum pretty aggressively and regularly too
 
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