MaraschinoCherry
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Deleted. Lost my courage, sorry.
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seela
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I caught your post but could only skim it. But some general advice… If you’d prefer me to delete this, just let me know and I’ll do it.
My suggestion is that if you feel uncomfortable, you should stick to your boundaries, especially if it’s starting to affect your work. You should should talk about it together and see if you can work out parameters that suit you both. If he doesn’t see your point of view on this, he might not be the guy for you. Sticking to your boundaries doesn’t make you a bad submissive or not submissive, especially if it’s starting to mess with your work and sleep. Even if you two are in a D/s relationship, it doesn’t have to mean that you should be everything for him all the time.
Kudos for noticing a pattern of behavior that isn’t necessarily healthy and is affecting your life negatively. It’s not always easy to notice it, especially in the middle of new relationship energy running wild, especially if you’ve had some less than fortunate experiences in past.
Welcome to Lit!
My suggestion is that if you feel uncomfortable, you should stick to your boundaries, especially if it’s starting to affect your work. You should should talk about it together and see if you can work out parameters that suit you both. If he doesn’t see your point of view on this, he might not be the guy for you. Sticking to your boundaries doesn’t make you a bad submissive or not submissive, especially if it’s starting to mess with your work and sleep. Even if you two are in a D/s relationship, it doesn’t have to mean that you should be everything for him all the time.
Kudos for noticing a pattern of behavior that isn’t necessarily healthy and is affecting your life negatively. It’s not always easy to notice it, especially in the middle of new relationship energy running wild, especially if you’ve had some less than fortunate experiences in past.
Welcome to Lit!
