deepthroat...

[rosebud5446]

okay, so i can finally deepthroat. i'm still new at it, and can only do it in certain positions. straightening my neck is not one of them oddly enough. i think i can't do it with my neck straight is because i'm not comfortable, and the only position where i am comfortable is probably kneeling in front of him. anyway... the problem is, my bf says that it kind of hurts when it goes around the curve of my throat. i'm wondering if this hurts all guys??? and if there are any other tips anyone could give me?

 

[TBKahuna123]

the problem is, my bf says that it kind of hurts when it goes around the curve of my throat.

Tell him to stop whining! It kinda hurts? Small price to pay!

 

[rosebud5446]

well, what's the point of doing it if he doesn't enjoy it?

 

[rcuhljr]

The only thing I could think of is trying to straighten out your throat. Perhaps when you are in front of him try moving back a little so you need to extend your jaw. Or if you could try laying on a bed with your head hanging off, lets you control him easily to get used to it.

 

[LadyJeanne]

well, what's the point of doing it if he doesn't enjoy it?

There isn't one, unless he or you get off on the idea that he's that far in your throat.

 

[Carnus]

I wonder what his definition of kind of hurts would be, lets face it a woman learning to deepthroat just to please me, well ok, if kind of hurts is a light sensation I would not even mention it, personally the man should be damned honored you would do that for him, tell him to stop whining, if a woman is willing to do that for him he should just enjoy, many things have little aches and pains with them, and are still quite enjoyable.

Carnus

 

[rosebud5446]

he knows i like to deep throat... i love practicing and getting better at it, but he just doesn't seem to like it much. he seems to like it until it goes past my gag reflex or whatever... if i could practice more, and get more comfortable doing it, i would be able to straghten my throat and still be reletavely comfortable doing so.

 

[SweetErika]

he knows i like to deep throat... i love practicing and getting better at it, but he just doesn't seem to like it much. he seems to like it until it goes past my gag reflex or whatever... if i could practice more, and get more comfortable doing it, i would be able to straghten my throat and still be reletavely comfortable doing so.

You could always practice with a dildo. You get to work on it more, he doesn't have to be the test subject; problem solved.

 

[anders^g]

SweetErika, you're have such great knowledge and insight! Good idea!

You could always practice with a dildo. You get to work on it more, he doesn't have to be the test subject; problem solved.

 

[SweetErika]

SweetErika, you're have such great knowledge and insight! Good idea!

It seemed like a simple, obvious idea, but thank you for the compliment, Anders.

 

[CowBoy18^]

i dunno, i dont particularly enjoy bj's, never had a girl deepthroat, course her mouth is tiny to begin with n i always end up rubbing against her teeth (painful) i should tell her the advice posted above tho, maybe it'll help

 

[TBKahuna123]

well, what's the point of doing it if he doesn't enjoy it?

Sorry, I was being sarcastic, well kinda. I guess that was a little out of character for my normally serious demeanor. I guess I've never had it hurt me, but then again I'm not so well endowed as to give my wife vocal cord damage.

 

[M's girl]

Having sex and trying new things should be fun for both. It seems to me sometimes people feel like they HAVE to try and enjoy new things because otherwise..... yeah.... otherwise what anyway? I happen to do deep throat sometimes but I must be in the mood, otherwise it does not work. Sometimes it works better than other times. I know when it works and when not, and if not there is no way it's going to be pleasurable for him or me. So that's it, we won't go there then. Simple as that.

 

[sseg]

bent...

okay, so i can finally deepthroat. i'm still new at it, and can only do it in certain positions. straightening my neck is not one of them oddly enough. i think i can't do it with my neck straight is because i'm not comfortable, and the only position where i am comfortable is probably kneeling in front of him. anyway... the problem is, my bf says that it kind of hurts when it goes around the curve of my throat. i'm wondering if this hurts all guys??? and if there are any other tips anyone could give me?

Well, anyone whose dick is long enough to be bent when given deep throat. Mine's average length and when it's really hard or I'm with someone who is smaller, it does hurt a bit when given deep throat because it bends it. Good for you to want to make it better for him, and don't listen to the folks who say "he should put up with it and be grateful." Sex isn't about gratitude, it's about sharing pleasure.

As for making it better for him, the easiest time is when the curve of the penis matches the curve of the throat. Mine has a slight curve up and to the left, so deepthroating feels better in the 69 position or off to the left. Oddly, regular oral sex feels better from the right or from below...
So if his has a curve, try going with the curve, even if it's only a slight
curve.

 

[FastFastr]

he knows i like to deep throat... i love practicing and getting better at it, but he just doesn't seem to like it much. he seems to like it until it goes past my gag reflex or whatever... if i could practice more, and get more comfortable doing it, i would be able to straghten my throat and still be reletavely comfortable doing so.

If you need a practice partner, just let me know.

 

[Vixandra]

You might try kneeling atop his chest, pretty much a 69 with you on top and deep throating him that way.

If he curves toward his belly (many men do) then the curve of his penis will follow the curve of your throat better. Same reason they used curved supports when they put breathing tubes into people- following the curve of one's airway makes it easier.

 

[silverwhisper]

oo, i like that one, vixandra!

ed

 

[asian_princess]

hey rosebud, i've been with partners who were on the larger size, who've had this same problem, usually because they're uncircumcised and find that the grazing of the head of their penis against the very back of my throat as he/i'm thrusting can be a little uncomfortable in the beginning...but you can try these two positions that i found worked. I know you mentioned that you don't really like straightening your neck because it's uncomfortable, hope fully these positions might help simply because, while youre throat is straightened, its still supported and you can more less still vary the position of the rest of your body.

Firstly, one thats already been mentioned (and my fav ) wheré you lie on your back with you head hanging slightly off the bed, this gives a very very clear path down your throat and you can always still control him by bracing your hands against his thighs if you're worried about not being able to control the speed and depth.

Secondly, both of you lying on your sides, so that way you can lie with your head supported by your hand or shoulder and your body at an angle so that your neck is straight and hopefully eliminated that curve of the neck thing that seems to be causing him some discomfort experiment, you might find that you might have to lie 90 degrees to his body to get a good angle!

The most important thing though is, as you said, what's the point in doing it if he doesnt enoy it and the same goes for you ...remember to enjoy the process