Distance Domination-Support Thread

[KoPilot]

*giggles* I'm going to have hard enough time getting him to agree to get on a plane period, let alone someplace that warm. I think he'd melt. When they get into the 80's over there he complains that the heat is unbearable!

Try Palm Springs on 4th of July weekend! 120F+

(I'm scared of all the Vancouver rain, honestly. The lack of abundant sunny days is going to make me gruuumpy..)

 

[the captians wench]

Try Palm Springs on 4th of July weekend! 120F+

(I'm scared of all the Vancouver rain, honestly. The lack of abundant sunny days is going to make me gruuumpy..)

I love the rain. I love dark damp overcast days as well. I adored his weather, he apologized the entire time I was there and his mother wished I had come the week before when the weather was sunnier (or at least as sunny as it gets there!). I assured them both that I was very content with the weather I found there.

My area gets very humid. To the point where you feel like you're drinking the air almost. And we get up to 110 max, 97-101 is very common durring the summer. But then we also get below 0 durring the winter. He can't imagine either and wishes to experience neither. But my birthday would be a good time of year for him to visit. Late March. Not hot yet, not so cold, and the rainy time hasn't hit yet. Perfect time of year.

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

Sometimes a little reassurance is needed.

 

[Hisbeauty]

I am in shock. I got released today. I cannot believe it.

 

[EmpressFi]

I am in shock. I got released today. I cannot believe it.

I'm so sorry to hear that. It can be shocking when it happens

 

[ecstaticsub]

I am in shock. I got released today. I cannot believe it.

I am so sorry. I know cyber hugs don't help much but please know that I care

 

[KoPilot]

I love the rain. I love dark damp overcast days as well. I adored his weather, he apologized the entire time I was there and his mother wished I had come the week before when the weather was sunnier (or at least as sunny as it gets there!). I assured them both that I was very content with the weather I found there.

My area gets very humid. To the point where you feel like you're drinking the air almost. And we get up to 110 max, 97-101 is very common durring the summer. But then we also get below 0 durring the winter. He can't imagine either and wishes to experience neither. But my birthday would be a good time of year for him to visit. Late March. Not hot yet, not so cold, and the rainy time hasn't hit yet. Perfect time of year.

Oh how I wish I had your affinity for the overcast. xD

Also, below zero sounds awful! In my several years of experiencing New York winters, it's been frigid, but never dropped that low. Yikes.

 

[the captians wench]

Augh!

just Augh!

 

[Kikori]

Augh!

just Augh!

*Pounces again*? ;_;

What happened?

 

[the captians wench]

Just having a rather hard time with the distance as of late.

I hope it passes soon.

 

[KoPilot]

Just having a rather hard time with the distance as of late.

I hope it passes soon.

It will. -hugs-

 

[ecstaticsub]

There are times, like holiday weekends, where we are unable to speak by phone. We IM and email a bit but it gets so frustrating. Especially since I was on vacation with family all last week--which was truly wonderful--but I didn't get to speak to Daddy except for once.

Then now all we can do is IM and sometimes all the emoticons and explanations in the world can't accurately express tone of the written word sometime. Miscommunication, misinterpretation, and frustrated emotions are not a good mix. Especially when we both seem to be in stubborn, tired moods.

This is the only way to have both sides of my life and I couldn't have it any other way. I may want something a little different, but it would be impossible because others are involved. And those others are equally important to us.

So I suck it up and deal with it. But it does get frustrating.

It is great to have a thread like this to vent on

 

[KoPilot]

It's like a switch turned on.

S has always been my alpha male. It's what drew me to him in the first place like a moth to a flame. Or, I guess, if the moth and flame were chatting online for several months, and the flame was just very good at being himself through words.

We've had lots and lots of talks about my crazy, silly, goofy kinks over the months, and he embraced them as part of who I was and what I was all about. I carried on interacting with him knowing that he knew why I behaved certain ways, and it was great because he respected it. He'd never dated anyone like me before, though, so I knew there was some hesitation on his part despite the fact that he does VERY dom-like things in everyday goings-on. I was convinced that I'd have to acclimate him slowly to some of my fantasies, but I knew he'd come around sometime.

And then, seemingly out of nowhere, he dove headfirst into the scene and was wholly embracing the entire idea with me. This was a week ago. It was totally out of the blue! He was truly beginning to make the role his. And lemme tell you, talking to him on the phone every night this week has made me hornier than ever before.

So friday night I decided to fill out one of those BDSM lists. Partly for kicks, and partly so I could evaluate myself and see what other things I think I would and wouldn't like. I sent it to him, and he was all over it. During the phone call that night, he told me that he'd been downloading all sorts of shibari porn and is really excited to learn the ropes, among many other things. Near the end of the conversation, he was telling me all sorts of things that he wanted to do to me, and I'd replied with "Yes pls! ...or should I say, yes Sir?" So, needless to say, he wants me to call him Sir now. Not all the time, however, so I asked him to correct me if I don't address him as such when he wants me to.

He also has shown considerable interest in checking out fetish club nights and dungeons/play spaces in his area... that is, when I move up there, though.

Oh boy, I'm so excited. This is exactly the kind of thing that I've been slowly trying to get him used to, but I didn't expect to see him get this deep into it this quickly. My relationship has officially just gotten even more perfect than it was before.

 

[GoldunAngel]

i'm more of a lurker. But, i just wanted to say hello to everyone. There are so many different things and perspectives going on right now. i am happy for some of you and to the others "i feel you". It's been rough lately for me. i have made peace with some issues and just hope to mush on and make the best of it.
Hope everyone has a great day!

 

[ivantheterrible]

chrome collar, is your hair real? if so, i LOVE it.

i have a hard time dealing with long distance. i need my sub to be here with me at least maybe once a week , once a month, etc.. the whole , we are going to cyber for the rest of our lives just does not appeal to me. might as well jerk off over the phone. and that does not help me one bit.

 

[Miss Sixxy]

i'm more of a lurker. But, i just wanted to say hello to everyone. There are so many different things and perspectives going on right now. i am happy for some of you and to the others "i feel you". It's been rough lately for me. i have made peace with some issues and just hope to mush on and make the best of it.
Hope everyone has a great day!

It's been very rough for me lately as well. How far away are you from him and how often do you see him?

 

[GoldunAngel]

It's been very rough for me lately as well. How far away are you from him and how often do you see him?

Actually we haven't met, so that's part of it...lol. He's a few thousand miles away, so it takes a lot of planning. We've been together for under a year, so it's not that long either. But long enough to care.

I'm assuming you've met and see him more than I do atleast...

 

[Miss Sixxy]

Actually we haven't met, so that's part of it...lol. He's a few thousand miles away, so it takes a lot of planning. We've been together for under a year, so it's not that long either. But long enough to care.

I'm assuming you've met and see him more than I do atleast...

I've met him once. He's about 1000 miles away. We've been "together" for 16 months - but I definitely understand less than a year being long enough to care. We haven't been together physically since November of last year. Right now we have plans for a weekend in October.

Do you talk, text, email a lot? We usually talk at least once a day.

 

[GoldunAngel]

I've met him once. He's about 1000 miles away. We've been "together" for 16 months - but I definitely understand less than a year being long enough to care. We haven't been together physically since November of last year. Right now we have plans for a weekend in October.

Do you talk, text, email a lot? We usually talk at least once a day.

We text almost everyday and email. We don't talk as often as i'd like, but that's another story.. Wow, October must seem so far away. It's hard to get together when separate lives are being lived. At least you hear his voice everyday.

 

[Miss Sixxy]

We text almost everyday and email. We don't talk as often as i'd like, but that's another story.. Wow, October must seem so far away. It's hard to get together when separate lives are being lived. At least you hear his voice everyday.

Well, unfortunately, it's not his voice I hear every day, I just get to read his words. We can't talk very often either....ours is another story as well, separate lives and all
And yes, it's 84 days and counting.

 

[ecstaticsub]

i'm more of a lurker. But, i just wanted to say hello to everyone. There are so many different things and perspectives going on right now. i am happy for some of you and to the others "i feel you". It's been rough lately for me. i have made peace with some issues and just hope to mush on and make the best of it.
Hope everyone has a great day!

It's been very rough for me lately as well. How far away are you from him and how often do you see him?

Big hugs for both of you. I wish you well through your rough times.

We are hoping to get together before the end of the summer. At least now we live a train distance apart instead of a plane ride. We can be a little more spontaneous.

I need a visit soon, I am getting cranky

 

[Miss Sixxy]

Big hugs for both of you. I wish you well through your rough times.

We are hoping to get together before the end of the summer. At least now we live a train distance apart instead of a plane ride. We can be a little more spontaneous.

I need a visit soon, I am getting cranky

Hugs to you too. How romantic - a train ride. *sigh*

We almost had a chance this past May, but it was a little too "risky". He was just about ready to get in the car and drive 18 or 19 hours to get to me, as much as I wanted him to, we both knew it was crazy.

 

[KoPilot]

We will be in my bed for the first time, making out, in exactly one week from now. I need a good hard fuck like you wouldn't BELIEVE.

And also, good luck to you both, GoldunAngel and Sixxy! The LDR is a hard road, but the rewards are well worth the heartache as I'm sure you've found.

 

[Miss Sixxy]

We will be in my bed for the first time, making out, in exactly one week from now. I need a good hard fuck like you wouldn't BELIEVE.

And also, good luck to you both, GoldunAngel and Sixxy! The LDR is a hard road, but the rewards are well worth the heartache as I'm sure you've found.

One week!!?? Lucky, lucky!

I've always said, I would rather have this and the heartache than not to have him at all.

 

[Dr_James]

One week!!?? Lucky, lucky!

I've always said, I would rather have this and the heartache than not to have him at all.

And I would have you despite all the complications that our lives present.