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Depression. It's a silent killer.

I can relate, my libido is practically non-existent. It literally only comes back whenever I'm writing and then dies again when I'm finished. But that's fine, that's all I need it for. Having no libido for the most part is liberating in a way, I can focus on other things.

I have reached a place where I am so tired of being depressed and talking negatively about myself that I've said "no more!". While I'm fully aware you can't simply turn depression off, and negative self-talk for that matter, I am determined to stop it. I have spent years telling myself that I am a failure of a man and a pathetic incel because I can't attract women if my life depended on it.

But no more, I will not say that shit to myself anymore! Enough damage has been done to my self-esteem and libido! Now, I don't care if I die without truly knowing a woman's love or touch, all I want is to get my self-esteem back. Nothing else matters to me. It won't be easy, but I'm willing to put in the work it will take to reclaim confidence in myself. I pray that something clicks in someone reading this and they feel the same way. It's time to take back control of my life from the enemies in my mind and heart!

Pain into Strength!!
 
Bassytian said:
I can relate, my libido is practically non-existent. It literally only comes back whenever I'm writing and then dies again when I'm finished. But that's fine, that's all I need it for. Having no libido for the most part is liberating in a way, I can focus on other things.

I have reached a place where I am so tired of being depressed and talking negatively about myself that I've said "no more!". While I'm fully aware you can't simply turn depression off, and negative self-talk for that matter, I am determined to stop it. I have spent years telling myself that I am a failure of a man and a pathetic incel because I can't attract women if my life depended on it.

But no more, I will not say that shit to myself anymore! Enough damage has been done to my self-esteem and libido! Now, I don't care if I die without truly knowing a woman's love or touch, all I want is to get my self-esteem back. Nothing else matters to me. It won't be easy, but I'm willing to put in the work it will take to reclaim confidence in myself. I pray that something clicks in someone reading this and they feel the same way. It's time to take back control of my life from the enemies in my mind and heart!

Pain into Strength!!
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I read something just today that said the first person to set boundaries with is yourself. I struggle with boundaries in general because I grew up not allowed to have them.
 
Wetkitty09 said:
I read something just today that said the first person to set boundaries with is yourself. I struggle with boundaries in general because I grew up not allowed to have them.
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And now you can set them so no one takes advantage of you. You know what you like and don't like, that's the start of the boundary setting process. 😉🙂
 
I want to sit and watch the horse field and was asked why. Rarely a chance to be alone and decompress
 
Not quite the same, but my cat does the same for me. He knows when I need my space and when to shower me with love.

On an unrelated note, I hope everyone that is seeing snow right now is staying safe and warm. I heard it started around 1 where I live and 20 minutes later the parking lot and roads were covered, I left work immediately.
 
Bassytian said:
Not quite the same, but my cat does the same for me. He knows when I need my space and when to shower me with love.

On an unrelated note, I hope everyone that is seeing snow right now is staying safe and warm. I heard it started around 1 where I live and 20 minutes later the parking lot and roads were covered, I left work immediately.
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You be careful as well. Roads can change in a heartbeat with snow falling.
 
Morning all. It’s amazing how the weather affects people. It’s back to being overcast and windy. I can’t tell if the snow is falling or just being blown around.
Still, yesterday’s sun was good and I’m feeling better for it today.
Be safe out there.
Love you.
 
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