Divorce-proofing a marriage

[Kerali]

So, learned tonite of some friends I thought would never split up, and it got me to thinking. What do you think could make a marriage 100% divorce-proof? Is it honesty? Tolerance of each others kinks? Staying out of opposite sex friendships? What do YOU think?

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

So, learned tonite of some friends I thought would never split up, and it got me to thinking. What do you think could make a marriage 100% divorce-proof? Is it honesty? Tolerance of each others kinks? Staying out of opposite sex friendships? What do YOU think?

Live in sin.

 

[eyer]

What do you think could make a marriage 100% divorce-proof?

What a ridiculous question...

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

Did the friends split up? I can't wait for the story to conclude.

 

[Wings]

You make that hole deep enough and you'll never have to divorce.

 

[snugglestruggle]

So, learned tonite of some friends I thought would never split up, and it got me to thinking. What do you think could make a marriage 100% divorce-proof? Is it honesty? Tolerance of each others kinks? Staying out of opposite sex friendships? What do YOU think?

No Marriage, No Divorce. That's an overly simple solution but it works.


Aside from that I don't believe in soul mates so I'd never enter into a marriage under that premise. We meet people of varying degrees of compatibility . It's a numbers game so Choose wisely your less likely to get a divorce.

 

[smoothg103rd]

My grandfather and grandmother been married snice they was about 21 and still still married even tho he cheat on her every chance he gets and had a daughter cheating a couple of years ago so it's definitely tolerance but she stress a lot one morning he came home stayed out all night cheating he found her on the floor having a stroke whats the point staying married when there is no love there

 

[Dream59]

So, learned tonite of some friends I thought would never split up, and it got me to thinking. What do you think could make a marriage 100% divorce-proof? Is it honesty? Tolerance of each others kinks? Staying out of opposite sex friendships? What do YOU think?

Impossible.

 

[smoothg103rd]

Impossible.

Its not impossible it's people who actually stay married just got to be real love

 

[Bert Notorius]

i've been married 31 years last may. you just need:

the right amount of sex.
mutual respect.
a common goal.
a sense of humor.
a division of labor.
enough money to pay the bills.
not too much money to get into trouble.
separate careers.
being able to forgive.
stand up for each other.
a good and sturdy bed.
do stuff together.
do stuff apart.
recognize the final straw and don't take it.


should i go on or am i scaring everyone?

(mutually assured destruction doesn't hurt)

 

[HoHoBomb]

Voodoo

So, learned tonite of some friends I thought would never split up, and it got me to thinking. What do you think could make a marriage 100% divorce-proof? Is it honesty? Tolerance of each others kinks? Staying out of opposite sex friendships? What do YOU think?

voodoo
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[RobDownSouth]

C - > Windows - > System32 - > drivers - > etc - > hosts
add the following 2 lines to the bottom of the file

127.0.0.1 www.literotica.com
127.0.0.1 forum.literotica.com

Save the hosts file (no extension) and reboot.

Marriage saved!

 

[nowisthetime]

Mutual understanding
Open communication
Tolerance of each other's quirks, I know lots of folks like to pretend their shit doesn't stink but we all have our quirks
Lots and lots of passionate sex
Financial stability

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

My 41st anniversary is less than one month away.

I say START WITH GOOD INGREDIENTS.

Her parents were married 50 years, her sisters are each married 60 years.

 

[dolf]

you can't divorce proof marriage unless you're willing to have people trapped and unhappy. it's not a failure for two people to no longer be suited.

and this?

Staying out of opposite sex friendships?

in my opinion, that's just stupid. if people are going to cheat then they're going to cheat. restricting a person's friendships isn't being supportive of their emotional needs. it's a shitty thing to demand of a person you're supposed to love, trust and respect.

 

[smoothg103rd]

you can't divorce proof marriage unless you're willing to have people trapped and unhappy. it's not a failure for two people to no longer be suited.

and this? in my opinion, that's just stupid. if people are going to cheat then they're going to cheat. restricting a person's friendships isn't being supportive of their emotional needs. it's a shitty thing to demand of a person you're supposed to love, trust and respect.

U done with me?

 

[dolf]

bored of.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

you can't divorce proof marriage unless you're willing to have people trapped and unhappy. it's not a failure for two people to no longer be suited.

and this? in my opinion, that's just stupid. if people are going to cheat then they're going to cheat. restricting a person's friendships isn't being supportive of their emotional needs. it's a shitty thing to demand of a person you're supposed to love, trust and respect.

Nonsense. The pig always returns to its wallow.

 

[dolf]

Nonsense. The pig always returns to its wallow.

if you wash a pig, put it in a suit, sit it on a leather sofa and feed it caviar? it's still a pig. and if you marry a pig then nothing you do will prevent it from wallowing in shit as soon as your back is turned.

 

[CandiCame]

you can't divorce proof marriage unless you're willing to have people trapped and unhappy. it's not a failure for two people to no longer be suited.

and this? in my opinion, that's just stupid. if people are going to cheat then they're going to cheat. restricting a person's friendships isn't being supportive of their emotional needs. it's a shitty thing to demand of a person you're supposed to love, trust and respect.

I never understood why divorce is bad either. The duration of a marriage isn't really what we should judge it by. It should be judged by the quality of the relationship. Sometimes two people grow apart, decide that they no longer want to share their life, and get a no fault divorce. That doesn't mean the marriage was a failure, it means that it ran it's course and now it's over.

 

[CandiCame]

if you wash a pig, put it in a suit, sit it on a leather sofa and feed it caviar? it's still a pig. and if you marry a pig then nothing you do will prevent it from wallowing in shit as soon as your back is turned.

Goddamn it, I just looked through my harddrive, because conveniently I have a friend who has a pig, one of those housepigs, and that pig has a suit and it's goddamn adorable, and I THOUGHT I had a picture of it but I guess I don't and now I gotta go Google "pigs in suits" or I'm gonna be Jonesing all day. It has a dapper little sweatervest to. And a hoodie. With pockets. Like a pig has shit it has to carry around with it.

 

[dolf]

I never understood why divorce is bad either. The duration of a marriage isn't really what we should judge it by. It should be judged by the quality of the relationship. Sometimes two people grow apart, decide that they no longer want to share their life, and get a no fault divorce. That doesn't mean the marriage was a failure, it means that it ran it's course and now it's over.

I never understood why staying unhappily married for 60 years was an achievement to be celebrated, but society treats I as such.

 

[CandiCame]

I never understood why staying unhappily married for 60 years was an achievement to be celebrated, but society treats I as such.

I wouldn't know. The only person I can think of who's married is my brother, and that was like... 2 years ago? And I know I'd have killed him by now were I his wife. She's waaay too good for him.

 

[dolf]

Goddamn it, I just looked through my harddrive, because conveniently I have a friend who has a pig, one of those housepigs, and that pig has a suit and it's goddamn adorable, and I THOUGHT I had a picture of it but I guess I don't and now I gotta go Google "pigs in suits" or I'm gonna be Jonesing all day. It has a dapper little sweatervest to. And a hoodie. With pockets. Like a pig has shit it has to carry around with it.

do you have any urge to marry it though?

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

I never understood why staying unhappily married for 60 years was an achievement to be celebrated, but society treats I as such.

How about a 40 year job?

DOLF? Youre a butterfly.