Distance Domination-Support Thread

[EmpressFi]

WoooHooo I might actually be able to see Daddy in 2 weeks. It has been such a long time since we last got together. I'm too afraid to really get my hopes up just in case something falls through. But I need this visit desperately.

*hugs* less than a month to go.. it always feels so good saying that... 24 days.. we're both so excited...

Welcome PaganRN, This is indeed the right place. Master and I have been together for just over 18 months and still going strong. My husband and I are trying to convince him to move with us to Cleveland.. but logistics just arent there for it to happen yet.. yet.. (I remain optimistic)

 

[KayKat]

WoooHooo I might actually be able to see Daddy in 2 weeks. It has been such a long time since we last got together. I'm too afraid to really get my hopes up just in case something falls through. But I need this visit desperately.

Congrats ecstaticsub..I will keep my fingers crossed for you that you will get to see your Daddy in a couple weeks!

 

[myinnerslut]

hey all. im just checking in.

its great to wake up in the same zip code, let alone the same house, as Master and viv. i cant shake the looming knowledge that in a short time ill be back in MY for who knows how long without seeing them again. whay does the premonition of the bad have to taint the good?

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

Me and my little girl just celebrated our 6 month anniversary.

It really feels like so much longer. It has been the best 6 months of my life.

 

[KayKat]

Me and my little girl just celebrated our 6 month anniversary.

It really feels like so much longer. It has been the best 6 months of my life.

Congratulations to the both of you Daddy2..May you have many more months and years together

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

Congratulations to the both of you Daddy2..May you have many more months and years together

Thanks.

I'm sure we will.

 

[SubKekiLee]

Headed for our 8 months and now today i leave to see him.. HOORAY for me... 12 hours until I leave to see him.. I am so excited.. and so is he last night he told me 44 hours and counting until I see you ..

Congrats Daddy2, keep chugging along it will all pay off in the long run and estatic.. Ill keep my fingers crossed for you ..

 

[ImpishSeraph]

I have a question...

If a Dom gets feelings for his sub, does he usually want to stop the relation?

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

I have a question...

If a Dom gets feelings for his sub, does he usually want to stop the relation?

I would hope that is why the relationship was started in the first place because both sub and Dom had feelings for each other.

I guess if the Dom is strictly in a teacher/mentor role then I could see them stopping the relationship once the feelings started.

Otherwise D/s has every bit the same feelings, emotions, etc. as any vanilla relationship.

 

[Homburg]

WoooHooo I might actually be able to see Daddy in 2 weeks. It has been such a long time since we last got together. I'm too afraid to really get my hopes up just in case something falls through. But I need this visit desperately.

That's great news!! I am hoping for you, ES

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hey all. im just checking in.

its great to wake up in the same zip code, let alone the same house, as Master and viv. i cant shake the looming knowledge that in a short time ill be back in MY for who knows how long without seeing them again. whay does the premonition of the bad have to taint the good?

I'm just concentrating on the first part of this. The second part is not something I want to think about.



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Me and my little girl just celebrated our 6 month anniversary.

It really feels like so much longer. It has been the best 6 months of my life.

Congratulations, brother.

 

[EmpressFi]

hey all. im just checking in.

its great to wake up in the same zip code, let alone the same house, as Master and viv. i cant shake the looming knowledge that in a short time ill be back in MY for who knows how long without seeing them again. whay does the premonition of the bad have to taint the good?

I struggle with this as well, you could ask Master. Usually sometime on Sunday, it hits me that I'm leaving the next day, and I start to cry. I try and be quiet as he's usually still sleeping, but I fail at being quiet and he already knows... and I feel him pull my head back by my hair until I'm leaning back against his chest and hear him whisper in his deep, domly lover voice..

"Oh no you dont. You're not allowed to cry until you're on the plane, until then, time does not exist"

Doesnt mean I still dont get sniffly... but I do feel your pain and I'm here with ears if you ever want to vent ~ that goes for all three of ya.

I have a question...

If a Dom gets feelings for his sub, does he usually want to stop the relation?

I would hope not. Master and I love each other deeply and it just adds another facet to our relationship

 

[ImpishSeraph]

I struggle with this as well, you could ask Master. Usually sometime on Sunday, it hits me that I'm leaving the next day, and I start to cry. I try and be quiet as he's usually still sleeping, but I fail at being quiet and he already knows... and I feel him pull my head back by my hair until I'm leaning back against his chest and hear him whisper in his deep, domly lover voice..

"Oh no you dont. You're not allowed to cry until you're on the plane, until then, time does not exist"

Doesnt mean I still dont get sniffly... but I do feel your pain and I'm here with ears if you ever want to vent ~ that goes for all three of ya.



I would hope not. Master and I love each other deeply and it just adds another facet to our relationship

thanks, I understand what you are saying. I'm hoping not too. I have never talked about it to anyone. I would go more in depth but do not like it out in the open.

 

[Homburg]

I struggle with this as well, you could ask Master. Usually sometime on Sunday, it hits me that I'm leaving the next day, and I start to cry.

I get hit with this too. When I visit, it is usually saturday night. She's asleep and I putter around the room not wanting to go to sleep. If I go to sleep, I am acknowledging that the visit is essentially over, as much of the next day will be spent driving. I usually spend the time getting things packed up and straight, so the next morning is easy and we can hang out in bed a bit longer.

This topic is depressing

 

[EmpressFi]

I get hit with this too. When I visit, it is usually saturday night. She's asleep and I putter around the room not wanting to go to sleep. If I go to sleep, I am acknowledging that the visit is essentially over, as much of the next day will be spent driving. I usually spend the time getting things packed up and straight, so the next morning is easy and we can hang out in bed a bit longer.

This topic is depressing

*hugs* sorry babe.. didnt mean to bring you down..wouldnt do that for the world

 

[Homburg]

*hugs* sorry babe.. didnt mean to bring you down..wouldnt do that for the world

Nah, it's been on my mind too, Fi. It's not your fault.

 

[LMs_ds]

LM has two things He tells me consistently when we're finally together again.

The first is "There's time" when i want/need everything at once. There is never enough time when our days together are limited and i will always want to scream when He says it - but i don't. He does it to slow me down and remind me to savor because to not savor every moment would be a waste.

Then, when it's time to part He says...

"Celebrate, don't mourn."

Somehow it helps keep everything in perspective. Remembering what we have had and not crying for what we can't have makes the walk away from Him a little easier. That and knowing that if He could change the circumstances and keep me with Him all the time, He would.

Two weeks until He touches me again.

 

[Homburg]

See, when MIS is down for those reasons, I say the same sort of thing. That stuff doesn't work when _I_ am down though =P

 

[myinnerslut]

See, when MIS is down for those reasons, I say the same sort of thing. That stuff doesn't work when _I_ am down though =P

a-ha! i see how you are with your double standards

 

[Sexualinnocent]

Master is wonderful and a great Dom...but damn i want to meet Him soon.

~sigh~

 

[EmpressFi]

a-ha! i see how you are with your double standards

I'm beginning to think that this double-standard thing, in relation to this particular situation..is a man thing

 

[kinkyknickers]

I concur!

 

[sinnocence]

Thanks.

I'm sure we will.

Ohhhh, we will. We definitely will.

 

[Sexualinnocent]

i care so much about my Dom but think it is hard to be a long distance sub.

 

[KayKat]

i care so much about my Dom but think it is hard to be a long distance sub.

It is hard but if you care for him so you will make it work.

 

[SubKekiLee]

After week here in DC on business these next 4-6 weeks are gonna be hell as I am going away to school and have to be focused to make myself proud and him... But we did spend sometime together and it was absolutely amazing.. he just left after an afternoon of fun and time together.. Geez Ill miss him...<3 but we will still talk daily and the next time we see one another will all the more sweeter ..