Distance Domination-Support Thread

[SubKekiLee]

Yes, LM and I are very lucky. Even as we're damned to live apart we're fortunate to have days like the ones just past. (missing Him desperately right now)

I hope you get to see your Sir soon.

Well I am hoping for the early part of July unless I can convince him to come see me here at school.. which I am not sure I can do. BUT Ill try my damndest..

We talk everyday and Im almost every night although while I am away at this training program Ive been working/school at night and he is 3 hours ahead of me but we talk everyday.. We will make it no matter what we are celebrating 8 months together in 2 days.... YAY!

I know how you feel though cause for the last 7 months we have lived thousands of miles apart ( 2442 to be exact) and I know thats hard but when you love someone you MAKE It work..

Thanks for your thoughts and I know youll be good.. I know you miss him..

 

[Homburg]

The part I bolded--yep, that's for us, too. Just being able to talk while sitting next to each other about everyday stuff is so important and so wonderful.

I understand your excitement--have fun!

That's what I really dig about the longer visits. I don't feel so rushed, like I have to get X activity in, or have to reach a certain intensity level. We can relax and do useless time wasters like the three of us watching TV. I can't stand TV, but when it is the three of us together, it becomes a more worthwhile activity if only because it is so very normal.

 

[ecstaticsub]

I'm dropping. I wouldn't call it sub drop, just the natural turn of emotions as I transition back into everyday life. It's never been this delayed though. I am even having problems going back to the usual routine I have with him. It just leaves me frustrated and wanting more.


oh well....Time to just suck it up and get on with life. I have no time to wallow. I know my head will eventually adjust.

 

[rida]

I'm dropping. I wouldn't call it sub drop, just the natural turn of emotions as I transition back into everyday life. It's never been this delayed though. I am even having problems going back to the usual routine I have with him. It just leaves me frustrated and wanting more.


oh well....Time to just suck it up and get on with life. I have no time to wallow. I know my head will eventually adjust.

{{{hugs}}}

 

[Homburg]

I'm dropping. I wouldn't call it sub drop, just the natural turn of emotions as I transition back into everyday life. It's never been this delayed though. I am even having problems going back to the usual routine I have with him. It just leaves me frustrated and wanting more.


oh well....Time to just suck it up and get on with life. I have no time to wallow. I know my head will eventually adjust.

*hugs* from me as well, ES.

This is a feeling I know well.

 

[SubKekiLee]

I'm dropping. I wouldn't call it sub drop, just the natural turn of emotions as I transition back into everyday life. It's never been this delayed though. I am even having problems going back to the usual routine I have with him. It just leaves me frustrated and wanting more.


oh well....Time to just suck it up and get on with life. I have no time to wallow. I know my head will eventually adjust.

{{{hugs}}}}} Es I know how you feel.... Hope you will be okay.. If youneed anything I am here for you as always

 

[the captians wench]

I'm dropping. I wouldn't call it sub drop, just the natural turn of emotions as I transition back into everyday life. It's never been this delayed though. I am even having problems going back to the usual routine I have with him. It just leaves me frustrated and wanting more.


oh well....Time to just suck it up and get on with life. I have no time to wallow. I know my head will eventually adjust.

This is what I fear most about my up coming trip. It's going to be such a rush to finally be there, to get to do all of the things that we've talked about. Even the simple things like being able to really kiss him goodnight or goodmorning or just out of no where *giggles*. But after 9 days with him, live and in the flesh the plain ride home is going to feel so lonesome.

 

[ecstaticsub]

This is what I fear most about my up coming trip. It's going to be such a rush to finally be there, to get to do all of the things that we've talked about. Even the simple things like being able to really kiss him goodnight or goodmorning or just out of no where *giggles*. But after 9 days with him, live and in the flesh the plain ride home is going to feel so lonesome.

yeah...but the visiit is still sooo worth it. And really at least for me the drop doesn't last long. We get back into routine and life goes on, but even better. Added bonus-phone sex is much more fun when there are actual memories to visualize as opposed to just fantasies.

 

[the captians wench]

yeah...but the visiit is still sooo worth it. And really at least for me the drop doesn't last long. We get back into routine and life goes on, but even better. Added bonus-phone sex is much more fun when there are actual memories to visualize as opposed to just fantasies.

I have never had a relationship where I was more than 20 mins away from the guy, and this is our first visit, so there are a lot of things that I just don't know how I will react to. Then ofcourse you have all of the expectations that you build up in your mind. I'm working very hard not to have my mind set on how things will be, what surprizes he'll have for me, and how the trip will go over all and just focas on the fact that I will finally be there...but it's really hard. And then I start to think about how hard it will be to leave him. I know I shouldn't think about such things, but it seems almost impossible not to let my mind float to that.

You know, we never did much phone sex before. He used to say that he just wasn't into it. But over the last 6 months or so we've done quite a bit, at least for us anyway. And he's even started to talk back. *giggles* Nothing makes me weak in the knees like the sound of his voice.

 

[ImpishSeraph]

How often do you all communicate with your D/s?

 

[the captians wench]

How often do you all communicate with your D/s?

Depends on our schedules.

Our main form of comunication is IM. There is a 5 hour time difference between us. If I'm working closings then I don't get to speak to him unless he pops on when he gets up from work and I've just gotten home, but even that is iffy because some times I get out late. Then there are family functions, storms that knock out service, unexpected meetings or shindigs. It just depends.

Sometimes we have a nice run where we talk everyday. Other times we've gone a week even two or three with nothing more than offliners to each other. We've learned to trust each other and adapt to the long periods apart and enjoy the time we have just all that much more.

Life is always going to get in the way, whether you live next door, in the next city, or an ocean apart. There is always going to be something that comes up. The important part is making good use of the time you do have. Enjoying each other and not dwelling on how little of it you get.

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

How often do you all communicate with your D/s?

Me and My little girl talk everyday. We usually text or talk on the phone throughout the day and always make sure to talk before we go to bed at night.

Which considering the situation we are in is REALLY impressive.

 

[goodgirlfl]

How often do you all communicate with your D/s?

We keep in touch by email almost everyday, and chat online when we can. Any time that we get to spend together is so treasured and cherished.

 

[EmpressFi]

I'm dropping. I wouldn't call it sub drop, just the natural turn of emotions as I transition back into everyday life. It's never been this delayed though. I am even having problems going back to the usual routine I have with him. It just leaves me frustrated and wanting more.


oh well....Time to just suck it up and get on with life. I have no time to wallow. I know my head will eventually adjust.

*hugs* I know and dread that feeling, as even now, I try and get ready...

How often do you all communicate with your D/s?

I am on IM with him from the moment I wake up until we go to bed, then we're on the phone about an hour before we go to sleep.. and that's every day

And tomorrow I'm flying to where he lives for a 4 day weekend

 

[SubKekiLee]

How often do you all communicate with your D/s?

Well for us NORMALLY we speak on the phone daily and then Im at night to say goodnight but Ive been away at school for the last 2 weeks with an opposite schedule than him... SIGH but hopefully soon we will be living closer to one another then I will get to see him more often and prolly speak to him more often except that my job involves travel so who knows.. Sometimes we have gone a day without talking but we both trust one another... explictly and thats the best part.....

 

[Homburg]

And tomorrow I'm flying to where he lives for a 4 day weekend

Have fun, Fi!

 

[myinnerslut]

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[EmpressFi]

weekend was great.. I'm back home now. Next visit will be Labor Day weekend..

I'm already sad..

 

[Homburg]

Fiercely.

Always.

 

[ImpishSeraph]

If everything works out, I'll be leaving wednesday for a 4th of july visit It will only be for 3 days, but it's better than not going.

 

[ataxia.girl]

Uncle Jack!

i just have to tell someone!!! i am going to visit my Uncle Jack on July 14th for 4 whole days!!!!!

soooooooooooo happy to not be an orphan anymore!

 

[SubKekiLee]

I am finally done with SCHOOL.. YAY! I made it.. and to top it off I got stationed VERY VERY Close to SIR... I am enthralled...

 

[ecstaticsub]

I am finally done with SCHOOL.. YAY! I made it.. and to top it off I got stationed VERY VERY Close to SIR... I am enthralled...

That's great news! Congratulations.

 

[ecstaticsub]

i just have to tell someone!!! i am going to visit my Uncle Jack on July 14th for 4 whole days!!!!!

soooooooooooo happy to not be an orphan anymore!

Have a wonderful time

 

[ecstaticsub]

weekend was great.. I'm back home now. Next visit will be Labor Day weekend..

I'm already sad..

Big <<<<HUGS>>>>