dildo question...

[mgouker]

Keep using your toy

I would love to see my wife use toys. I have bought dildos for her and they are all sitting (unused) in her drawer. I would love to use them on her or (even if I couldn't see) know she was using them on herself, but she doesn't.

As for your boyfriend, he doesn't understand women if he thinks it is all about measuring up (unless he is really, really small). I don't pretend to understand women, but there are so many levels of a relationship and so many ways to make a woman happy. If he is a small guy he will just need to be more creative.

It took me forever to get past my feelings of inferiority wrt my penis (which at 5 3/4 by 4 1/2 circumference is thin and smallish), but what finally put it out of my mind is that it didn't really matter how big I was. My wife has orgasms if I use two fingers in her delectable pussy while I go down on her like a madman. When I put four in there (I have big hands - that's pretty thick) she goes totally out of her mind (this is why, btw, I'd love to use a dildo on her - one day ;^) ). Anyway, my point is I don't think any guy is as big around as my four fingers, so it just doesn't matter. Inverted logic, to be sure, but the proof is in the pudding. With my dick and lots of foreplay I can put her in ecstacy.

So use and abuse your toy and then buy another. Get him to work you with it so he won't feel left out. What matters is that you are happy so don't make sacrifices that take away from your enjoyment. Life is too short.

Peace from Florida,

Michael

 

[infinityoverzero]

Re: Keep using your toy

Get him to work you with it so he won't feel left out.

Good advice - there are so many zones that can be teased on a woman that one doesn't have enough hands (and other body parts) to take care of them all. While you're using that dildo, get him to tease your nipples, hold your breasts, nibble your neck, lick your clit ... whatever you enjoy .

 

[gapcapgrl]

wow.

i can't believe it's been over 6 months since i've been on the boards- i was on it every day!!! damn school and holidays always getting in the way

everyone wanted an update... so... here it is. i dumped the guy i bitched about in the post because he was just way too whiney. i did find a guy, though, that loves helping me play with my toy and has actually went with me to the toy shop to pick out others so... all is happy here! we found the easiest way to use it was for me to move to the end of the bed, legs wide open and LOTS of lube. the last part is the most important.

thanks again for all the replies and suggestions- believe it or not, i did try them all

 

[uptoplay2]

So..... what does a nexus look like..

or is that too personal?

Probably.

Does anyone know of sites that show nexus or feeldoes.... ready for action..... ?

 

[lisasmurf]

i need someone with some expertise in this area...

i recently bought a huge dildo and am absolutely craving it! however, i'm not really sure how to work it inside... i'd tried using lots of lube and different positions, but it hurts so much when i try to use it that i give up... i've used toys before, but nothing this big (2 inches across, 12 inches long) any helpful hints?

leslie

DAM girl why does got be so big,, you tring to have a baby it doesn't hurt

get another more like a REAL mans cock is..

you keep your man happer with a tight pussy,,

then some like semi truck's!!

whatever!

 

[uptoplay2]

Feeldoe..... if you want to see.

http://www.webelez.com/Members/new_movies.html

This link may die when they move the clip.

Go to www.webelez then find new movies if the link doesn't work.

Hopefully they will have a follow up.

 

[Guest]

i need someone with some expertise in this area...

i recently bought a huge dildo and am absolutely craving it! however, i'm not really sure how to work it inside... i'd tried using lots of lube and different positions, but it hurts so much when i try to use it that i give up... i've used toys before, but nothing this big (2 inches across, 12 inches long) any helpful hints?

leslie

I sure as hell hope this isn't your first. You want to bleed to death? LOL! Being silly, not mean here.

But listen:

I would recommend using lube on your genitals as well as the dildo. Start by rubbing your clit with it (the dildo, that is), relaxing in a nice warm, comfortable room, and eventually work it in slowly. The sucker isn't going to fit all the way in anyway.

FYI (to some people) do you really think 12 inches is going to fit into our vagina's? Um, no. I feel sorry for some of the larger men with big cocks, they miss out on a lot. (IMO and some men's)