Distance Domination-Support Thread

[myinnerslut]

Master came up to visit last weekend. we went away to a hotel so i packed my suitcase. as of now, said suitcase is still sitting on the floor of my room. unpacked.

i have been avoiding unpacking for days without knowing why and it finally hit me today. i dont want the visit to be over. i dont want to close the weekend up and instead am dragging it out through the week (i dont pretend this is anything except strange). it sounds silly, and impractical as its taking up space in my room, but the idea of unpacking and being by myself again is just too much. so it sits.

Master suggested a compromise so i dont have to leave the bag on my floor, essentially taking up all the walking room. he suggested i unpack, but leave in some things for the next visit. shirt, a skirt, some makeup i wont use between now and then, and keeping th bag in the hall instead of my room. this way im prepping for the next visit instead of dragging out the one thats over.

 

[Adakgirl]

So sorry to hear that wench, try to keep your spirits up.

innerslut how can it be over if you have it in your head? That weekend is yours to keep forever, it can't be over...see what I mean?

 

[KayKat]

Getting more excited as the time comes closer for Master and I...We had a very intense scene last night that was so what I look forward to. I won't go into details but I could feel everything he was saying he was doing and could mentally see the places it was going to leave.

I look so forward to kneeling before Master, crawling on my hands and knees before him. I know that it is going to hurt like hell when he beats me the first time but this is what I have wanted all my life and he is the one that is going to fulfill that need in me becoming his slave body and soul...

 

[the captians wench]

Master came up to visit last weekend. we went away to a hotel so i packed my suitcase. as of now, said suitcase is still sitting on the floor of my room. unpacked.

i have been avoiding unpacking for days without knowing why and it finally hit me today. i dont want the visit to be over. i dont want to close the weekend up and instead am dragging it out through the week (i dont pretend this is anything except strange). it sounds silly, and impractical as its taking up space in my room, but the idea of unpacking and being by myself again is just too much. so it sits.

Master suggested a compromise so i dont have to leave the bag on my floor, essentially taking up all the walking room. he suggested i unpack, but leave in some things for the next visit. shirt, a skirt, some makeup i wont use between now and then, and keeping th bag in the hall instead of my room. this way im prepping for the next visit instead of dragging out the one thats over.

I was back in the states mid october....my bags were unpacked mid January.

I just couldn't deal with it, couldn't deal with the trip being over, so I talked myself into believing that it wouldn't be long enough that I would be here to require me to unpack.

No it's not strange.

 

[Sexualinnocent]

i also understand MIS...

It is hard when you look forward to something, and then it is over...i first met Sir a few months ago, and the weekend was over way too soon. i am the furthest from Him and it is hard, but W/we do what W/we can (sorry He is a stickler for protocol).

i understand how you all feel. i have not heard from Sir for a few days as He is really ill.

 

[myinnerslut]

i understand how you all feel. i have not heard from Sir for a few days as He is really ill.

*hug*

i hope he is feeling better soon

 

[Sexualinnocent]

Thank you darlin'....the antibiotics and the painkillers should be helping...i just know He likes to be left alone when sick...and i miss Him.

 

[Lady_Fiona]

I have been so spoilt this weekend. Daddy spent 4 hours with me on Saturday night online and on cam and then yesterday I had constant texts from morning to evening. It was wonderful. Just what I needed.

Now back to Monday morning and reality bites.

Never mind, only just over a month to go.

 

[Irish_Daddy]

My brat

As mentioned above, my Brat and I have had a particularly good weekend. I joined Lit as she told me about this thread and I wanted to see what it was all about. She is quite right when she tells me that you are all very supportive of each other and I am pleased she has found somewhere to be.

I am very proud of you my Brat, but as with all brats, you will reap the punishments of your button pushing

I have been so spoilt this weekend. Daddy spent 4 hours with me on Saturday night online and on cam and then yesterday I had constant texts from morning to evening. It was wonderful. Just what I needed.

Now back to Monday morning and reality bites.

Never mind, only just over a month to go.

ECTO GAMMET

 

[kittenartist]

First: *hugs to wenchie* Hope it all works out. And if you do end up waiting longer, well, you have proven you are strong enough to handle to wait. You amaze me, truly.


So, things are getting really good and comfortable again with my bunny boy. Our dynamic is still a little wonky. I think it is because we are talking, compromising, and debating how the poly thing works -- I need to make sure he is comfortable but it feels so much like asking permission that it irks me greatly. I know some people could argue that as the one in charge I could just tell him it will be thus and so and you will just live with it... but it is important to me that he feels safe and secure.

But things are progressing in positive ways. I officially have a second boy. He is not local either but he is a great deal closer than my bunny. Same country. Same state! Heh, he is four hours away. He is coming for his first visit next weekend. I am all wrapped up in the excited nervousness right now. Excited to finally see this sweet lil perv that makes me smile so much. And nervous... well, nervous because I always worry that I am just amazingly photogenic and that in person I will not be as gorgeous as he expects.

 

[Mistress_Belladonna]

Hello to all on this very intriguing and exciting thread! I'm very new to the Dom/sub world and not even sure if I'm a true Dom, but am very open to this new desire to please my new playmate with Domination. I've had fantasies of being Dominant in my own way, but have never had an opportunity to express until very recently with an extremely sensuous sub I've met here on Lit. We've had the MOST exciting phone encounters I've ever had that actually have been as good as most personal encounters I've indulged in! Meaning... this guy IS FRIGGIN' HOT!!!

I'm interested in indulging further and learning everything I can to be the best Dom I can be! (Sheeeesh! I sound like an Army comercial! LOL)

I would love to chat or PM with any of you interesting, lovely people who wants to share their insights and I'm looking forward to catching up on this thread!

 

[myinnerslut]

Hello to all on this very intriguing and exciting thread! I'm very new to the Dom/sub world and not even sure if I'm a true Dom, but am very open to this new desire to please my new playmate with Domination. I've had fantasies of being Dominant in my own way, but have never had an opportunity to express until very recently with an extremely sensuous sub I've met here on Lit. We've had the MOST exciting phone encounters I've ever had that actually have been as good as most personal encounters I've indulged in! Meaning... this guy IS FRIGGIN' HOT!!!

I'm interested in indulging further and learning everything I can to be the best Dom I can be! (Sheeeesh! I sound like an Army comercial! LOL)

I would love to chat or PM with any of you interesting, lovely people who wants to share their insights and I'm looking forward to catching up on this thread!

welcome to the thread, feel free to jump in or share anything. its nice to see new faces (not that im tired of any of the old faces )

 

[Irish_Daddy]

MY Brat

Well, my brat, I see you have been busy, as always, well I suppose a change is nice, i know you will get that brat. I'm counting the days, until I get you hold you and also teach you some manners, Manner that you dearly need to be taught.

Hugs and Kises.

 

[Jenny6565]

Hello, my name is jenny and I'm a sub. I was reading through some threads and stumbled onto here and I must admit I love the attitude of the thread as a whole. I feel like coming for advice and to share, I hope that is ok?

I met my Master a while back, and we will be meeting verrry soon. I am so excited I can barely contain myself. That being said, I'm incredibly new to everything, and have not experienced anything yet, whereas he has been doing this for years. My only goal is his happiness and love, and I am nervous about actually meeting and what I should do and how I should act. It all comes very natural to me, but I'm afraid I might be TOO shy.

Also, he lives up north and I am down south, and we will not always be able to see each other very often at all, and I am reading through and wondering how all of you manage. We talk and text (also my FAVE ) message and email, but i've never even done a long-distance relationship for very long, let alone of this type.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated! thanks, and have a great day or night!

 

[the captians wench]

First: *hugs to wenchie* Hope it all works out. And if you do end up waiting longer, well, you have proven you are strong enough to handle to wait. You amaze me, truly.


So, things are getting really good and comfortable again with my bunny boy. Our dynamic is still a little wonky. I think it is because we are talking, compromising, and debating how the poly thing works -- I need to make sure he is comfortable but it feels so much like asking permission that it irks me greatly. I know some people could argue that as the one in charge I could just tell him it will be thus and so and you will just live with it... but it is important to me that he feels safe and secure.

But things are progressing in positive ways. I officially have a second boy. He is not local either but he is a great deal closer than my bunny. Same country. Same state! Heh, he is four hours away. He is coming for his first visit next weekend. I am all wrapped up in the excited nervousness right now. Excited to finally see this sweet lil perv that makes me smile so much. And nervous... well, nervous because I always worry that I am just amazingly photogenic and that in person I will not be as gorgeous as he expects.

*huggles*

I'm glad things are working out for you. You are right, there are people who will think that you should throw down the PYL card and say "this is how it's going to be", but that doesn't work for every one, nor every situation. I beleive most people hear are happier talking to all parts involved in their poly house and keeping all of those parts happy and informed. A happy slave works harder, that philosophy.

My mom told me that my brother and his brood are coming up for a visit in June. I looked at her and said "Oh that'll be a good time " and she didn't understand my sarcasm. Then I reminded her "remember how grumpy I was the first month I came back" and she quickly added "a little less grumpy than you will be if you don't get to go"....Exactly.

But I'm not as worried aboout it. Insted I've been thinking about how much nicer a trip we could have if we had those extra months to plan and save. He told me he'd make it up to me if I didn't get to go this time. I told him he didn't have to, but I'm making a travel itenerary for every castle I can find in the lower edge of the country, just in case.

Mean while he hasn't missed a weekday morning yet to send me a text. Except this morning. This morning he CALLED me to wish me happy birthday. Only thing better than waking up to a text from him is waking up and hearing his voice. Even if it was just a two minute call he snuck off to make while he is at work.

 

[ecstaticsub]

Hello, my name is jenny and I'm a sub. I was reading through some threads and stumbled onto here and I must admit I love the attitude of the thread as a whole. I feel like coming for advice and to share, I hope that is ok?

I met my Master a while back, and we will be meeting verrry soon. I am so excited I can barely contain myself. That being said, I'm incredibly new to everything, and have not experienced anything yet, whereas he has been doing this for years. My only goal is his happiness and love, and I am nervous about actually meeting and what I should do and how I should act. It all comes very natural to me, but I'm afraid I might be TOO shy.

Also, he lives up north and I am down south, and we will not always be able to see each other very often at all, and I am reading through and wondering how all of you manage. We talk and text (also my FAVE ) message and email, but i've never even done a long-distance relationship for very long, let alone of this type.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated! thanks, and have a great day or night!

Welcome! I chatted with my PYL for about 5 months before we met in person the first time. Like you I was very nervous about what to do and how I shoud act. Also like you I was a total newbie and my PYL had been doing this for decades. When I told him I was nervous he told me I didn't have to worry about anything. The only thing I needed to do was to obey him. Everything else would be natural after that. He also said there would be no way I could disappoint him as long as I was obedient. Just keeping those two things in my mind made me feel much better.

This is my first long-distance relationship. I would rather live closer but I would rather be with him long distance than another dominant who lived closer.

 

[NALA CAYENNE]

Hello to all on this very intriguing and exciting thread! I'm very new to the Dom/sub world and not even sure if I'm a true Dom, but am very open to this new desire to please my new playmate with Domination. I've had fantasies of being Dominant in my own way, but have never had an opportunity to express until very recently with an extremely sensuous sub I've met here on Lit. We've had the MOST exciting phone encounters I've ever had that actually have been as good as most personal encounters I've indulged in! Meaning... this guy IS FRIGGIN' HOT!!!

I'm interested in indulging further and learning everything I can to be the best Dom I can be! (Sheeeesh! I sound like an Army comercial! LOL)

I would love to chat or PM with any of you interesting, lovely people who wants to share their insights and I'm looking forward to catching up on this thread!

Welcome Mistress_Belladonna and congrats on finding this thread and your "FRIGGIN HOT" guy

 

[NALA CAYENNE]

Hello, my name is jenny and I'm a sub. I was reading through some threads and stumbled onto here and I must admit I love the attitude of the thread as a whole. I feel like coming for advice and to share, I hope that is ok?

I met my Master a while back, and we will be meeting verrry soon. I am so excited I can barely contain myself. That being said, I'm incredibly new to everything, and have not experienced anything yet, whereas he has been doing this for years. My only goal is his happiness and love, and I am nervous about actually meeting and what I should do and how I should act. It all comes very natural to me, but I'm afraid I might be TOO shy.

Also, he lives up north and I am down south, and we will not always be able to see each other very often at all, and I am reading through and wondering how all of you manage. We talk and text (also my FAVE ) message and email, but i've never even done a long-distance relationship for very long, let alone of this type.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated! thanks, and have a great day or night!

Welcome Jenny. As all of us here, we understand the distance. Master is almost 900 miles away from me and we live by text (thank heavens for unlimited texting ) and phone, and we spent 2 months of our relationship that way have gotten even closer than we were since having spent this past weekend together *happy contented sighs*

MIS, I understand about not wanting to unpack to extend things. I finally decided I had to because I was so upset that I couldn't get to sleep and really needed to before work yesterday. The plus is that Master sent me home with one of his tee shirts so I am able to linger in being with him that way until I am home again

 

[myinnerslut]

MIS, I understand about not wanting to unpack to extend things.

yeah... i still havnt unpacked. seeing the suitcase is comforting in its own way.

 

[rinka]

yeah... i still havnt unpacked. seeing the suitcase is comforting in its own way.

I came home from my first visit with my Master a month ago. I haven't unpacked everything yet. The first couple of weeks the suitcase was still in the hall, now I've moved it into the closet.

Last night I was all needy and wanted to feel close to him so I snuck in the closet, opened the suitcase and sniffed to find some of his scent or scents from our trip.

Whatever gets you through, huh?

 

[the captians wench]

I came home from my first visit with my Master a month ago. I haven't unpacked everything yet. The first couple of weeks the suitcase was still in the hall, now I've moved it into the closet.

Last night I was all needy and wanted to feel close to him so I snuck in the closet, opened the suitcase and sniffed to find some of his scent or scents from our trip.

Whatever gets you through, huh?

I've been all pouty the past few months because his shirt doesn't smell like him anymore.

I'm going to have to steal his deoderant or something like that this time!

I still curl up with his shirt tho. It still makes me feel better.

 

[NALA CAYENNE]

I came home from my first visit with my Master a month ago. I haven't unpacked everything yet. The first couple of weeks the suitcase was still in the hall, now I've moved it into the closet.

Last night I was all needy and wanted to feel close to him so I snuck in the closet, opened the suitcase and sniffed to find some of his scent or scents from our trip.

Whatever gets you through, huh?[/QUOTE]

Definitely. Even if it's just his tee-shirts and the scent of his deodorant

 

[rinka]

I've been all pouty the past few months because his shirt doesn't smell like him anymore.

I'm going to have to steal his deoderant or something like that this time!

I still curl up with his shirt tho. It still makes me feel better.

Definitely. Even if it's just his tee-shirts and the scent of his deodorant

He gave me two shirts as well and they do help. Especially one of them. It doesn't smell much of him anymore. But it helps me remember his smell somehow. And I wore it there in his arms, and the softness of it also helps me remember the feeling of him holding me.

Of course I prefer him holding me without it....

But still.

 

[NALA CAYENNE]

He gave me two shirts as well and they do help. Especially one of them. It doesn't smell much of him anymore. But it helps me remember his smell somehow. And I wore it there in his arms, and the softness of it also helps me remember the feeling of him holding me.

Of course I prefer him holding me without it....

But still.

HELL YEAH!!!! Oh, excuse me

 

[Jenny6565]

Welcome! I chatted with my PYL for about 5 months before we met in person the first time. Like you I was very nervous about what to do and how I shoud act. Also like you I was a total newbie and my PYL had been doing this for decades. When I told him I was nervous he told me I didn't have to worry about anything. The only thing I needed to do was to obey him. Everything else would be natural after that. He also said there would be no way I could disappoint him as long as I was obedient. Just keeping those two things in my mind made me feel much better.

This is my first long-distance relationship. I would rather live closer but I would rather be with him long distance than another dominant who lived closer.

Welcome Jenny. As all of us here, we understand the distance. Master is almost 900 miles away from me and we live by text (thank heavens for unlimited texting ) and phone, and we spent 2 months of our relationship that way have gotten even closer than we were since having spent this past weekend together *happy contented sighs*

Thank you both. I really do appreciate it, and it has helped a lot. He and I talk allll the time, and text as well. I am supposed to go see him this weekend for the first time. He has also told me that i will make him happy by just obeying him and not worrying about it. He might be moving closer (because of work, not just me ) and we're really hoping this works to make it a fully committed relationship as well.