Distance Domination-Support Thread

[DomWharfsBitch]

I'm getting promoted and opening a brand new mcd's at the end of may. I'm very excited aobut it because it means that I'll have the money to travel like I want to. Also this new store is going to be state of the art, so all the new stuff is exciting as well.

Oh that is great wench..Congratulations and good luck to you!

 

[myinnerslut]

I'm getting promoted and opening a brand new mcd's at the end of may. I'm very excited aobut it because it means that I'll have the money to travel like I want to. Also this new store is going to be state of the art, so all the new stuff is exciting as well.

YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[shy slave]

Again Shy Slave I found all of your post extremely useful, but this part in particular rings bells with me. Having a network of friends would be vital to my long term happiness, especially with family so far away.

Even though me moving there would be way off and is by no means decided(we would have to see if we actually get on first! lol), its really invaluable to consider these things.
I suppose the difficulty for me is how I go about making those friends without actually being there and as Australia is so far away from me its not somewhere I could visit regularly...my finances would prevent that. Thankfully I have just found out that someone I know through work has moved there, so I already know one person lol! I think I would arrange to meet up with her when I go out to visit and I guess the rest I will make through a job.
But again thats important to realise as in practical terms it probably means that in the short term I would be quite lonely as friendships can take a little while to develop....

I have thought a lot about things like this and what I would do work wise.
I sometimes think that I think too much, but really its that I like to be prepared for various senarios.

Hi Minx,

I was at a loss at the end of last year wondering how on earth to meet people outside of his family and friends in Denmark.

Then I realised the most obvious way....******* lol.

I googled for yahoo groups of people living in DK but who were not Danish.

I found several groups and got chatting, much more simple than I had appreciated

 

[lil_slave_rose]

I realize that.. i guess i should have asked for some of your initial experiences with LDMSR.. i have been reading and so far havent read anything like that.. I CAN question him.. i just spend more time carefully wording my questions than I would someone else.. this is a precursor.. he isnt my Master..yet... I am trying to be careful with trusting to soon...

thanks 4 the response

if He's not your Master yet, then why are you scared to talk to Him about such things? i mean, if he's going to get upset because you ask too many questions, that's a HUGE red flag and i'd run as fast as you can. why are you worried about how you 'word the questions' with Him?? also, there are lots of experiences laid out here on this thread....

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Do any of u have relationships outside of your LDMSR's?

How is that working for u? Does your S.O know?
What does your Master think of your S/O?

Nope, P is my one and only. but i know that there are others here who have spouses or 'others' outside of the M/s LDR .....

 

[lil_slave_rose]

By precursor.. i meant i am relearning.. learning how to speak more respectfully.. i am not a rampant ass or anything in "life" im just a cheeky bitch myself.. im VERY sarcastic all the time.. i always have a "cute" comment..this will not do...so..when i am speaking with him now.. i have decided to think b4 i speak.. sometimes shyt just flys with me is all.. lol..we communicate alot..and i speak freely..just not assed out anymore.. if u get my drift.. bc he has already informed me that if i was his.. i would already be in line for some discipline.
I have a killer headache and i am trying to get as much out by saying as little as possible bc my brain literally hurts.. lo.. .i will come back when i am feeling better..

see, this is why i'm glad that P, does not want to change the core of who i am. i am a smart ass ALL of the time and i give Him shit ALL of the time, but i DO know my boundaries and i do know when i'm pushing it too far....maybe that's the difference, but if i didn't feel like i could come to Him with questions because i had to worry about how i was wording them, He just wouldn't be the right person for me......

 

[FurryFury]

Great thread. I've been involved in a LD D/s relationship for over 7 years. And to the same Master. We live about 2,000 miles apart. We each have our own lives, family, jobs, etc. Still, we find time to enjoy each other. We do get together in person when we can. We email some. Mostly we talk on the phone. I use my home phone and he uses my cell. That way we can talk all we want (24/7) for just $35 a month. Usually, 3 or 4 nights a week, we have our alone time (laughter/sex time) that lasts for 2 or 3 hours. Amazingly, we still have enough to talk about after all these years. Though, we've had to be very creative. It may seem like a strange arrangement for many people, but what we have with each other, enhances our lives.

This sounds wonderful and gives me a little more hope for a long lasting online D/s. We are much the same it seems.

Fury

 

[tenedaveslilslut]

Hello all..Hope that you had a good weekend..

LS...I hate that you still have not heard from your Master..I hope that you will before the night is out as i know you are worrying yourself sick.

Evening DWB....no here it is after 10pm and i have still heard nothing. How am i ever going to get any sleep tonight?

 

[tenedaveslilslut]

I can understand that. And a movie would also be a good idea. The thing is that you do need to be taking care of yourself durring this time. I'm sure your master would not be happy knowing that his property was not well maintained durring this trying time. I've been there, many times, more times than I'd like so I do understand what you're going thru. I just also know that it can really take a nasty toll on your mind and body to do nothing but fret.

Well the movie didn't take my mind off of much. There was a scene in the movie where the woman unbuttons her blouse to show her date the bra she's wearing and then removes her panties, balls them up and tosses them to him. All i could think about was fantasizing that scene with Master and me.

At 7am Monday morning it will be 2 days since i spoke with Master last. i hope and pray he will be online in the morning.

 

[intothewoods]

At 7am Monday morning it will be 2 days since i spoke with Master last. i hope and pray he will be online in the morning.

I'm just so sorry. I hope everything is okay.

 

[FurryFury]

Fury, methinks we have a whole lot in common.

*hug*

Fury

 

[tenedaveslilslut]

I'm just so sorry. I hope everything is okay.

Thank you. i hope you are right.

 

[FurryFury]

Do any of u have relationships outside of your LDMSR's?

How is that working for u? Does your S.O know?
What does your Master think of your S/O?

Yes, I'm married.

It works well for me most of the time. The key issue is having enough time for me which has been in short supply lately.

Yes, my husband knows.

I think, my Master thinks my husband is a good man who loves me a lot and well.

Fury

 

[FurryFury]

Hello all..Hope that you had a good weekend..

LS...I hate that you still have not heard from your Master..I hope that you will before the night is out as i know you are worrying yourself sick.

intheknow so glad that your Master is back! I know you missed him!!

Wench may I ask what kind of store you are opening?

Welcome nikkidarling..This is the best thread around.

As for your question I am only in a relationship with my Master and no one else...Don't have the need nor want for someone else....He is my one and only..

Hope everyone has a good night...

I had a good time with my nephews yesterday..Today master had a delicious task for me and I loved it so! Had a wonderful time performing for him and then the reward was awesome!

I'm glad you had a good weekend!

Fury

 

[FurryFury]

Thank you. i hope you are right.

I hope you hear from him soon.

Fury

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Grumbles

 

[lil_slave_rose]

Grumbles

why are You grumbling, Love?

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

I'm glad you had a good weekend!

Fury

Thanks Fury..I hope that you did too!

 

[tenedaveslilslut]

thank you everyone for all your support...i just heard from Master and my worst fears were almost realized...but thank god, not completely...i was right, i KNEW something was terribly wrong...he told me he was hit by a car and knocked off his bike unconcious and was taken to the hospital and spent the night and his cell phone was crushed in the accident so he could not get my number from it to call me...but he has now and he is alive and well. god i love that man and would be so lost without him.

 

[intothewoods]

thank you everyone for all your support...i just heard from Master and my worst fears were almost realized...but thank god, not completely...i was right, i KNEW something was terribly wrong...he told me he was hit by a car and knocked off his bike unconcious and was taken to the hospital and spent the night and his cell phone was crushed in the accident so he could not get my number from it to call me...but he has now and he is alive and well. god i love that man and would be so lost without him.

Yikes! Well, so glad he's okay and now you've heard from him. You poor thing. You must be completely exhausted. So glad he's okay.

 

[tenedaveslilslut]

Yikes! Well, so glad he's okay and now you've heard from him. You poor thing. You must be completely exhausted. So glad he's okay.

you and me both and yes i am exhausted...so much in fact i had to postpone an interview today because i feared falling asleep at the wheel on my way there...it is a half hour drive away.

 

[minx1]

thank you everyone for all your support...i just heard from Master and my worst fears were almost realized...but thank god, not completely...i was right, i KNEW something was terribly wrong...he told me he was hit by a car and knocked off his bike unconcious and was taken to the hospital and spent the night and his cell phone was crushed in the accident so he could not get my number from it to call me...but he has now and he is alive and well. god i love that man and would be so lost without him.

*hugs* thank god he's ok tdls. So glad he is and that you heard from him. You should try and get some much needed shut eye now

 

[tenedaveslilslut]

*hugs* thank god he's ok tdls. So glad he is and that you heard from him. You should try and get some much needed shut eye now

oh i will...trust me...but as i was just telling a friend...i might go to the gym first...then tanning...or tanning then the gym come home take a shower and then sleep...i will sleep so much better after a shower

 

[minx1]

oh i will...trust me...but as i was just telling a friend...i might go to the gym first...then tanning...or tanning then the gym come home take a shower and then sleep...i will sleep so much better after a shower

Yeah probably a good idea to go to the gym too...get rid of some of the pent up emotions! I bet you are so relieved eh

Try and relax now and enjoy your day

 

[tenedaveslilslut]

Yeah probably a good idea to go to the gym too...get rid of some of the pent up emotions! I bet you are so relieved eh

Try and relax now and enjoy your day

Exactly...and yes...i am VERY relieved. i can go on to relax and enjoy my day now