Disappointments................

[bashfull]

if you got it up, i CAN find it

evening cutie

~gulp~I reckon even if you don't, I'm gonna like you searching? Evenin, darlin.




Bash

 

[bashfull]

Dissapointed

that I ran everyone off. And that I bump right b/f I must leave.




Good week to you, ladies.






Bash

 

[mayi]

~gulp~I reckon even if you don't, I'm gonna like you searching? Evenin, darlin.




Bash

*grin* not half as much as i am

 

[bashfull]

*grin* not half as much as i am

Now I'm squirming, dalrin'.



Bash

 

[Native Alien]

that's the whole point isn't it, to keep em squirmin?

 

[bashfull]

that's the whole point isn't it, to keep em squirmin?

squirming, bucking, thrusting, wiggling, begging, moaning...Ooops, I digress.




Bash

 

[Native Alien]

i don't think so there bashful. you don't digress at all.

i am going to highjack the thread for a moment, why in the world do some people just never listen? i mean, why can't people and this is not aimed at one particular sex, not go blundering off into things that they really don't need to be sticking their noses into.

only to find out after they have done this that it has caused a problem for someone else and when this is pointed out to them say something along the lines, of "it must be miscues and misunderstandings" but not offer to correct the problem and then tell the person that is having problem to be patient.

okay highjack over, and i am thru ranting on this subject.

 

[MercyMia]

<nodding at native alien> i don't know the answer, sweetheart, but i know what you mean. some people don't clean up after themselves.

back to disappointments

 

[Native Alien]

mercy this is a disappointment. it is a disappointment in the sense that i thought that i could trust this person and told them some things that maybe i shouldn't have. i thought that we had an understanding about this but i must have been "miscued and misunderstood". this is someone that i have a ongoing relationship with and it is really bothering me to have to deal with the mess that they have made. all in the name of getting some explanations from someone else supposedly.

it had nothing really to do with me, except the fact that i confided in this person. and now, i appear to have about 5 people totally pissed over something that i had nothing to do with other than the fact that i told someone my true feelings.

with the understanding that it would stay between us. maybe i just trusted to far or too much and i am fastly learning not to trust anyone, anymore. i am going to stop revealing me to other people because i am truly sore and tired of being hurt by other people who don't seem to have any care at all for what i feel. i have learnt to play what i feel very close to me and i am done letting anyone get close to me. no more telling anyone, anymore than absolutely necessary about me and what i feel. that way it can't be misunderstood by anyone.

 

[MercyMia]

okay, you're right. it *is* a disappointment, NA. early in life, i learned NOT to confide in people. not because i think ill of them, but because what may seem urgently confidential to me, may not to them. so unless they really have to know, then i just don't tell them. the downside of this is that i often don't talk on a meaningful or deep level with r/l friends--more surface talk, really.

anyway, i'm really sorry to hear about what you're going through. you sound down and betrayed.

hopefully, time will erase the deepest gouges and your friendships will resume, albeit slightly altered.

mia

 

[Native Alien]

that is exactly it mercymia. and i thought that it was understood that the problem we were discussing couldn't be resolved, and that i was speaking confidentally, but apparently this person decided to try to resolve it anyway. but that only led to more of a mess than the original problem and now that folks are pissed at me, the other person has taken a powder and not done the least little thing to clear up the mess that they made, except to tell me to give everyone time to calm down and to have patience. but then they aren't dealing with the aftermath nor are they suffering in any way because of what they did.

to me that is a big "disappointment" because i don't know exactly what was said to whom, but i do know the reprecussions and what it is costing me and i am somewhat down and depressed about it. so i guess i have learnt to keep my mouth shut and talk to noone about anything but "fluff stuff" for fear of what might happen. to me this is a big disappointment and not what i really want.

 

[MercyMia]

that is exactly it mercymia. and i thought that it was understood that the problem we were discussing couldn't be resolved, and that i was speaking confidentally, but apparently this person decided to try to resolve it anyway. but that only led to more of a mess than the original problem and now that folks are pissed at me, the other person has taken a powder and not done the least little thing to clear up the mess that they made, except to tell me to give everyone time to calm down and to have patience. but then they aren't dealing with the aftermath nor are they suffering in any way because of what they did.

to me that is a big "disappointment" because i don't know exactly what was said to whom, but i do know the reprecussions and what it is costing me and i am somewhat down and depressed about it. so i guess i have learnt to keep my mouth shut and talk to noone about anything but "fluff stuff" for fear of what might happen. to me this is a big disappointment and not what i really want.

big disappointment. terrible heartbreak. but hopefully it won't happen again. sometimes it's wrong to assume that other people (no matter how nice they are) have the same level of responsibility and sensitivity that we have.

there are no palliatives i can offer, native. but i'll listen and mirror back what i understand. i hope that affirms to you the logic of your feelings.

mia

 

[Native Alien]

no need mercy. i started a rant and rave thread that has disappeared to the 2nd or 3rd page by now and i will let it go. i am just to weary to go on with it all anyway.

i just have learnt not to expose myself to that kind of thing anymore. the "stuff" that i will discuss from now on is "fluff". that way i won't be risking having this happen again.

 

[bashfull]

Evenin' ladies. And come here, NA. You appear to need a big hug.


{{{{NA}}}}}




Bash

 

[MercyMia]

no need mercy. i started a rant and rave thread that has disappeared to the 2nd or 3rd page by now and i will let it go. i am just to weary to go on with it all anyway.

i just have learnt not to expose myself to that kind of thing anymore. the "stuff" that i will discuss from now on is "fluff". that way i won't be risking having this happen again.

hey, native alien, so what do you think about silicon? yes? no? depends?

mia

(just kidding--you don't really have to answer the question unless you feel moved!)

 

[Native Alien]

only in silicon chips for my computer, mercy...

thanks bash but i needed more than that. oh, sorry, i ain't suppose to talk about that one.

 

[RomanHans]

Howdy everyone...and a special greeting for NativeAlien. Hope that your disappointments (everyone's) don't sour you on taking the risk of sharing and caring every now and then...but I think we all know the feeling of opening up and then getting mugged!

Let's all think happy thoughts, now!

Roman

 

[bashfull]

only in silicon chips for my computer, mercy...

thanks bash but i needed more than that. oh, sorry, i ain't suppose to talk about that one.

More than that? Okay, how about a....back rub? Darlin', just let me know what I may do to help. And don't let an idiot spoil your wonderful self.


Roman~howdy. Good to see you again and I agree.

Mercy~how are ya', ma'am?

 

[Native Alien]

i am tryin real hard not to bashful, believe me.

 

[bashfull]

i am tryin real hard not to bashful, believe me.

but are you squenching up your face, rolling your eyes, gritting your teeth, gasping the sheets, breathing real heavy, biting your lip, moaning...oh, wait, I believe I digress.




Bash

 

[Native Alien]

yea you do digress...but go ahead and don't stop on my account.

 

[gottaBme]

ummmmmm.......

I had a very good night....Can I start an undisappointed thread?
for native.

 

[RomanHans]

Re: ummmmmm.......

I had a very good night....Can I start an undisappointed thread?
for native.

Only if you give us the details!

Roman

 

[pth]

He's disappeared on me. I guess I should have expected it, you know? But it sure sucks when it happens.

I'll miss you Harmony...

Hope I didn't hijack the thread here.

 

[bashfull]

Where, oh where, have all the fun ones gone? Perhaps my rude demeanor or my smile so sinister has purged this thread? Or perhaps my foul odor? I knew I shouldn't have removed my boots.

Miss ya'll.



Bash