Deepthroating

[Stratae]

Okay ladies, help me out here. I am so curious about how to perform this and I've searched the threads. Found a few that suggested that I lay on my back with my head tipped back while he fucks my mouth. BUT, for my first time I need to be in more control than that. Can you help?

 

[Shadowann2]

I'm not sure this is something that can be taught. I just open my throat and let it go back. I open my throat by pulling the base of my tongue down and back. I do have to make sure my head and shoulders are lined up or I can't get my throat to open enough. I do not recomend lying on your back for this. If you can't get your throat open, you'll end up gagging and not being able to breathe! Good luck! I hope this helps.

 

[sheath]

Tips...

I have found a few things that help...

First and foremost, RELAX. Especially if you do decide to try lying on your back with your head off the edge of the bed. If you tense up it will be almost impossible to deep throat him. Get into the mood first with whatever it takes to relax you...a long bubble bath, anything of that sort. And think about how much he's going to enjoy what you do to him.

If you feel like you need to gag, swallow. You won't gag. It might take a few times before you anticipate that feeling and swallow when you feel the gag reflex coming on. But you'll get the hang of it really fast. And sometimes, when you swallow, you pull him in deeper without even trying.

Remember that when he is in your throat you probably won't be able to breathe. Time your breathing with his thrusts. And when you get that feeling, "oh my god, I can't breathe when we do this!"...DON'T panic. You can breathe on the outstroke.

So far as having your neck and shoulders in a straight line...as long as you are relaxed, you can find a comfortable position. It might take a few attempts, but you can do it.

Let us know if you enjoy it!

S.

 

[hockeymandan]

*token horny male, butting in*

ooh, ooh, let me know if you need to practice on someone!

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Stratae]

Thank you

all for your suggestions - I am taking good notes!

Pink: In what position are you when you do this?

 

[PinkOrchid]

 

[Hairgrip]

i have an overactive gag reflex, as previously mentioned in other threads. however i have trained my self to cope with his cock deep inside my throat - it took nearly 9 months of near enough daily blow jobs for me to be able to do it. (yep, ok, let's be honest, i can't keep my hands off him, nor should i want to!).
i cannot yet cope with constant thrusting. i have to be leaning over him, essentially me in control. i can take him deep inside, with out any worries, so long as i am relaxed enough. it's worth a mild feeling of gag panic, as the noises he starts making are fabulous, very very erotic. he starts a huge smile, ummmm. heavenly.
my intention is to start to accept him into my throat in thrusts with out pause, because i want to. he hates the idea that i might be in pain doing it. but i'm not, just scared of being unable to breath!
i recall one poster suggesting that you can try deep throating a sausage... i never had - linda macartney sausages don't have the same slippery skins!
pob luc
Hxx

 

[NotJustAGrrl]

I have had greatest luck with this when I am over my man. He lies on back, I straddle his legs and...well...go down. It really helps to get a rythym going, and be really relaxed...there are some gells I have seen advertised that are sposed to numb you...But wouldn't that Numb HIM as well???

 

[sexyles69]

You just need to relax your muscles and don't contract as you let it go down.

 

[ramsey]

Best for beginners is to have him lying on his back.
You kneeling between his legs.
Preferably get him to have a half to three quarter chub, not completely hard.
Slide the head of his penis along the top of your mouth with you tongue down and back, and swallow.
ps Relaxing is essential and practice makes perfect

 

[Kuntrygirl38]

Oh my goodness...I am just a posting fool tonight.
Anyway on to the subject at hand. Blowjobs..YUMMY
my favorite position for this is with the man either standing or sitting with me on my knees. That way if that pesky gag reflex starts you are more in control and able to pull back till it passes. And I just love looking up and seeing my mans eyes rolling back in his head from the pleasure my tounge and lips are giving him.

 

[Don K Dyck]

Okay ladies, help me out here. I am so curious about how to perform this and I've searched the threads. Found a few that suggested that I lay on my back with my head tipped back while he fucks my mouth. BUT, for my first time I need to be in more control than that. Can you help?

Can a mere male offer some advice?

if you are just starting oral then there are a few things to know, including how to control/overcome the gag reflex.

Start with yourself in control, bf lying on his back and you at right anlges (90 degrees) is good. Get some feeling going before starting because it is important to feel sexy when this exquisite technique is done. He is likely to start out flaccid and finish up rock hard and roaring randy, so be prepared for a fast, possibly rough ride afterwards.

The trick is NOT to make him cum, but to take him to the edge, retire, then to the edge again, and so on for as long as you care to tease him. (Geez, I'm getting hot just thinking about it.)

So he's on his back and you are ready to thrill his balls off . . . Your tongue can be used many ways, point only, full tongue lick, mouth only, mouth and tongue together, and any other combination you can think of that thrills him.

Start by gently holding his penis to steady and locate it while you tip lick around the knob and up the slit . . . Now that you have his complete and undivided attention, lick over the knob with a full tongue, and vary that with alternate tip licks . . . he will probably be concentrating his toughts now . . .

Now kiss the top of his knob just like you would kiss his lips in a short kiss. A bit of a lick around then another knob kiss, this time letting your lips part around his knob as if it were his tongue. Relax, take your time and enjoy . . . he will be.

Some girls freak out at the thought of cock sucking, but it is very similar to sucking an icy pole (ice block). Lick around a lot to get the surface very wet, then start a kissing crescendo, tip kiss, open mouth kiss, knob only kiss. When his knob is in your mouth take some time to play with it, to get the feel of it (and the taste). Roll your tongue against it as roll it around in your mouth guiding it with your tongue. Have fun, he will be closing on ecstatic.

How much to take in?? As much as you fell comfortable with . . . and damn it, let him scream for more, he'll get it when you're good and ready.

Now for the gag reflex. One method that works well is the "air lubrication method", that is, breathing out as his cock goes in, and breathing in as his cock goes out. Takes a little practice, and don't panic if you gag a bit at first, that is quite usual, because it takes some practice to get it right.

Feeling in control . . . man now groaning and hard as granite but likely to blow his load?? OK, back off a little, keep him wanting more . . .

Deep throating takes practice and it is unlikely that you will "get it right" on the first attempt, but who cares, you will just have to practice, practice, practice . . .

The "slow head bob" is good when learning to deep throat. With the girl on top, as before, start with the kiss routine, tip, lips, knob, then start the breathing trick, as you progress centimentre at a time to take his cock into your mouth . . . don't rush . . . he is having a ball . . . Bob dddown past the knob a little, then back up to the tip, down a little further, back up to the tip (a little flick with the tongue tip is exciting) back down a little further, always remembering to breath out as you bob down and breath in as you bob up. He's starting to get furnace hot . . .

The next decision is "To swallow or not to swallow", and that is your personal decision. Some girls do, some girls don't. Some guys like girls to swallow, some guys like to see cum dribbling down their ladies chin . . . ALL guys like to be sucked and deep throated.

Have fun, practice often.

 

[tigerjen]

Deep throating takes a lot of patience and going slowly......
I myself do not like it when a man forces me to take all
of his cock into my mouth, causing me to gag (my old
boyfriend from my college days did that) which is no
fun at all

I say the best thing to do is to relax and go SLOOOOOW.


tigerjen

 

[Killswitch]

Sheez, not trivializing the art of deep throat ( by ANY means) or the thread and I cant believe I am posting this but here goes........

I know little on the subject technically speaking because I am a heterosexual man.....but.....an ex girlfriend was a master of deep throating. She explained it to me like this.

Like others here have said you need to be relaxed and not forced. You need to concentrate as well
But "Jane" described it as a breathing technique. She would breath at the beginning of what for lack of better description I will call "The Down stroke" and when she was all the way down she would be able to breath through her nose. This is probably where the concentration and relaxation are crucial. Relaxation must also be very crucial to controlling the gag reflexes.

Thats my two cents worth.......

Killswitch

 

[Mockingbird]

Sheez, not trivializing the art of deep throat ( by ANY means) or the thread and I cant believe I am posting this but here goes........

I know little on the subject technically speaking because I am a heterosexual man.....but.....also the master of deep throating.

Like others here have said you need to be relaxed and not forced. You need to concentrate as well
For me it's a breathing technique. I breath at the beginning of what for lack of better description I will call "The Down stroke" and when am all the way down on that beautiful I can breath through my nose. Relaxation is also very crucial to controlling my gag reflexes.

Thats why I am the master of deep throating

Killswitch

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