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[jasonborn1987]

NM

 

[cowboyup6977]

Have her dress very provocative for the party

 

[stxjimmy]

Don’t scare her, elegant but dressed for pleasure underneath. The dynamic is for you two, provocative is for the right setting and later.

 

[TarnishedPenny]

“Is this hot?” Wrong question, sorry. Rule 34 says that everything is hot for somebody. Seriously, asking us isn’t going to give you the right answer. The important thing is that both of you find it sexy. You mentioned undercurrent. Does that mean you have discussed it with her, even in very general terms? “Just so you know, I’m going to keep you hornier than you’ve ever been this weekend. Where it goes will depend on how you behave, but you are so going to be my toy!” See how she reacts to that, plan accordingly.

The general concept seems fine. Frustration can be delightful.

You seem to be very focussed on her clitoris. To me, you might be over-focussing. Women’s sexual pleasure is mich less centred on their clits than men’s is on their penises. And using a vibrator without touching her clit is going to be physically challenging. Not knowing either of you, I will admit that maybe this is perfect for you two, but I might suggest a little less focus on ‘where’ and a little more on ‘what’. You have her whole body to use to arouse her, so don’t get fixated. The key thing, which is I think is at the core of your plan, is to keep her stimulated, not let her have an orgasm.

How long should she be stimulated? However long it takes her to reach orgasm, minus a couple of seconds. To make this work, you’re going to have to rely on her keeping her word in any case,

In short, you and she agree in advance that she is not permitted to cum without your permission. Then you find all kinds of ways to keep her stimulated.

At the party? An easy one is to have her go commando. She won’t forget it. Every time she sees you looking at her, her arousal will go up.

Taking it further, if the party setup is suitable, give her a secret word, maybe her first and middle names. If you’re sitting at the dinner table with a long tablecloth, you could simply say, “Kelly Sue, would you please pass the salt.” That is in effect a secret command requiring her to slip her hand under the table and stimulate herself for 10 seconds without hitting orgasm. Not at the table? Maybe she’d have to go to the restroom and do it.

Finally, I would suggest that she really should get some kind of a reward for being a good girl. Constant frustration is kind of at an advanced level.

Good luck.

 

[emme8]

Sounds good. Possibly give her more instructions when she's using the vibrating dildo. Specifically what you want her to do. Is she allowed to cum at all or just edge

Have a camera set up so you can sneak a peek, or even if it isn't recording, she thinks you might be watching.

 

[Lady2020]

It doesn't sound like you need any help.

 

[emme8]

Jason,
What is she interested in?
Emme

 

[jasonborn1987]

“Is this hot?” Wrong question, sorry. Rule 34 says that everything is hot for somebody. Seriously, asking us isn’t going to give you the right answer. The important thing is that both of you find it sexy. You mentioned undercurrent. Does that mean you have discussed it with her, even in very general terms? “Just so you know, I’m going to keep you hornier than you’ve ever been this weekend. Where it goes will depend on how you behave, but you are so going to be my toy!” See how she reacts to that, plan accordingly.

The general concept seems fine. Frustration can be delightful.

You seem to be very focussed on her clitoris. To me, you might be over-focussing. Women’s sexual pleasure is mich less centred on their clits than men’s is on their penises. And using a vibrator without touching her clit is going to be physically challenging. Not knowing either of you, I will admit that maybe this is perfect for you two, but I might suggest a little less focus on ‘where’ and a little more on ‘what’. You have her whole body to use to arouse her, so don’t get fixated. The key thing, which is I think is at the core of your plan, is to keep her stimulated, not let her have an orgasm.

How long should she be stimulated? However long it takes her to reach orgasm, minus a couple of seconds. To make this work, you’re going to have to rely on her keeping her word in any case,

In short, you and she agree in advance that she is not permitted to cum without your permission. Then you find all kinds of ways to keep her stimulated.

At the party? An easy one is to have her go commando. She won’t forget it. Every time she sees you looking at her, her arousal will go up.

Taking it further, if the party setup is suitable, give her a secret word, maybe her first and middle names. If you’re sitting at the dinner table with a long tablecloth, you could simply say, “Kelly Sue, would you please pass the salt.” That is in effect a secret command requiring her to slip her hand under the table and stimulate herself for 10 seconds without hitting orgasm. Not at the table? Maybe she’d have to go to the restroom and do it.

Finally, I would suggest that she really should get some kind of a reward for being a good girl. Constant frustration is kind of at an advanced level.

Good luck.

Good points, thanks for the thoughtful response. I've never typed out things like this on the internet, so I glossed over some key points that you called out. In brief - yes, we've been planning the whole weekend together and this is one concept that she was interested in. Really, the whole day will be about the rest of her body - lots of pleasure and attention and love.
She can cum in multiple ways, but clit stimulation during sex is her favorite and she can usually finish twice from that, once from PIV. So, the goal is to make her feel great throughout the day - But by taking away that one thing, maybe she focuses on it in her head and it adds a layer?
Love your dinner table idea. We aren't into public stuff at all, so probably the restroom, but yes, there should be a quick moment there.
Thank you!

 

[jasonborn1987]

Jason,
What is she interested in?
Emme

Hi, thanks. As we are exploring her submissive side she is interested in tasks throughout the day, and having lots of little moments dedicated to entertaining me. And the idea of me using her body how I want (be it for my physical pleasure or just for my fun), in a way that she just lets go and doesn't have to think so much, is something she really wants to explore. It's turned from a night here or there to trying for a few days.

 

[NakedNymph]

Love your dinner table idea. We aren't into public stuff at all, so probably the restroom, but yes, there should be a quick moment there.

highly recommend stripping and playing with yourself in a friend's bathroom, it's a surreal and incredible feeling It's pretty close to perfect privacy but still something that feels risky and unfamiliar.

But then again, I'm into public stuff

 

[cowboyup6977]

highly recommend stripping and playing with yourself in a friend's bathroom, it's a surreal and incredible feeling It's pretty close to perfect privacy but still something that feels risky and unfamiliar.

But then again, I'm into public stuff

Me too

 

[DuvessaNight]

“Is this hot?” Wrong question, sorry. Rule 34 says that everything is hot for somebody. Seriously, asking us isn’t going to give you the right answer. The important thing is that both of you find it sexy. You mentioned undercurrent. Does that mean you have discussed it with her, even in very general terms? “Just so you know, I’m going to keep you hornier than you’ve ever been this weekend. Where it goes will depend on how you behave, but you are so going to be my toy!” See how she reacts to that, plan accordingly.

The general concept seems fine. Frustration can be delightful.

You seem to be very focussed on her clitoris. To me, you might be over-focussing. Women’s sexual pleasure is mich less centred on their clits than men’s is on their penises. And using a vibrator without touching her clit is going to be physically challenging. Not knowing either of you, I will admit that maybe this is perfect for you two, but I might suggest a little less focus on ‘where’ and a little more on ‘what’. You have her whole body to use to arouse her, so don’t get fixated. The key thing, which is I think is at the core of your plan, is to keep her stimulated, not let her have an orgasm.

How long should she be stimulated? However long it takes her to reach orgasm, minus a couple of seconds. To make this work, you’re going to have to rely on her keeping her word in any case,

In short, you and she agree in advance that she is not permitted to cum without your permission. Then you find all kinds of ways to keep her stimulated.

At the party? An easy one is to have her go commando. She won’t forget it. Every time she sees you looking at her, her arousal will go up.

Taking it further, if the party setup is suitable, give her a secret word, maybe her first and middle names. If you’re sitting at the dinner table with a long tablecloth, you could simply say, “Kelly Sue, would you please pass the salt.” That is in effect a secret command requiring her to slip her hand under the table and stimulate herself for 10 seconds without hitting orgasm. Not at the table? Maybe she’d have to go to the restroom and do it.

Finally, I would suggest that she really should get some kind of a reward for being a good girl. Constant frustration is kind of at an advanced level.

Good luck.

You explain things wonderfully

 

[jasonborn1987]

How did it go?

Hi, thanks for checking back. I'd say it went great, and she was pretty happy and tingly all weekend. The clit denial aspect was good, but it was more of the constant attention on her, keeping her turned on and anticipated, and giving her lots of little tasks throughout the day. So I leaned more into that as the day wore on. We were pretty tired at night so the session was quick - but like I had planned basically I took her fairly forcefully with no attention on her clit and gave her the vibrator to finish herself off after I had used her to my content. She loved it. Lots to think about and build on!

 

[Quitecurious]

Good points, thanks for the thoughtful response. I've never typed out things like this on the internet, so I glossed over some key points that you called out. In brief - yes, we've been planning the whole weekend together and this is one concept that she was interested in. Really, the whole day will be about the rest of her body - lots of pleasure and attention and love.
She can cum in multiple ways, but clit stimulation during sex is her favorite and she can usually finish twice from that, once from PIV. So, the goal is to make her feel great throughout the day - But by taking away that one thing, maybe she focuses on it in her head and it adds a layer?
Love your dinner table idea. We aren't into public stuff at all, so probably the restroom, but yes, there should be a quick moment there.
Thank you!

I have a very occasional play partner in real life and daddy let’s me touch myself the day we meet but I’m not allowed to cum. It drives me crazy! I’ll touch myself and sometimes I’ll text begging daddy to let me cum. He always says no. By the time I get to daddy’s house I’m so wet and horny that when he touches me it feels amazing. The first orgasm he lets me have is so incredible.

 

[JamieJ424]

I like tarnished penny’s reply. Orgasm denial is fun and tantalizing as long as there’s the promise of release. Clitoral stimulation should be allowed and encouraged with, as has already been delightfully described.

Understand that part of what she finds arousing is your control of her. Setting guidelines and then watching the fur fly as it were is more fun for you than her.

So periodically give her directives. ‘Go to the bathroom and text me a picture of your pussy. Remain there with your legs open until I tell you to return.’ Or lean close and whisper ‘cross your legs and squeeze’.

Also have a plan for her orgasm. The teasing will be delicious, it the climax deserves thought as well. Tie her and use your mouth, make her beg. Or on her knees with your cock in her mouth and the toy in her clit.

Enjoy and good luck

 

[EdwardsOtherSide]

Direct your sub to do kegels on cue or at specific intervals.

Especially if she has benwa balls or something similar inside her.

So as you sit across the dinner table, catch her eye, and signal her, and watch her as she squeezes for your amusement.

(Look up "Perifit" if you want to check her progress)

 

[nock]

I have a very occasional play partner in real life and daddy let’s me touch myself the day we meet but I’m not allowed to cum. It drives me crazy! I’ll touch myself and sometimes I’ll text begging daddy to let me cum. He always says no. By the time I get to daddy’s house I’m so wet and horny that when he touches me it feels amazing. The first orgasm he lets me have is so incredible.

Good girl