did i pop myself?

[PunkGrrl18]

okay im a virgin and so i was watching cinemax (damn them) and i was horny as hell so i grabbed my dildo, and this massager thing that vibrates, and i put that on the clit, and i lubricated the dildo, and its about 6 inches long 1 1/2 inches around im guessing, so i put it all the way in, and i didnt really feel anything because i was distracted by the massager goin at my clit, but i ended up putting the whole thing in. So i took it out when i was done (and believe me i think i had thebest orgasm ever) and when i pulled the dildo out it hurt? but there wasnt any blood, and i feel...different, i think i might've popped myself.

(no i dont care, the love of my life is unreachable, and imnot willing to go out and fuck a jock, damn town)

infact this would be great, cause being 18, its damn embarassing to me (dont ask).

 

[I_Edwards]

I think your hymen is pretty close to the uh... entrance... so uh... yeah, don't rule it out

 

[ReadyOne]

If not earlier, then certainly then.

http://www.themarriagebed.com/female-plumbing.shtml#FemExt is an OK diagram and lots of discussion about female plumbing.

The hymen is outside the entrance to the vagina, like a covering. Often a very thin piece of skin, it has at least one and may have several perforations in it. As one grows up and naturally rubs and pushes against the hymen the opening(s) will enlarge.

(About half way down this page are several styles of hymens. http://www.allaboutsex.org/first_intercourse_whattodo.html#pain.)

A bicycle saddle is a classic example of something that frequently erodes away a hymen. And of course, falling down wrong and pressing something against yourself can tear it. Tampons can. Lots of things can, including masturbation and exploration.

It doesn't have to all go at once. But when that 1.5" dildo finally went in, the hymen was certainly opened way up. Given that you didn't notice anything, it could be that the opening in your hymen was already a large one from other life experience.

But now you know that you can take 1.5" (the "average" male diameter), any discomfort will be from additional sources, such as irritation to tender tissues or using muscles you haven't been exercising regularly. Look up Kegels for your PC http://sexuality.about.com/library/weekly/aa022801.htm

 

[cricketbug]

PunkGrrl18 --
Like your description of not wanting to "fuck a jock"!

IMHO, when I lost my virginity (at age 18), no blood or pain either. so i think you did "pop yourself" from the sounds of it.

 

[lovechild27]

You prob lost your hymen long ago...no biggie.

 

[PunkGrrl18]

thats a damn good thing, cause i was getting sick of it either way and i was all freaking out about the pain factor thus the embarassment thoughts i have about it. I looked down there today and the hole isnt really stretched but its like easier to get in there, and im fine with that. Thanks for your replies and that site too.

 

[HoHoBomb]

all women are virgins until they give birth

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Eagle70]

Hey, what's wrong with wanting to fuck a jock?!

I'm a jock!! But i'm a nice jock...

 

[PunkGrrl18]

Wow, then I've been fucked an awful lot for a virgin.

hahha yeah but, im a punk girl. When a jock dates a girl like me, you just know they only want one thing from you. so no thanks hun ill stick to my punk/skin boys, and you stick to your cheerleader types


(yeah that was kinda conformist but HAH im picky)

 

[God of Threads]

Hymen

This has been very, very interesting. I have learned something for sure. Good. Thank you, ReadyOne, for the informatoin.

 

[dollface007]

don't worry about it

I think all those horror stories about women bleeding profusely when they lose their virginity is the exception rather than the rule. It CAN happen, but i think you're pretty safe. In fact, any woman that has used a tampon probably no longer has a hymen intact.
What i really wanted to say is don't be embarrassed about your virginity. I didn't lose mine until i was 19, and i'm sure there are others on this board who "lost it" much later. There's no stigma attached to virginity when it comes to having sex with ***someone who really cares about you****, which is, i think, the best way to lose your virginity. Wait until the right guy comes along and you are really ready...then it will be a treat rather than an embarrassment!!!
good luck, chica!!
P.S. Snaps for not gettin down with jocks!

 

[sheath]

Wow, then I've been fucked an awful lot for a virgin.

LMAO!



S.

 

[Eagle70]

hahha yeah but, im a punk girl. When a jock dates a girl like me, you just know they only want one thing from you. so no thanks hun ill stick to my punk/skin boys, and you stick to your cheerleader types


(yeah that was kinda conformist but HAH im picky)

Listen you! hahaha, see, i've always been attracted to non-cheerleader types. I've never been with or dated a cheerleader, ever. They're stupid. Plus, i read comics and i'm just a massive fucking dork, so believe me, you'd like me Just cause i played football and lift weights dosent mean i'm a dumb, stereotypical jock! Hehe, besides, i'm the nicest guy ever, lol

 

[PunkGrrl18]

Listen you! hahaha, see, i've always been attracted to non-cheerleader types. I've never been with or dated a cheerleader, ever. They're stupid. Plus, i read comics and i'm just a massive fucking dork, so believe me, you'd like me Just cause i played football and lift weights dosent mean i'm a dumb, stereotypical jock! Hehe, besides, i'm the nicest guy ever, lol

hahhahaha you hypocrite you just stereotyped cheerleaders as stupid

its okay

 

[Bill in Cincy]

Punk

Love punk


Love what you did...

Don't worry about being a v-gin ...

nothing to be embarrassed about ...

just keep on fuckin' your toys ...

until the right man/woman comes along



P.S. May I watch?

 

[Eagle70]

hahhahaha you hypocrite you just stereotyped cheerleaders as stupid

its okay

Ok, so maybe not stupid, but extremely petty...always caring about looks and social cliques and shit...its stupid...i went to an all boys school anyways, lol, so we didnt get to interact with our cheerleaders much, haha.

 

[watergirl]

Just had to join the thread and blow kisses at Eagle.



I know you're a sweetie, darlin - silly punkie girl is young, and doesn't know that jocks come in all types of personalities.

The homecoming queen at my highschool wasn't a cheerleader, she was in the marching band - I thought that was the coolest thing ever.

Edited to add, yes, I think you did pop your cherry! =)

 

[Eagle70]

Just had to join the thread and blow kisses at Eagle.



I know you're a sweetie, darlin - silly punkie girl is young, and doesn't know that jocks come in all types of personalities.

The homecoming queen at my highschool wasn't a cheerleader, she was in the marching band - I thought that was the coolest thing ever.

Edited to add, yes, I think you did pop your cherry! =)

Hehehe, WG, you're the bestest <MUWAH> thank you babe, for sheding some light on yours truly

 

[PunkGrrl18]

bah.

possibly gettin a fiooone skinhead friday night (no not a nazi, a sharp (skinhead against racial prejudices)


that is unless a certain week in the month kicks in (oh you know it will)



but jocks...hah ill still pass

 

[PunkGrrl18]

of course...i can feel a cramp...

its coming



-bangs head against the table-

oh well...if i fucked him right away he probably wouldnt respect me much, thus i need a boyfriend not just a fuckbuddy..

i think illget to know him and yes he will think highly of me in my short plaid skirt and fishnets

 

[watergirl]

You know, PunkGrrl -

Back when I was in college, I found sex to be a GREAT cure for cramps. I'd go to Perkins with a couple friends, chat up my friend the waiter (also a college student). My friends would leave, he would take me home with him when he got of work, and then - sex.. mmm... And then I'd go home. Fuck buddies can be cool. That was back in... 1999, 2000? And he and I hooked up again last December, just cause we both were single and able to get together. Don't knock it till ya try it.

This has been a public service announcement, men, you may now thank me.. "But honey, I heard sex can really relieve those cramps!"

 

[PunkGrrl18]

yeah but...i dont wanna "rag" on him...eww
(my post wasnt about just gettin cramps, it was about gettin my period)

 

[ReadyOne]

yeah but...i dont wanna "rag" on him...eww
(my post wasnt about just gettin cramps, it was about gettin my period)

If a girl apologized to me for being PMS and said she was flowing and assured me that she wanted another date, I'd be happy to just have fun.

And if the current date went well, I'd put her on the "potential girlfriend" list, which is a lot better territory than the "fuck buddy" list.

I hope you catch and keep his attention in more ways than one!

 

[Bill in Cincy]

Been "ragged"

Speaking as a person who has been "ragged" on (voluntarily, I might add), there's really nothing gross about it ... just adds extra lubrication!

And I agree with watergirl ... fuckbuddies ARE cool!